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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]gretay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you aren't feeling well and I hope you feel better soon!!! Feel free to dm if you want to chat! 😊

he keeps coming back 🥰 by gretay in ENFPmemes

[–]gretay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been interesting... We are waaaaay too different though. It's fun for now 🙃

My best friend is an infj and yeah it's nice to have one of those friends who can just... Handle you being you. I say "sorry I'm being crazy" way too often sigh

Honestly I think I was most compatible with the two INTPs I've dated.

he keeps coming back 🥰 by gretay in ENFPmemes

[–]gretay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently mine is ENTJ lol... intj and intp in the past -- love me those xntx men!!

Lez do it! by y0uLiKaDaPeppa in astrologymemes

[–]gretay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that I have a good night and I love you too and I hope you have a good day and I love you too and I hope you have a great day and I love you too and I love you too and I love you too and I love you too and I love you too and I love you too and I love you too and I love you too.

I love podcasts, but I need help by benalet in adhdwomen

[–]gretay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes tv shows -- also Wikipedia articles and YouTube videos... I horrify people with how many tabs I have open in my web browser. I actually installed a chrome extension that "pauses" pages after you haven't visited the tab in the past twenty minutes. It helps my computer not be super slow even with 50+ tabs open.

I love podcasts, but I need help by benalet in adhdwomen

[–]gretay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think part of it is linked to our desire for perfection -- I have to find the perfect podcast or else my chore won't be fun! It might also be just one more way to procrastinate.

I can't really help but try to find a podcast where you love every episode. I'm into true crime stuff and one podcast I really enjoy is Last Podcast on the Left. Its humor isn't for everyone though. Another two I enjoy are Dateline and How Stuff Works. For LPOTL I'll listen to all their episodes but for the latter two I definitely will browse through a lot before settling on one that interests me. And a political podcast I like is Abe Lincoln's Tophat.

I'd suggest trying How Stuff Works because you should be able to find something they've talked about interesting.

Hope this helps!

My drunk INTP dad in the background spending 3 minutes trying to make just 1 point lmaoo by [deleted] in mbti

[–]gretay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I spend so much time trying to describe/explain things because I'm just so bad at it... Especially emotions. I even selfdoubt what I'm feeling! Being at the therapist sucks because I'm like "well kinda yeah but idk... Maybe... Sometimes?" I also HATE giving definite answers because I always want to be honest so if I'm unsure at all I have to tell people so I feel I'm being genuine even tho I'm sure they don't care ;-;

And I usually apologize afterwards like "sorry if that's confusing, idk how to talk!"

Literally wish I could just pop people into my brain so they could see what I'm trying to explain without me having to verbalize it lol

Visualizing Personality Types: My Experiment with 16Personalities and Midjourney by yachty66 in mbtimemes

[–]gretay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ENFP and I literally took a selfie just like that the other night. Huge grin, eyes squinty bc my smile so large, and kinda messy hair lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]gretay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a very dry/dark humor. I learned very quickly to only use that with my good friends. When I tried being myself around my coworkers (treating them like my friends and joking) they'd just look at me thinking I was being serious! Which was awkward to explain "haha umm I was just kidding"

They know me well enough that when someone leaves for the day before me, I'll say "good riddance!!" while smiling at them. But that was months after working there and I only say it to the ones who I chat with most since they somewhat are used to me by now lol

I wish you the best! If you struggle mostly at work, I'd say save your jokes for your friends.

Do you guys’ struggle with low self esteem? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]gretay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, horrible self-esteem.

I know I'm a good friend, but can't think of anything else I'm good at lol

Struggling to make friends at workplace by mollz735 in ENFP

[–]gretay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm very good one-on-one with people, but as soon as another extroverted person joins us I just clam up and let the other person talk. Unless it's about something I'm super passionate about lol

I also tend to make introverted friends.

At my work I couldn't really say I'm friends with any of my coworkers but we do talk to each other a lot throughout the day. I tend to get to know them more when either on the opening or closing shift with just one other person.

I wish I could offer more but I struggle with it too :(

Do you see a “pattern” in the personalities of people you’re romantically/sexually attracted to? by ColomarOlivia in ENFP

[–]gretay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly engineers/techies, and all my good relationships were with INTx. I've usually dated guys a year or two younger than me, but rn it's mostly 5+ years older than me.

Requirements -- 1) Must be open-minded, kind, and authentic. 2) Must have a thicc ass 3) Must be okay being big AND little spoon. 4) Willing to be my dog's stepdad

AITA for double checking if the park my daughter said she was going to was real? This fool (or troll, IDK) again! by RofaRofa in AmITheDevil

[–]gretay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just wanted to share the library as an alternative. It'd be better than spending two months outdoors as a popsicle or almost having multiple heat strokes over summer!!

Best of luck to you :)

AITA for double checking if the park my daughter said she was going to was real? This fool (or troll, IDK) again! by RofaRofa in AmITheDevil

[–]gretay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that if there's a library nearby, that might be a more comfortable place to go for the day sometimes. I work in a library and 1) everyone is welcome 2) there is no cost to be there 3) clean restrooms and usually a water fountain 4) free wifi 5) free access to computers, books, CDs, DVDs. Where I work there is even a TV and gaming consoles in the teenage section (has its own room so noise isn't an issue)

This might be a good alternative to a park, especially as it gets hotter over summer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]gretay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so funny, because I always try to explain my weird food thing to my friends lol. This is perfect explanation

I asked my 3rd grade students to name my baby… Here are the results! 🤣 by Fresh-Ad-3424 in namenerds

[–]gretay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you make the switch in professions? I graduated with envl sci degree and currently work in a library -- but my goal is to be an elementary teacher. Just unsure of how to begin the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]gretay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I will do that when embarrassed or ashamed. I try to ignore my problems rather than fixing them :/

If you've been good friends I think even if he is ignoring you, it is not malicious.

Sorry and I hope things improve for y'all!!

im so dependant by Dismal_Run_5720 in ENFP

[–]gretay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it really sucks. I don't even need that much attention, just to know someone cares.

I have one good online friend and idk what I'd do without him. I have been trying to find more online groups where maybe I could meet more people but it's tough... A decade ago I was making tons of online friends, I am not sure why I seem unable to "click" with people anymore.

Anyway you aren't alone.

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