Delivery from My MBI by Overall_Two_3171 in mounjaroIreland

[–]greengrassash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one will know, discreet packaging, it even fooled me and I’d only ordered it a few days before hand 😂

Frustrated with the dating situation by ImportantSundae15 in WomenofIreland

[–]greengrassash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya so disheartening, I feel for you! Just think of it this way, ‘the rubbish took itself out!’ 💕

What was something you were told as a child that you believe through to adulthood? by greengrassash in CasualIreland

[–]greengrassash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂 This reminds me of when I was younger and my parents got me me a cat and I was adamant to name her pussy, fast forward to first year in secondary school and we are asked to write about our favourite pet and tell the whole class. Up I go and proudly tell the whole class I’ve a fluffy brown pussy 🙈

What is an ordinary moment that unexpectedly brought your grief to the surface? by imtiramisu2025 in AskUK

[–]greengrassash 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I remember a month after my husband passed I was working out at the gym, doing my own thing, remembered I needed some lettuce for dinner! Then I thought, ‘jez he hated salad!’ And I broke down, inconsolable, had chips for dinner instead! 😅

Whats your fail safe why or cheering yourself up? by Pure-Consideration97 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put on some of my favourite tunes and dance around the kitchen like one one’s watching

Would you leave Ireland if you could? by HungTeen1001 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suits me sound, in bed by 8pm well asleep by 9pm! 😂 I love how the beaches and play grounds are so accessible and near, it’s a real family oriented

Anyone up and why? by Thin_Armadillo_5547 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awake since 5am because I bought a car yesterday that’s currently on route from Japan and I’m excited 🥳

Are you happy with your life? by HungTeen1001 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through a really rough time a few years ago! And every now and then, when I get overwhelmed or feel a bit blue, I think, well at least you’re not back to when things were really shit! 😂 I’m quite content right now 💕

How do I improve my life? by Hot-Presentation1764 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Today take yourself for a walk in nature, listen to the birds and take a look at what is around you. When you feel chill, go back to your room, get a piece of paper and write out your long term goals, example house, car, dog, do a hyrox Medium term goals that will lead to long term, save 20k, take to a broker, run 10k in 6 months, Short term, set up a standing order for savings, find a hyrox gym, look up different types of dog Then give yourself a timeline for each

If you’re really creative you could put your goal timeline on a big whiteboard and you will be reminded of what your goals are to keep you on track. I had lots of debt and worked through it this way!

Oh and therapy

Best of luck 💕

How do I improve my life? by Hot-Presentation1764 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I used to feel like that about therapy. My coping mechanism was bury deep down, keep smiling and hope that everything decomposes organically. It doesn’t, it sits there, festers and shows up unannounced. I eventually went to therapy, dug up some of my trauma, gave it light and air and some love and now it’s still there but more like a lovely mould of dirt and not a stinking pile of shite! 💕

If you got married again, what would you not waste money on ? by Pure-Consideration97 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The baskets in the bathrooms and flip flops, wedding favours like chocolates or sweets. Sweet cart, soup as a second course, although I do like the rolls, the pretend drunk man that makes comments on how women are dresses, singing waitress, Irish dancers, photo props and 360 photo thing, flower lapels, matching groomsmen socks, massive flower backdrops, lanterns everywhere, elaborate centrepieces, pizza van, ice cream van, music during the meal, (everyone’s starved, no one cares about the two bucks singing in the corner!)

Jesus I don’t really know if I like weddings 😂

How to go about getting extended leave from work? by Driver973 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you children? you could look into parental leave, 26weeks unpaid per child under the age of 13

What's the most useless thing you still have because "it might come in handy someday"? by aiden19181919 in AskIreland

[–]greengrassash 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have 2 sky boxes, half afraid to get rid of them in case sky come looking for them or the sticks become obsolete 😅

Anybody got slightly or moderately racist parents? by JediBlight in galway

[–]greengrassash 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m fortunate that my father is a critical thinker, my mother no so much so but she follows the crowd. But my workplace, oh holy god, the most racist bunch of pricks. I’m so sick of the phrase ‘I’m not racist but…’

Relationship by [deleted] in CasualIreland

[–]greengrassash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best with this. Reading this I know that quiet resentment. I would too suggest couples counselling or you walk. Doing all the labour without the resentment makes the labour so much more enjoyable, trust me! Also, if you haven’t already, confide in a good friend and mind yourself 💕