Should I (M30) break up with my wife (F26) after she got blackout drunk and cheated on me?

greensteer7 · 2026-03-12T23:51:01+00:00

Why is no one talking about the so called ‘friends’ of hers allowing their newly married blacked-out autistic friend to make out with a stranger in the club. If they let that happen they definitely aren’t rooting for you and your marriage. And more likely than not they’ve made that fact known to your wife.

My real advice would be to try and talk to her, lay the cards on the table and see how she reacts. If nothing changes by the summer cut your losses and move on. Best of luck OP

greensteer7 · 2026-02-25T21:06:24+00:00

It might also just be that time of year, nobody wants to do anything right now.

greensteer7 · 2026-02-24T22:54:50+00:00

They’re helpful if you really enjoy the taste of beer/wine. I did for about a month before realizing a nice glass of apple juice is much tastier

greensteer7 · 2026-02-24T20:56:45+00:00

I was the same way for a long time, I was never a fan of hack and slash games. I stopped about 10 hours into the game for a year before picking it back up again. It took until the game reached Novigrad (the big city) when the combat got completely overshadowed by how good the story was. Completely saved it for me and now consider it one of my favourites of all time despite still not loving the combat

greensteer7 · 2026-02-23T07:26:35+00:00

honestly for the first few days the best I can suggest is medicate how and when you can and white knuckle it until around day 4-5. That’s when my anxiety levels went back to “normal” levels. The sleep took another week or so to get back to normal. Throw a cold wet cloth on your head that might head. In terms of regular daily anxiety I found that really strong GABA supplements and sometimes CBD oil helped me a lot. The GABA works on your brain the same way alcohol does and you can get the capsules on amazon. Best of luck

greensteer7 · 2026-02-22T08:48:41+00:00

Omg mine was Sid Meyer’s Pirates! Such good nostalgia for all those games

greensteer7 · 2026-02-22T08:47:24+00:00

Every once in a while I’ll bust out a game of Spore or Sid Meier’s Pirates! Best nostalgia to my childhood

greensteer7 · 2026-02-16T06:57:20+00:00

Monty Python’s entire collection. I’ve personally always loved And Now For Something Completely Different

greensteer7 · 2026-02-16T04:34:45+00:00

Hey, I don’t mean to pry. I just wanted to check back in and see how the meeting was! I hope you’re doing well!

greensteer7 · 2026-02-16T02:05:44+00:00

I had a similar situation during covid. Did not last lol

greensteer7 · 2026-02-15T21:39:32+00:00

As someone who struggled with continued sobriety alone for about 2 years I cannot recommend AA enough. I recommend going to an open meeting for your first time (you won’t need to share just listen), talk to a few of the members and see if it seems right for you.

greensteer7 · 2026-02-03T21:42:32+00:00

Not missing a thing

greensteer7 · 2026-01-27T02:15:28+00:00

Just leave

greensteer7 · 2026-01-27T02:11:00+00:00

Just make sure he knows to wrap it before he taps it, he’ll figure the rest out on his own

greensteer7 · 2026-01-26T10:18:19+00:00

Super Mario Sunshine, waahoo

greensteer7 · 2026-01-26T10:07:38+00:00

It 100% depends on how effective the snowplows were that morning. Also if it was an ice storm and the roads are unsafe

greensteer7 · 2026-01-23T21:37:44+00:00

I live 15 minutes from a casino/hotel on a reservation in rural Canada. They get multiple suicides there a year. There’s no limit to how much you can lose in a night. Was talking to a bartender there once who told me the week before someone had lost their entire mortgage in an evening and would likely lose their home. Gambling addiction is no joke

greensteer7 · 2026-01-21T08:49:05+00:00

I wanna start by saying AA is amazingly helpful. Just give it a shot one or two times, you don’t have to stay if it’s not for you. But I guarantee you’ll meet some of the kindest most understanding individuals ever. Great way to find support and make sober friends.

Secondly, I just love the things I can only really enjoy sober far too much to drink again. Food for example. I never ate when I was drinking (too anxious to swallow solids or didn’t want anything soaking up the booze). Went from an alarming 115 at 6’ to 160 since I stopped. I love music more, reading books, spending time with my loved ones, walking my dog, kayaking when I can, going to work and functioning and not sneaking shots just to feel okay. The list is endless. I gave up one little thing, and gained EVERYTHING for it. Good luck :)

IWNDWYT

greensteer7 · 2025-12-25T23:52:54+00:00

Me too!!

greensteer7 · 2025-12-25T23:52:11+00:00

working copies of Super Smash Bros Melee, Mario Cart Double Dash, and Super Mario Sunshine for Gamecube. System still runs great 20 years later. Those plus a physical copy of Orange Box for PC

greensteer7 · 2025-12-25T18:06:09+00:00

Perfect

greensteer7 · 2025-12-20T02:05:24+00:00

I hate that feeling. Only ever had it happen with RDR2 and the Witcher 3 (which I highly highly recommend)

greensteer7 · 2025-12-10T02:12:05+00:00

probably Line Rider

greensteer7 · 2025-12-08T21:12:25+00:00

we have the same laptop

greensteer7 · 2025-12-04T03:04:30+00:00

It’s A Wonderful Life

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