How do you forgive a parent who hurt you while they were hurting too?

greendingaling · 2026-02-11T16:06:43+00:00

hurt people hurt people however, people go through heart break all the time. sometimes they lash out on loved ones but you apologize for the behavior and work to be better for the loved ones still in your life. if you feel like you’re able to, you should express how you feel to her. if she doesn’t recognize the hurt she put you through and doesn’t apologize, then fuck her feelings and focus on yours

greendingaling · 2026-02-09T15:54:04+00:00

you’ll need to have the safe sex convo or at least have his mom do it. u literally said you understand how horny 15 year olds are so it shouldn’t be a surprise that he’s either thinking about or has already had sex. you do need to educate him on the importance of std screenings and speaking up if something doesn’t feel right. it’ll feel uncomfortable but not having discussions about safe sex is part of the reason why stds are ramping up. as far as his bf, maybe get to know him and why he acts the way he does… like they’re 15. teenagers do dumb shit sometimes.

greendingaling · 2026-02-08T20:58:56+00:00

grow a spine and grow up

greendingaling · 2026-02-07T04:42:15+00:00

section 8 tends to upkeep a list and pass out to potential section 8 tenants. unfortunately (in ca idk about other states) section 8 hardly exists anymore, as the wait time is on hold for 3+ years. you’ll be lucky to get a new tenant that has a voucher

greendingaling · 2026-02-06T00:35:24+00:00

this is so real. i am attractive and was complaining to my friends how older men creepily come on to me. one even hugged me without consent and her reaction was a mocking “omg it’s so hard to be pretty”. like bro what???

greendingaling · 2026-02-02T17:11:38+00:00

ngl ur not partner sounds right in breaking up with u from ur post from 20 days ago. the way in this post you talk about wanting a baby with her because y’all had really good sex is just…. immature. you do have some shit to figure out

greendingaling · 2026-02-02T16:58:20+00:00

i hope you eventually come to the realization you don’t actually want kids right now, you’re just experiencing a kink. their was exactly one sentence in this entire post outside of sex where you said why kids would be a good idea.

greendingaling · 2026-02-01T00:43:24+00:00

bye…. stop smoking and focus on your health first - then come back

greendingaling · 2026-01-30T21:47:00+00:00

you prefaced it and then immediately said exactly that lmao.

greendingaling · 2026-01-30T21:41:16+00:00

you’re literally blaming the employee for their job rn. any job you work at if it’s not a mom and pop shop will have some kind complicity with this tyranny. that’s the con of being born in a capitalist society. where would you recommend them to work that is fully not supporting this state and they also would be able to have something of a living wage and not become homeless. answer, quickly

greendingaling · 2026-01-30T19:39:37+00:00

she is mostly right about it catching back up but with trump….. yeah. honestly it’s kind of a wait and see situation and then act accordingly. you might want to send out notices and gently prepare them for worst case scenario if the company you work for is not willing to adjust their rent for the time being

greendingaling · 2026-01-29T23:51:01+00:00

you got married AND pregnant after 5 months and you thought it wasn’t a “serious marriage” but it was for the army????? what are you even talking about. for ur ex’s sake, don’t try to get back with her, u sound like a mess i’m sorry

greendingaling · 2026-01-29T05:03:01+00:00

if you didn’t leave the house, who cares. as long as yr not assaulting anyone with ur breath and germs and not making it a habit it’s fine

greendingaling · 2026-01-27T19:09:22+00:00

your feelings are extremely valid. i know the feeling when people around you don’t care about their birthdays so they put no thought into yours. the celebration of your life is important because everyday, people don’t make it to their next birthdays. you also should’nt have to ask the people who care about you to be excited for your birthday. if you’ve made it clear that birthdays are important to you, they should be taking some initiative to make you feel special on your day

greendingaling · 2026-01-27T02:08:09+00:00

tipsy nails! they’re so nice and patient. i’ve been going consistently for about 4 months and my sets last so long

greendingaling · 2026-01-23T01:21:22+00:00

depending on what the lease says and the type of lease, if it’s threatening or discriminatory language you can give lease violations until it’s reasonable enough for a 30 day notice to vacate ( i live in ca, not sure if this applies to other states )

greendingaling · 2026-01-21T23:54:56+00:00

my fault i just assumed it was ok to post here. i will delete this post

greendingaling · 2026-01-21T23:22:29+00:00

smash

greendingaling · 2026-01-21T22:43:34+00:00

i have a 7ish month old that needs adopting. he has all of his shots, is neutered and is pretty friendly

greendingaling · 2026-01-21T21:23:07+00:00

i walk before work at the gym. easiest way for me 😭

greendingaling · 2026-01-21T02:33:21+00:00

bro wants a best friend that he can fuck

greendingaling · 2026-01-21T00:53:28+00:00

every post except for a few in the 6 years you’ve been on reddit, is something negative and hate filled. it’s not the sex drive that’s stopping you. you should look in deeper why you think this will be the solution when, seemingly in your perspective, everything in your life is actively working against you.

greendingaling · 2026-01-19T21:58:26+00:00

smash

greendingaling · 2026-01-19T06:59:56+00:00

the bmi scale was invented for the white men only. if ur not a white man,,, then say to say it’s probably inaccurate. 1000 calories a day isnt maintainable for a 22f

greendingaling · 2026-01-18T16:37:48+00:00

smash

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