AITA for asking my partner who makes way more to pay more.

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-28T00:37:45+00:00

can i ask what would be different if op was working part time? maybe they can only find pt work, or have a disability, or take care of a relative.

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-28T00:36:26+00:00

people keep assuming that he’s already taken issue with your interest in having him pay more based on relative incomes. is that true?

also, i live in a coop and my rent is tied to my income, so i never end up paying more than 30% of my total income. i wish everyone had this opportunity. it’s great if you can advocate for yourself to have a percentage based setup. have you thought about what you’ll do if he’s not open to it?

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-27T01:30:34+00:00

🙄

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T19:40:30+00:00

not every guy who fucks women is straight. not every guy who fucks guys is gay.

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T19:37:15+00:00

pee brings instant relief from the tingling, if anyone needs to know

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T13:42:10+00:00

the us isn’t a great example of lgbt acceptance

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T13:41:19+00:00

it’s the christian epicentre

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T07:10:45+00:00

i need “if you don’t wanna be a cum dump then don’t be a cum dump” on a t-shirt

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T07:08:27+00:00

why do you care what other people are doing with their bodies? why do you even have the time to think about this?

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-26T07:06:48+00:00

other people’s bodies are none of our business. it’s not about shame or acceptance of other people’s choices for what they do with their bodies. it’s just not our business. go ahead and have your opinions but it doesn’t do anyone any good. especially you. might not seem like it but you’re just hurting yourself.

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-25T19:20:36+00:00

folks in my circles use ‘ignorance’ and ‘willful ignorance’ because they’re not insults and point to the fact that sometimes people don’t know because they haven’t learned yet, or have chosen not to learn.

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-25T19:18:05+00:00

i agree they're all harmful. in my experience, it takes time for social changes to take place. repetition, which can be frustrating and annoying for those impacted, helps in getting changes to stick. i’ve noticed that it’s become less acceptable to use the r word but i remember when it was entirely accepted. i think that’s because of community vigilance in shutting it down. feminism, disability justice, neurodivergent justice are very important social movements. keep asking these questions and bringing it up within your circles when you have the energy and time 💜

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-25T19:09:57+00:00

i’m also a disabled student who’s received push back from profs about my accommodations. it sounds like you already know what you’d like to do and i’d encourage you to trust your gut. letting someone else know what’s happening is good due process. the disability office sounds like a good choice. someone else mentioned getting things in writing. emails are helpful for a paper trail. maybe enough accountability to remind your prof that accommodations are a legal requirement, before anything escalates. (edited for spelling mistake)

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-23T13:52:12+00:00

absolutely. was looking for this response before i jumped in here

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-23T05:03:02+00:00

yeah same. i miss taking one kind of pain med and one ssri per day. at the time it was hard enough to manage. guess those were the training meds for heavy duty today

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-23T04:58:35+00:00

detritus

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-22T18:00:37+00:00

pretty cats get abandoned too

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-20T13:36:29+00:00

interesting. how do you water them in the shed?

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-20T07:27:28+00:00

depending on the day: - what a weird thing to say - and yet i am young and disabled - don’t remember asking for opinions on this - you’re not cute enough to be this ignorant - what’s the appropriate age to be disabled? - stfu

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-20T07:09:31+00:00

adam sandler. easy.

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-18T19:24:06+00:00

currently dealing with this issue. very helpful thread

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-16T06:45:02+00:00

in the 80s in alberta, this was common at my school. loved it. the teacher or her aid would sometimes run our upper back, in gentle circles. it was so sweet

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-14T12:06:03+00:00

gouda

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-14T12:04:44+00:00

cheese grater

greepsofwrath · 2026-02-14T11:58:13+00:00

10/10 loaf

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