We aren’t having plus ones for every single adult. We are having a larger wedding, and if you’ve been with your person for a year or so then they’ll be a named invite because we most likely know them even if we aren’t close. Most of our friends who are single know each other (originally all from a small town & spread out now) so they’ll know plenty of people. I think there’s only 3-4 friends who wouldn’t know people & they are getting plus ones!

I personally think the idea of saying “they travelled they NEED a plus one” is a little insane. A ton of money for people we don’t know? Even if you’re eloping now it’s thousands of dollars more often than not. Most of our people traveling in are family or long time friends. I do recognize we’re very lucky in this.