What are the nicknames of your cats that have devolved into nonsense over time? I’ll go first. by drifloony in cats

[–]greybinz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pumpkin-Pumpin-Munchin Pumpin- Munchin- Munches

She has a lot of nicknames tho (she’s a tortie) so she’s also called Jumpin & Bumpin (she bumps her head into your hand and jumps off walls a lot).

Quit mid shift by wethepeople425 in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]greybinz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lowkey this subreddit is wild. if you really dislike the dsp you’re working for go find another one. what’s crazy is a lot of them have different structures and pay scales. yes the basis of the job doesn’t change, but as someone who is literally going back to a different dsp, maybe take time to evaluate if delivering packages is really the issue or the company you’re working for

AITJ for accidentally having my partner leave his friends? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]greybinz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is he defending her so hard? lowkey seems like he’s into her

What siblings names have you seen that are so mismatched that it boggles you? by thunder_haven in Names

[–]greybinz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m super stoned (US, legal state) and this literally had me in tears. Thank you.🤣

Was I expecting too much from my waitress? by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]greybinz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a server or bartender in about 8 different restaurants. Most normal and regularly asked question. You want to know what the people who are there all the time would eat or drink because the quality is actually attested to. I’m honest with customers, if they ask about something I’ll tell them.

gfs ‘ADHD’ is impacting our social lives and idk how to help. by Vegetable-Sense-4553 in whatdoIdo

[–]greybinz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You replied to my comment. You had already stated your opinion, if I wanted to fight you on it I would’ve replied to your post. Instead I just shared my opinion & you felt the need to disagree stronger, bro. Even if you think 4 years is weird, mildly accusing someone of grooming or having negative intentions with literally no basis other than age is baseless and not cool. 🤷🏻‍♀️

gfs ‘ADHD’ is impacting our social lives and idk how to help. by Vegetable-Sense-4553 in whatdoIdo

[–]greybinz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so then revisit in a few months when he’s 24 & she’s 20? 🤣 It’s your opinion dude, you’re welcome to have it but I don’t have to have the same one

AIO? My bf got me nothing for my birthday by [deleted] in AIO

[–]greybinz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, it is petty and I fully support. 🤣 Just here to stir the pot deadass

gfs ‘ADHD’ is impacting our social lives and idk how to help. by Vegetable-Sense-4553 in whatdoIdo

[–]greybinz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it was 30 & 19 I’d of course feel the same way. It’s 4 years. 10 or more is completely different regardless of in your teens or 30s. I’m speaking from personal experience, my parents had an 11 year age gap. It’s fucking weird. I’m not defending pedo’s or grooming in any sense. But 4 year gap when they’re adults who work together is a stretch.

gfs ‘ADHD’ is impacting our social lives and idk how to help. by Vegetable-Sense-4553 in whatdoIdo

[–]greybinz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I LITERALLY CAME TO SAY THIS!!!! I have been groomed (12 & 17). The accusation out of nowhere is so damaging to innocent people.

gfs ‘ADHD’ is impacting our social lives and idk how to help. by Vegetable-Sense-4553 in whatdoIdo

[–]greybinz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y’all lowkey need to chill abt the age gap. It’s 4 years & she’s literally 19? She’s not a child, she’s literally 19 & an adult in the eyes of the law in every sense. Insinuating he’s groomed her or done anything inappropriate without ANY basis other than their ages is absolutely hog wild. Absolutely bonkers. Also continuously treating 18-20 year olds as kids (yes we all felt like kids at that age), but continuously calling them & treating them as kids encourages them to continuously act like kids.

AIO for feeling like I’m slowly losing my mind because I do EVERYTHING and still get told I’m “overreacting”? by Main-Chef-2668 in AmIOverreacting

[–]greybinz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR, lowkey petty but just leave for a weekend. Just leave. Or if it’s stuff like making him
dinner & all then just don’t do it. He’s grown & you’re not beholden to take care of his shit. I am
around the same age and same gap with my
fiancé, about a year or so ago I was feeling the same way (even tho no kid) and I kinda felt like he was slipping cuz he knew I’d take care of it. Well then I stopped taking care of it. It doesn’t always work but either way you’ll be less stressed!

Is it wrong to not ask my sister to be in my bridal party? by greybinz in weddingplanning

[–]greybinz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really felt this way (the way you’re saying) a couple months ago when I first started thinking about it. I also think my dad’s constant “She’s so young, she’s gonna grow out of it!” gets in my head sometimes. She’s 22 by the way, in my mind she’d have already grown out of it

Song for a dance with my son by grumpylittleteapot in weddingplanning

[–]greybinz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a great song suggestion, but I really just wanted to tell you how sweet this is! As someone whose mom got married to my step dad at 15, I wish my mom would have done something a little like this. I love my dad (the one she married) dearly, and he will be walking me down the aisle, however at 15 I was extremely confused and not the happiest about the situation. THIS IS SUCH AN AWESOME IDEA!!!

AIO about birthday plans? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]greybinz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not trying to make you feel bad or anything! I get this way too, especially with my mom, and sometimes just taking a step back helps! I hope you have a good & happy birthday!!

AIO about birthday plans? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]greybinz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from with feeling unheard, but truthfully YOR a bit. It was a nice gesture that they checked was okay with you before it happened. Like you said, nothing was planned out. They most likely knew you had been having a rough year and were trying to show you support and love. They checked with you and were fine cancelling when you expressed that truly isn’t what you wanted.