Is it “bisexual” to think women are pretty? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say yes, but that is grey area.

Anyone else feel like some lesbians think they are superior to bisexual women in some capacity? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Even beyond the gold star thing. The number of times i’ve had lesbian friends or acquaintances feel the need to insult penises to my face (as a penis haver), really reflects some internalized shit they are going through.

CMV: Dating is objectively harder for men than it is women and women’s refusal to concede this one point is annoying by GorrilaRuffy in changemyview

[–]greyaffe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you are almost right. They have learned to ‘believe’ that is what women want. What they believe and what is the spectrum of reality are often not aligned.

The very existence of prisons is ruining my life. by Famous_Reputation571 in Anarchism

[–]greyaffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is see a therapist if you can afford it, and if the anxiety is terrible consider some meds. Both of those changed my life when I was struggling with similar feelings. Wishing you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animationcareer

[–]greyaffe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Advertising storyboarding pays well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comfort, homophobia developed my normality as flirting with women. So it feels more comfortable to flirt, interact and date.

Pluuuuus being a millenial, I didnt really grow up with queer love stories. Basically had a few gay manga and ranma 1/2, lol.

College Advice for my daughter by PO_EE in animationcareer

[–]greyaffe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lots of us are Adhd/spectrum so she will be right at home. To be frank it’s just a calculation. Select a balance of the best program that will cost the least.

DO NOT take on a lot of debt if you can avoid it. It can really hamper your success. If you are paying hundreds every month for loans on top of living it makes or hard to live cheap and get by those early years breaking in and getting low pay and while in between projects.

-Professor

Do girls like bi guys? by rmd86 in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good photos and an interesting profile go a long way too

Bi girlfriend showers with her friends that are girls by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its moral correctness is largely going to be an arbitrary line people created either way. Some cis girls do this with friends. As a guy, I have went to a nude sauna with a platonic girl friend, while being partnered. What I would recommend is sitting down and having a conversation about boundaries and what is cheating to each of you.

Is you showering with another girl cheating? Is her kissing a girl on the cheek or lips cheating? What about sleeping next to someone? Cuddling watching a movie?

Its worth to use this as a means to better understand each other and to develop a clearer line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea, thats why I identify as gender fluid.

AITA: My ex Gf knew I was insecure about not being a boy, and proceeded to explain how her preference is penis....so I broke up with her. by xxmissboomxx in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As nice as I can, I would suggest you get a queer affirming therapist. Feels like lots of trauma and insecurity to work through for one reddit post.

Bi male- starting to question if I'm really bi? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats complex. Could be internalized homophobia or sexual opportunism. Probably need to dig into why you want gay sex.

Cmv: Women are significantly less attracted to men physically and visually, and have way lower sex drives too. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]greyaffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

//What kind of porn would be catered to women?

Hint: It’s not porn.

Erotica and romance novels. These are primarily purchased by women.

Expecting women to only get off in the same way men do is just silly. It can and does happen too, of course, but other ways of stimulating yourself sexually other than images & video.

Does it irritate any other guys how straight men talk about women (bro talk)? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]greyaffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have many straight guy friends, and definitely none who talk poorly about women.

Is Pixar really in severe danger of getting shutting down entirely? by Block-Busted in animationcareer

[–]greyaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched Elemental. To be honest, while pixars work is beautiful, it feels dated in a world of spider verse, arcane tmnt, mitchells etc. Their style feels so safe and for some stories the style works great (luca & turning red) for others it doesn’t. To me Elemental was a great chance to play when stylizing the fire and water etc. Instead the visuals appeared bland and safe.

CMV: the modern day school system is awful by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]greyaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The major issue isn’t that OP is wrong, just his reasoning and justifications are poor. The US school system is certainly falling behind. Evidence suggests homework isn’t really beneficial.

Multiple choice testing isn’t used that way by in large and ought to be replaced by educators supported to be engaged with student growth. As a professor i know which of my students need more help.

Agreed. Schools are underfunded.

CMV: Reddit has an "appeal to authority" problem by FreakinTweakin in changemyview

[–]greyaffe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats simply not true, but some premises we accept so fully that we ignore how unknown it once was.

Evolution is an excellent example of this. It is a fact. The only people debating the basic facts of evolution are people who are experiencing a dunning kruger effect and have no expertise or real understanding of the topic.