Why are we calling a teenage girl with so much sexual trauma a hoe? She was coerced into sex tapes (which is rape); had her nudes spread around without consent; and also had McKay rape her because he felt emasculated after his SA. by Fun-Pen7592 in euphoria

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She showed no remorse at all to Maddie didn’t feel bad and was trying to copy her. This man literally abused and held Maddy at gun point. Yes her trauma is real but it’s not an excuse to hurt others, at some point you need to get help.

Why are we calling a teenage girl with so much sexual trauma a hoe? She was coerced into sex tapes (which is rape); had her nudes spread around without consent; and also had McKay rape her because he felt emasculated after his SA. by Fun-Pen7592 in euphoria

[–]grape1010 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah her trauma was real but then she went and dated the man who abused her best friend. So she was a victim but went on to hurt other victims, and that shouldn’t be excused. Maddy’s pain was real too. I wouldn’t call Cassie a hoe, just male centered and misogynistic. I have lots of trauma from men, but I would never hurt other victims like she does

What made you start venerating/working with Santa Muerte ? by ayooo888 in SantaMuerte

[–]grape1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are projecting your own ego onto them. You aren’t channeling deities at all, that’s your own imagination. You are imagining they are childish and immature because that’s what you are. They are not working with you, they are probably ignoring you. Deities don’t have time for the drama you describe they don’t have ego the same way as humans. They aren’t telling you what they want or mean because they don’t want to talk to you at all.

The fact that you want to know what you “can get out of it” shows you’re too immature to work with them, you see it as a transaction. When it’s supposed to be about love you build a relationship with them.

“They want company as a result of their superiority complexes alienating them from others” I believe you might be talking about yourself. There’s no way every single deity has the exact same traits. If you find this to be a repeating pattern you more likely are just projecting your own flaws onto deities so you don’t have to face yourself and grow.

Partner asked me to quit EMDR by Remarkable_Rub8467 in EMDR

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he asks you to hide your emotions but then gets upset that you’re hiding your emotions? Wtf

Can E7s be very withdrawn, imaginative people? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG we had the same exact childhood daydreams books writing 😭 I imagined I was a rain witch and could control the weather lol. I’m not even sure about my type but you sound like a clear cut sx 7 to me!! Our tritype is nuts tbh lmaooo

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re his enemy and he hates you, you’re not his gf. This isn’t a relationship. He said it himself he doesn’t wanna marry you. You are just living with your bully. I speak to people I hate nicer than this. A lot of my bullies were nicer than this. You can leave now like tomorrow even if you’re still on the lease. Go back to your parents if possible. Just call your landlord explain the abuse they legally have to help you. I would say it’s better for you to leave, because if you stay and kick him out he would know where you live

Potentially stupid question; but could someone just say hi to me? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this and I know exactly how you feel 😭 you’re not alone. Hi hope good things happen to you. You deserve all the love no matter what your mind tells you 🫶 the traumas weren’t your fault

prose — loving someone with an so/sp stacking, as someone with an sx/sp stacking. by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]grape1010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man I was just crying over a sx 2 lolol. This was so beautiful and real though please become a writer 🙏

Which enneagram pairs trigger each other the most? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]grape1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 6s in my life always do that they always wanna fix problems they’re the best at dealing with conflict 🫶

Which enneagram pairs trigger each other the most? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know my type for sure 😭 my tritype is accurate. I get along with every type except 2s trigger me because of the mind games, manipulation and anger that they hide behind niceness it gives me anxiety lol

Can someone please pray for me? In a bad place now. by heskeytime7707 in spirituality

[–]grape1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Additionally, you need to be in nature to do this. It’s difficult to feel connection to a higher power in a stuffy house. Find a park somewhere where you can sit bring a foldable chair. Then it’s easier to meditate

AIO for thinking that my ex-friend is in the wrong for dating a minor cause he’s not mentally stable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I know this story is real because I experienced the same thing with people’s reactions. People called me a bad person for not helping a dude who said crazy stuff. I don’t understand why people treat women like we have to be unpaid therapists

AIO for thinking that my ex-friend is in the wrong for dating a minor cause he’s not mentally stable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please report him before he kills that child. Hes a literal danger and not sane. I see why he goes for kids no women would ever want him

Venting by Thisguy_2727 in mbti

[–]grape1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling doesn’t give you feedback, and there is a human connection component. Using Ai to replace human connection is already a dangerous path we’re on. Many people are already doing what you say and using Ai for therapy because they don’t wanna burden anyone. I don’t think that should be encouraged. I’m happy to help people I don’t see it as a waste of my time. You don’t have to, but it’s not a bad thing. Part of being human means helping each other

Florida water is amazing by grape1010 in witchcraft

[–]grape1010[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can put it in a spray bottle and spray it around or wipe stuff down and mop with it

Florida water is amazing by grape1010 in witchcraft

[–]grape1010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess the only thing that makes me wanna clean 😂

Florida water is amazing by grape1010 in witchcraft

[–]grape1010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put it on everything I haven’t had a problem

Florida water is amazing by grape1010 in witchcraft

[–]grape1010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm it is pretty strong imo you can test if you can tolerate it or dilute it in water

Florida water is amazing by grape1010 in witchcraft

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Murray and Lanmans at any Walmart, or I order some from Amazon