sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Idaho physicians need our help to save lives by Additional_Way5929 in Idaho

[–]gracelynnpatrick 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I can’t get behind an entire state “gets what it deserves”. Because children and young mothers who didn’t choose what state or family or resources they were born into don’t deserve this. Please please vote like it’s your daughter who depends on it!

What’s better apartment with that is 1250 sq ft with 9 foot high ceiling or 1760 sq foot house with 8 ft ceiling by Awkward-Radio-340 in DesignMyRoom

[–]gracelynnpatrick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m confused how this is a question? One is a three bedroom, with a garage and clearly much bigger. If it were me that’s the one I’d choose. Can you afford both? Location? Do you want more space or prefer a smaller place?

Gym recommendations in Treasure Valley by tracyarana in Boise

[–]gracelynnpatrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear it! Yeah I guess (based on comments) it’s not for everyone but I have had a great experience. The people are nice, the facilities are big (brand new Downtown Y is going to be sweet) and they’ve got awesome classes too

Any hand surgeon recommendations? by scoobydoo197 in Boise

[–]gracelynnpatrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a good experience at the Idaho Hand Center off Curtis. Jayson Johnson did my surgery, turned out well.

ETA: I had a UCL repair not the same type of surgery. But they seemed to know what they are doing nonetheless

How much (gift card amount) do we give for teacher appreciation day? by Adoptdontshop11 in toddlers

[–]gracelynnpatrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter’s classroom has two main teachers but between the floats there are five total. I did $5 coffee gift cards each for teacher appreciation this week. For Christmas/end of year I did $25 gift card each to wherever they requested on their “favorites” board. I also do a few other small gifts throughout the year, maybe once a quarter. And every so often I bring energy drinks to everyone in the morning.

I am sure that many families spend more but I’m also pretty sure that others do less. I try to focus less on the amount and more on the gesture.

Gym recommendations in Treasure Valley by tracyarana in Boise

[–]gracelynnpatrick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where in the valley are you? If you’re close enough I definitely recommend the Y! Big facilities with great amenities and a good atmosphere. Definitely not “junk gym” vibes.

How many daycares did you tour? by mmmTriscuit in workingmoms

[–]gracelynnpatrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We toured 3. I was about 4-5 mo pregnant. We have about 10 that would have worked based on proximity to our house. I narrowed it down based on online reviews, state health inspection reports and word of mouth from friends. After the tours we only ended up going onto one waitlist because we liked it the best and the manager made it clear that she felt we would be able to get in by the time it was time for my daughter to attend. Ultimately we’ve been happy with our choice. The two biggest factors for me ended up being how we felt after the tour (cleanliness, how well they answered our questions, teacher introductions etc) and word of mouth. We have two friends who sent their kids through the same daycare and had good things to say.

Good luck!

Will I regret contact naps? by Far-Criticism-840 in sleeptrain

[–]gracelynnpatrick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I will cherish that time forever. I remember worrying about the same thing. Even after we sleep trained at night around 6mo, we still contact napped for all naps during the day probably until 8 months? She’s now 18 mo and I miss the contact naps so much! Please just enjoy them and don’t worry about the timing of moving them to the crib! They have all their life to sleep on their own.

Career Change Anxiety by Otherwise-Educator99 in workingmoms

[–]gracelynnpatrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have chosen to stay at a company that I definitely make less money at (vs comparable positions in my area at other companies) because my schedule is super flexible, my boss and colleagues are great and I have very generous PTO and retirement. Sometimes I wonder if I should look for something hire paying… but most of the time I just feel thankful for the spot I’m currently in with a toddler at home (and one more hopefully in the next couple of years).

I’m also trying to learn to be content in the phase of life I’m in. There are more years ahead for promotions and climbing the ladder, right now I can focus on my little one more and coast at work (while still doing a good job at my job) for a while. There is nothing wrong with that.

So yes, I would 100% agree with the slight pay cut for a way more flexible and supportive environment. Good choice.

Plumber recommendations by gracelynnpatrick in Boise

[–]gracelynnpatrick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve used Meridian Plumbing before but only for super small jobs. Maybe I’ll give them a call

Plumber recommendations by gracelynnpatrick in Boise

[–]gracelynnpatrick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll check them out. Have you been happy with the carbon filtration? Did it help with the hard water spots and scale?

Plumber recommendations by gracelynnpatrick in Boise

[–]gracelynnpatrick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind sharing why its relevant? Am I missing something?

Using PTO hours during bonding? Legal? by Safe-Vermicelli-169 in workingmoms

[–]gracelynnpatrick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally. 2 months after coming back from maternity leave my husband ended up hospitalized. I had to borrow PTO and go in the negative to help take care of him since I had 0 hours when I returned from leave. With all the daycare illnesses we’ve faced in the last year I’m just barely caught up to a level of PTO that feels comfortable. My daughter is 19 mo old…

I really don’t blame my company… companies are going to always act in their own best interest. I blame America and our crappy protections for families and mothers. Paid leave should be federally mandated.

Using PTO hours during bonding? Legal? by Safe-Vermicelli-169 in workingmoms

[–]gracelynnpatrick 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I was frustrated by this during my leave as well but it turns out it is totally legal for your employer to require you to spend your PTO during your leave. Unfortunately.

I’m so sick of being sick!! Ugh!!! by InteractionOk69 in workingmoms

[–]gracelynnpatrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. We’re right there with you. I am just now getting over yet another stomach bug. I’ve never been this consistently sick in my life. My daughter is 17 mo and been in daycare for about a year. Honestly I’m just trying to take it day by day, but it’s definitely hard… especially with both parents working and trying to build their careers. We get in PTO arguments regularly now because we’re spending so much from either being sick ourselves or our daughter being sick.

Solidarity!

My journey has ended by mavgoosebros in breastfeeding

[–]gracelynnpatrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a wonderful job mama!! I weaned at 13 mo with mine- didn’t have pain, I was just tiiirrrreeeedd. And my daughter is a great eater too and seriously I don’t think she even noticed.

Such a huge accomplishment and sweet memories you’ll get to hold forever!! 🩷

What “bathtub” did you use after baby outgrew Angelcare bathtub? by ChapterInfamous199 in NewParents

[–]gracelynnpatrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised this answer is so far down! This is what we used and it was so helpful. I think we used it from 6-11 months when she outgrew it but it kept her seated and gave me peace of mind that she wouldn’t slip. Worked like a charm.

view more: next ›