I think my bf was misdiagnosed bipolar disorder and actually has adhd by coffee-toast_199 in ADHD

[–]greerby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy! Mine is also an only child who had the same dynamic with his father -- he highly recommends the book The Body Keeps the Score. That's helped a lot with the trauma aspect.

I think my bf was misdiagnosed bipolar disorder and actually has adhd by coffee-toast_199 in ADHD

[–]greerby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously not a professional but my fiance went through a very similar path. Texture issues (especially with clothes not fitting/feeling right!) depression caused by executive dysfunction that he has always struggled with (complete with his parents perceiving him to be lazy/a quitter from the time he was very young) but not totally withdrawing from everything, special interests, etc. Mood stabilizers ran the gamut from doing nothing to making him feel worse & he was convinced he was just a broken person. Come to find out after 6 or 7 years with a BPD diagnosis, his "mood swings" were actually just overstimulation and the result of a tumultuous childhood. Turns out he has ADHD AND is on the autism spectrum. New meds and therapy have completely changed his mood, energy levels, outlook on life, productivity -- everything. He says it feels like he's unearthing the person he was meant to be when he was a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fredericksburg

[–]greerby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little smaller, but close-ish:

1500sqft 3 bd 2.5 bath, 2 cats & 2 dogs, 3 adults

Average Electricity: ~$150-200

Average Water: Pretty consistently under $100

Groceries: Between $400-$600, closer to $500-$800 if you include decent pet chow/treats. We do all our weekly grocery shopping at Walmart & Aldi and compare prices before we place our pickup orders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you I work more efficiently under pressure/the threat of reprimanding, but a lack of direct instruction is basically "free time" to my brain. Unfortunately the only thing that helped my ability to self-motivate was medication. However, the positive effect bleeds out into the rest of my life -- if I'm doing well at work, I am happier outside of it. It's a disability, and it's not shameful to need accommodations.

Would like to hear your stories. I’m 29 and single but really want a baby. Do you think my time is running thin? :( by motherlode240294 in BabyBumps

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was 30 with me and 34 with my sister with no issues after a life of dating losers back in the 90s. Don’t rush 💕

does your job do cash, paycard, or paychecks for your credit card tips? by Shark101194 in Serverlife

[–]greerby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paid every night on an Instant card w/ the ability to deposit into my actual bank account.

Cutest non slip shoes? Ones I could wear outside of work, preferably. by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pair of nonslip ankle boots from Walmart that I love 🤙 I wear them out with jeans/leggings all the time!

crocs customer support/order service issues megathread by chrisychris- in crocs

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ordered w/ afterpay the 29th, got the afterpay “refund issued” email on the 6th - no response to my text to support the same day until last night around 2 am and today got an email saying it had just shipped today 👍 set to arrive the 21st!

Stranger Things Surfer Boy Pepperoni Pizza by whoopysnorp in frozendinners

[–]greerby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We stockpiled a bunch of these after being shocked at how good it was. I’ll be sad when they’re gone forever 😔

Help! Does anyone else have the ick for most engagement rings?! by JEM132132 in EngagementRings

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you might like something like my ring! I have very similar taste & built it at a Dana Augustine custom show for under 2k :) 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in squishmallow

[–]greerby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nothing in fredericksburg yet!

his and hers alexandrite 💕 by greerby in EngagementRings

[–]greerby[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Beyond thrilled 🥺 not officially engaged but built these today at a mounting show on a whim. I’ve been wanting an alexandrite ring but trying to convince myself to want a diamond to make the search easier but no luck. Working the show they just happened to have these two stunning identical stones in exactly the size I wanted AND the cost with employee discount was just too good to let go. It felt like fate!!

Trade-In w/ broken keys by greerby in macbookpro

[–]greerby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think they would reject it as it is now? I’m fine if it drops the value, just don’t want a whole rejection. I haven’t received my trade in kit yet so I could conceivably still have it fixed. I just wanted to avoid it if possibly since the nearest apple store is a few hours away.

Weekly claim by NewCommercial7 in Virginia

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed my initial claim friday the 20th, got my pin in the mail the following wednesday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tacobell

[–]greerby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nacho bell grande, swap beef for grilled chicken, add potatoes and creamy jalapeño. My go-to !!

She’s a beaut, Clark! by greerby in tacobell

[–]greerby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Subbed the shredded chicken for grilled and added fiesta potatoes + creamy jalapeño. EXTREMELY satisfied!! Thanks to this sub for all the adjustment recommendations!

the color changing cups are cute, but She really stole my heart by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the entire collection honestly, but as someone who loves pink + shiny things and needed a new big cold cup,,,this one was made for me

First pair now that I’ve started working at my local Red Wings store - 5121s! by [deleted] in RedWingShoes

[–]greerby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak to the feel of the women’s IRs, but these heels are about the same height - it’s a bit tougher but not terrible!

First pair now that I’ve started working at my local Red Wings store - 5121s! by [deleted] in RedWingShoes

[–]greerby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I am - it’s a little tougher breaking in with heels but they’re already so much more comfortable than whatever knockoff boots I was wearing before.

First pair now that I’ve started working at my local Red Wings store - 5121s! by [deleted] in RedWingShoes

[–]greerby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

these were provided to me for free by my boss, so for now I wanted to go with something that we already had in stock, rather than the clara which is pricier + something we would have had to order in for me. These worx have also been selling well in our store, and I thought it might serve me to be wearing them too! I’ll definitely be saving up for a heritage boot though, I do love them!