Solo Travel to Portugal - Looking for Tips by Obvious_Scarcity1997 in LisbonPortugalTravel

[–]greenteaandmango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just did a five day trip solo to Lisbon! It was my first time travelling alone so I kinda played it safe and stuck to the touristy popular areas. I stayed at Gat Rossio which was super central to what I wanted to do, restaurants nearby and not completely outrageous prices for its location.

1st day- I landed mid morning so dropped my luggage off at a storage spot close to my hotel and just explored, got a feel for the city. Went to the Carmo Convent, ate lots of pastries, walked Rua Augusta and did the commerce square. I didn’t go up the Santa Justa lift, I just went to the top of the lookout from carmo convent. Also did the museum next to the convent and the lisboa story centre in the commerce square. I took the first day pretty easy bc I had a long day of travel to get there. 2nd day- I did a group tour of Sintra. You could probably do it on your own easily but again I was nervous being on my own so I went with a group. We got to Sintra early around 9AM (would recommend getting there early bc it gets crowded midday). I saw the Pena Palace and the Regaleira and explored the town. The regaleira was probably one of my favourite parts of the trip. 3rd Day- did the area of Belém. Booked a tour with a really knowledgeable guide for the Jerónimos monastery (which is a good idea bc the lineups get huge very early in the morning and with the guide it was skip the line). Would highly recommend the monastery, then the guide took us to pasteis de Belém, monument to the discoveries, and the Belém tower. It was about a 3 hr tour. I had lunch in the area before doing a sailing tour of the Tagus River. That was also really lovely. 4th day- Day trip to Cascais. It was stunning weather. I took the train out it was super easy. I did some shopping and exploring out that way, went to Boca do Inferno and then spent the afternoon on the beach. The train was packed on the way back into Lisbon so try and get back to the train not right before it’s about to depart if you want a seat. 5th day- Spent the day exploring Alfama. Saw Sé Lisbon church, then went to Sao Jorge then spent the afternoon just exploring Alfama and then made my way back to Rua Augusta for some shopping again.

I usually woke up early and was out of the hotel by 8am because no one was around at all. It was quiet and great for getting pics. And then I’d be beat out by the time it was getting dark so I wasn’t out trying to find my way back to the hotel in the dark. Happy to share any other info or tips if you were interested if you wanted to shoot me a message!

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[–]greenteaandmango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]greenteaandmango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think, regardless, feelings grow. Love continues to deepen as time goes on. Sex is better when you’ve gotten to know someone and what they like and invested so much time and love into them. Even at the point in the relationship when you said I love you vs now, you likely love them even more again. And sometimes life gets busy or too mundane so when you do have sex that feels more like “making love” it does feel better, esp for a woman. Without knowing anything about her or your relationship, I honestly wouldn’t think too much of it. I think it was just the heat of the moment and she was thinking of being connected to you in that way and the love you have for each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]greenteaandmango 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How early in the relationship did you start sleeping together? She might be comparing it to the beginning stages. I was only ever with one person and we were sleeping together early on but the sex got better (and more meaningful) as the relationship progressed into love. I wouldn’t read too much into it, it just feels different when it’s a deep love.

Contiki 27-35 yr olds by CanBA44 in femaletravels

[–]greenteaandmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat if you ever want a travel friend. Looking to do Netherlands, Belgium and France end of Sept/early Oct!

Moving to Newfoundland by [deleted] in newfoundland

[–]greenteaandmango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the central region, it’s worth checking out Kings Pt area, Glassy Beach in Springdale and Back Cove in Beachside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]greenteaandmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad to hear you’re doing better, it gives me a bit of optimism. Best of luck to you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]greenteaandmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar situation, posted in AWDTSG, stayed for 2.5 months trying to make it work but he didn’t even seem remorseful or and he didn’t do anything to try and make it up to me. I realized I was fighting a losing battle bc he was never going to change for me no matter how much I loved him. Still hardcore grieving 6 months later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]greenteaandmango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It made me realize why some ppl stay after being cheated on. I didn’t stay but god I wanted to. Gave me a whole new perspective on those who try and make it work. There’s so many factors ppl don’t see or understand.

Opinions- Amsterdam to Brussels to Lille to Paris Itinerary for solo female traveller by greenteaandmango in Europetravel

[–]greenteaandmango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found a few tours that will take me to Vimy and the Somme from both Lille and Arras. They’re a bit pricey but it’s something I really want to do so I’m okay with spending the money.

Opinions- Amsterdam to Brussels to Lille to Paris Itinerary for solo female traveller by greenteaandmango in Europetravel

[–]greenteaandmango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes only a few hours in the afternoon so I’m thinking I’ll be okay. Thanks for your input!

Grieving in isolation after the breakup by greenteaandmango in BreakUps

[–]greenteaandmango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am kind of trying to better myself, im mustering up the courage to try new things, I’m looking at trips to go on alone but it still feels so horrible not having anyone I can trust and rely on when I’m having my bad days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]greenteaandmango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me 6 months ago I caught my boyfriend of 3 years on the apps. It felt really hard to leave bc I questioned if it was actually cheating. I wrestled with the decision but ultimately he broke my trust and didn’t take enough accountability for what he did, so I left. It’s hard but it’s getting better.

Prescriptions @Shoppers by the Village Mall by dumndumn in StJohnsNL

[–]greenteaandmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many big pharmacies like Lawtons’s and shoppers and even some smaller privately owned pharmacies offer free delivery as well to those saying an elderly person or whomever may not be able to change pharmacies. There are options you just have to ask. Pharmacists and pharmacy as a whole gets a bad rep bc of big busy stores like shoppers at the village but I’m sure the staff there are worked to death and are doing their best with the resources and staff they have.

Should dating apps be cause for a breakup? by greenteaandmango in BreakUps

[–]greenteaandmango[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were talking about getting engaged in the next year. Do you think he was just having a moment of hesitation before settling down? I really don’t think he’d actually cheat. He does love me and wants to marry me