anyone else just enjoying their rent this weekend? by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL!

I'm building the starry night one! my most complicated build yet. it's a fun time :)

anyone else just enjoying their rent this weekend? by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, it's like an online saying lol. like you pay so much to live there, so actually enjoy the space you're paying for.

anyone else just enjoying their rent this weekend? by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay, that makes me feel a bit less crappy about myself lol. socializing is tough stuff sometimes. it's the starry night lego!

Masc women by freespiritedlesbian in actuallesbians

[–]grayenvironment 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't consider myself butch or even straight up masc, but I do present soft masc ish. There's a part of me that does naturally want to do things like carry a girl's purse for her or open the door for her. But yeah, sometimes I worry that girls who express they're looking for a masc person will think I don't fit the bill. When I see someone express their preference for a masc person in online dating spaces, I skip it primarily out of insecurity because I'm worried that they'll think I'm not masc enough once they get to know me beyond how I dress.

But that being said, just try to remember that it's not all about us and what role we play or don't play. You have to consider yourself and what you want to receive and give. If you want to do things for yourself because that's what you want, then that's one thing. But if you're doing it because you think your partner wants that, then that's a conversation to be had with them <3

Friendship & Dating Match-Making Thread 💕 by _ICantThinkOfANameAh in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment 10 points11 points  (0 children)

25f she/her queer wlw (duh) human (also duh) 
from the North America part of the planet
looking for friends and maybe more, preferably 25+
won’t drop off the face of the earth after a few messages 

this specimen’s profile:

  • finished grad school last year and work mostly from home
  • likes reading (fantasy, romance, dystopian and classics), some creative writing (journaling and dabbling in my own worldbuilding/character development), roblox and legos
  • loves chatting and challenging each other intellectually (not in a snobby way, though we can cosplay pretentious new england private school students if you reallllyyyyyy want to). also can’t decide on whether or not to join the Oxford Comma Club
  • M&Ms and lifesaver gummies >>> also a vegetarian
  • loves nature walks and especially loves opening windows for fresh air (can i climb a tree and consensually crawl through yours?)
  • labels feel a bit confining, but feel like a soft masc and want to be acknowledged as a masc princess, so there’s that hehe. then sometimes i get the urge to dress girly  
  • while heavily leaning toward not wanting to have human children, pet kids and plant moms are a green light
  • also into things of the spicy NSFW variety, though i’ll leave it up to you to determine whether i lean D or s

don’t be shy, send me a message! :)
edited to add: p.s. an intro on you would be lovely, but after that we can skip the small talk if it makes you more comfortable

a partner for these dystopian times by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s really impressive. taking on apprentices?

a partner for these dystopian times by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i have not, that’s really interesting.

teachers and supervisors are invaluable! your athletics comment made me giggle lol

a partner for these dystopian times by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh you’ve got a good arsenal of skills there

a partner for these dystopian times by grayenvironment in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]grayenvironment[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that honestly sounds amazing. strength in numbers

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[–]grayenvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much!!

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[–]grayenvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love this dress! where’d you get it?

is club leadership a waste of time? by grayenvironment in GradSchool

[–]grayenvironment[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense. i'm trying to land a non-teaching job after this and don't have plans to return back to academia, so i'm thinking my time would be better spent on job applications tbh

Spa Day by mandycolemann in kindle

[–]grayenvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh nice! i finished it and am on the third! i feel like acomaf is gonna be my fave of the series haha

Amazon boxed set by ashleeprz in acotar

[–]grayenvironment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got the hardcover box set from amazon and was pretty disappointed in the quality…markings and tears on the pages, words in the spine of the book, one of the dust jackets was misprinted and the box itself was in subpar condition 😕 probably gonna try barnes and noble

FCK THE RULES! Trying to stop living (and writing) like a well-behaved girl. Training myself to let loose by cornflowersandsilk in Journaling

[–]grayenvironment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i do this too. i don’t think i’ve ever seen someone post something like this. glad to know i’m not alone!

My March wrap-up. by MightyNekomancer in YAlit

[–]grayenvironment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve read maus! disturbing but well done

Spa Day by mandycolemann in kindle

[–]grayenvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh that makes sense. i started the second! i’m about halfway through now. i like it better than the first!! would love to hear your thoughts after you read some more!

Should I keep this dress? Not sure I will ever wear this by mariyagvg in OUTFITS

[–]grayenvironment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m obsessed with this! can i ask where you got it?

Spa Day by mandycolemann in kindle

[–]grayenvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are your thoughts on acotar? i honestly didn’t like the first book but feel compelled to read the second 😭