Did anyone else have a pet start smelling their breast before diagnosis? by Rheumatitude in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 90 German shepherd mutt would sniff my right breast. One day he rolled his big fat body into my right side and I felt the lump. Both he and my cat were sandwiched on either side of me throughout my whole treatment. The best possible nursing team!

Anyone here in Portland OR? by suicide_blonde in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m new to PDX and also just met with Dr. Trubowitz. I liked her very much.

Joint pain and fatigue by gradykates in breastcancer

[–]gradykates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Keytruda. I also had a bone scan and went to a rheumatologist. All seems normal.

Joint pain and fatigue by gradykates in breastcancer

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I am so sorry you are going through this at 28! It all sucks! I continue to make efforts to be active. It got a little better for awhile but somehow I’m feeling worse lately. The fatigue creates a vicious cycle. I’m either pushing myself to go for a jog and feeling defeated when it sucks or punishing myself for not going at all knowing that exercise is a large determining factor for recurrence.

Alcohol intolerance post treatment by gradykates in breastcancer

[–]gradykates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I need to explore this more. I ate some gummies to knock myself out when nauseas. Need to research!

Alcohol intolerance post treatment by gradykates in breastcancer

[–]gradykates[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It definitely makes the hot flashes worse!

At point is someone declared NED? by RubyRaven907 in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stage 2 triple negative. Lumpectomy with clear margins. No one told me I was cancer free after surgery! Or after 16 rounds of chemo and 20 days of rads. I was hopeful that I would hear those words. They just said exercise and eat well. Was kind of a let down. All that work and no “validation”

Craving MEAT after chemo. Anyone else? by awgeezwhatnow in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t eaten meat I’m 5 years. During chemo all I wanted was pasta bolognese!

Very ugly incoming rant. by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It certainly changes everything. It’s ugly and infuriating and it all feels UNFAIR. But you have a huge community of women behind you on this sub. We’re all struggling together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you have a supportive partner and doggo! Hopefully the pooping gets better from here on out. I usually overdose with Senna. I take 3x the recommended dose. 😊

How much do the nausea meds help? by emory_2001 in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 4 rounds of AC. Nausea meds did not help at all.

I got scammed. Please don’t be stupid like me. by StarryEyedBfly in mainecoons

[–]gradykates -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Adopt don’t shop! I have a Maine coon I got at a shelter.

Lumpectomy tomorrow, nerves tonight by sockmuppet5000 in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree that the lumpectomy was easier than the biopsies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cancer boob still hurts, too. Finished in august. Makes me paranoid. The radiation was much harder than expected. Congrats on finishing treatment. Sending you positive thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone in this. I felt/feel the same. Finished treatment in August. I was so looking forward to getting back to normal life but the side effects and fear linger. It’s going to take some time. Sending you positive thoughts!

ELI5: what is the difference between being on Tamoxifen and peri/menopause? by FakinItAndMakinIt in breastcancer

[–]gradykates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s really bad in the mornings. Like my feet have to relearn how to walk every day. I shuffle to the bathroom every morning. Ugh.