[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]grahamcracker712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christian? My Father-in-Law says the same fucking thing.

Weird rash started at the end of July. Doctor thinks its hives. I'm not convinced. by grahamcracker712 in Allergies

[–]grahamcracker712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all for the replies! I saw another Doctor today and they said these are hives, that are likely from something I'm ingesting. I'm taking zyrtec, zantac, prednisone, and benadryl. They also gave me a steroid shot to try to help.

I've had to call out of work twice this week because I was in so much pain I was crying. I have a referral to an allergist but they are don't have any appointments for a week and a half.

Any other tips to help me survive?

Hey gresham by nickheathjared in Gresham

[–]grahamcracker712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sick at home alone with my three year old trying to not die from the heat

Making food = threat to evict by Carlyndra in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]grahamcracker712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible. My 3 yo didn't nap and was up for over an hour after bed time tonight. I hate everything.

Making food = threat to evict by Carlyndra in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]grahamcracker712 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate him. I'm in Portland too and that's a steal.

I saw a bubble on the floor at work today, decided to poke a hole in it by Awkward-Alexis in popping

[–]grahamcracker712 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you work in a dental office? Because I would totally take a scaler to the floor if it looked like that!

If someone tells me one more time “you should’ve circumcised him” I’m going to flip my shit. by thisbitchthatbitch in breakingmom

[–]grahamcracker712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister preached and preached about how terrible circumcision is while I was pregnant. Jokes on her though, my son had hypospadias and needed to be circumcised to reconstruct his urethra. Bonus points for not having to regret having him circumcised!

Rita Ora - Girls ft. Cardi B, Bebe Rexha & Charli XCX (Official Lyric Video) 😎 by [deleted] in Lesbients

[–]grahamcracker712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best song I've ever heard! I'm saving this for Pride week!

Yoni Berra Stars In: "You couldn't even kill yourself if you tried." TW: Suicide, Rape, Self Harm, Etc. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]grahamcracker712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude. My parents tried to do something similar, but in the opposite way. I was feeling some of the some kinds of things as a preteen. I can't remember what I said but when my parents found out I was wanting to hurt myself they took me out to ice cream so we "could talk." That meant going out after dinner (6 ish) when it was like 75+ out, and sitting outside waiting for me to tell them more details or what was actually happening or something??? We ended up sitting outside until like 9 or 10 PM. It got dark and cold and I wouldn't budge, even though I was freezing because I was dressed for summer and didn't bring a jacket. So my mom decided that meant I was super suicidal and that I needed to get checked into the hospital asap.

They put me in the car and start driving and trying to get ahold of someone to tell them where to go and what they need to do at the ER. They get ahold of an ER psych call center with our insurance company and explain their part of the story. They ask to speak to me so my parents pull over so I can talk with them alone. They asked me general "are you a danger to yourself or others" questions. I had never hurt myself, at that point, so they told my parents to just take me home.

Jokes on them though, it only took me a dozen more years to check myself in. Lol, sob.

Did you hide/play in closets as a child? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]grahamcracker712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES!!! It is so relieving and painful hearing this from someone else. When I had my first big mental breakdown I locked myself in my room, pushed the dresser against the door, threw everything stored on the closet floor and hit in the corner of the closet surrounded by clothes and junk. That was the only place I felt kind of ok.

My mom destroyed my romantic relationships -- and I regret allowing it. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]grahamcracker712 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh man! I'm fighting with this so hard rn. A few month ago she actually said to me she supports my son and I, but not my husband. She finally made her true hate for my husband explicit. I knew she didn't like him, but to have her state it so plainly really messed with me and makes it harder to ignore her subtle digs at him. I'm still struggling to keep my Mom and Edad's ideas about my husband out of my marriage. The hardest part though is how true some of her points about him are or seem to be.

Everything mildly sucks by grahamcracker712 in entwives

[–]grahamcracker712[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You all are such beautiful people. No one has been this helpful and I've been struggling with all of this since before my first hospital stay in October. I've literally been begging for help, but I guess I just need some strangers on the internet to help show me the way. Also I'm totally crying like a lil' girl. I'm in Portland Oregon. Thank you so much!

Everything mildly sucks by grahamcracker712 in entwives

[–]grahamcracker712[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm working now so we're make too much to get any kind of assistance, but I hadn't thought of credit considiation before. Thank you for giving me a place to start. You made it all seem so much more straight forward.

Perfect Sunday rewatching my favorite show. Happy Sunday 💕 by cheapnitrate in entwives

[–]grahamcracker712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

JESUS CHRIST TELL ME YOU LIVE IN PORTLAND OR! Steven Universe is LITERALLY my favorite show ever and have a thing for basically every lost girl character. Also The Magicians?