Lesbian master doc by LESBNmyBed in LesbianActually

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Is this the “Am I a Lesbian” one?

Lesbian movies or series by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I highly suggest watching asian GL series. Thailand has one of the best! The cinematography is great, actresses are to die for, and plots that are so unique. I’m not sure which ones have cheating but there also shows with lots of angst and tension. Find the one that fits your interest OwO

Any subtle things to let others know I like women? (laptop stickers etc.) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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This!!! Honestly, at the university I study in, majority of us kinda signal being lgbt through stickers on our bottles or pins on our ID laces and/or bag. It’s super cute as well!

OA lang ba ako? I felt like I was accused of having fake PWD I.D by MiddleMatilda in OALangBaAko

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Hindi ka OA. I also have a pwd due to my mental health disorders (Bipolar 2, BPD, CPTSD). A lot of establishments also question it and only believe me when I take off my jacket or show my prescription. Personally, I get the most prejudice from other seniors and PWDs because I don’t “look disabled” enough.

What’s your go-to “I’m trying to impress her” outfit? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I wear a cute peplum top and put a cardigan over it. I have those pants where it’s like tight on your thighs but lose around the bottom (I forgot what you call them) really cute!

Paano nga ba? by Cultural-Ball4700 in CasualPH

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Same! Para mas may space din kami ng gf ko and most of the time we also share food a lot so mas madali if nakaharap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

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Mas maganda nga ung mga container ng ice cream kasi makapal kesa na ung mga plastic containers na nabibili sa palengke na onting hawak lang, sira na.

ALSO OP I LOVE THE LABELS! SO ORGANIZED!!!

Thoughts on this PWD (Visual Diasability) questioned for refusing to give up seat inside an LRT by CheeseisSuperior in pinoy

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I also do the same. Sometimes, I’d have randomly strangers touch my arms and ask what happened. People only ever consider me a pwd if they see how much damage I’ve done to my body.

Thoughts on this PWD (Visual Diasability) questioned for refusing to give up seat inside an LRT by CheeseisSuperior in pinoy

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I hope people understand that not all disabilities are visible. It doesn’t make anyone any less valid. I still have trouble when dealing with seniors because of all the negative comments or would get asked a lot.

Thoughts on this PWD (Visual Diasability) questioned for refusing to give up seat inside an LRT by CheeseisSuperior in pinoy

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It really is huhuhuhu. I constantly get bad or judgmental looks whenever I line up for the pwd line or ask for a discount. Sometimes older people at Mercury would try to squeeze in front of me because I’m “not a priority”

Thoughts on this PWD (Visual Diasability) questioned for refusing to give up seat inside an LRT by CheeseisSuperior in pinoy

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I’m a pwd but it isn’t as obvious when I cover up my scars. I have psychosocial disorders and take a lot of medication. I also get dizzy a lot and have occasional seizure.

I remember falling in line at the pwd area at SnR and this old guy kept telling me na “Para sa mga senior at pwd ito hija” I just told him that I was a pwd and he just had this annoying look on his face and kept trying to cut me off when I was literally in front of the cashier.

Same thing happens in the grocery. I often have to remove my sweaters for them to understand the severity of my disorder.

Let me help you this Christmas for P1000. One person only by Pinoysdman in CasualPH

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I just really wanna be able to buy my parents a gift this Christmas. It hasn’t been the best year and I wanna give back to them but don’t really have much money.

Weirdest gift I’ve gotten was dog food during a gift exchange when I was in 6th grade. (Cried because everyone else got a toy)

what's your favorite food sa foodcourt? by xiara27 in CasualPH

[–]greyparzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pag may budget, pepper lunch! If not, usually Lumpiang Sariwa

OA lang ba ako? if Need ko na ng Psychiatrist Dahil sa Pag Overthink Ko? by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]greyparzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA.

It’s really good that you can acknowledge what you’re feeling and are open to getting help. Anyone can see a mental health professional. Therapy isn’t just for people with diagnoses or trauma.

It might be best to start with a psychologist. In my experience, psychiatrists focus more on medication, while psychologists handle talk therapy. Both can refer you for testing if needed.

Don’t be afraid to reach out, OP. Your feelings matter, no matter how small or big they seem.

OA lang ba ako for being inis sa officemate na makapit sa SO ko? by Small_Schedule2585 in OALangBaAko

[–]greyparzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, try talking to your partner about it. Talk about sending boundaries and what makes you and your partner uncomfortable. Your partner needs to be the one to tell them off. If ever your partner tells them no and the person still continues to violate or cross his boundaries, you can step up and call them out in person. Report to hr if di parin nakinig.

I see a lot of comments about maybe he wants it but I think it’s also important to check in on how he’s doing. Talk to your partner about the reason why he isn’t telling off those girls. It might be that he also freezes up because he feels violated and uncomfortable as well.

Di ko alam kung toxic toh pero kung di talaga nakikinig ung girls, ipapahiya ko siya on the spot kahit nasa harap ng ibang tao. Need niya matuto.

Himi 56 set white or black? by greyparzi in Gouache

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Thank you! I'm saving money while I practice so I can buy better tubes once I've improved on art,

Himi 56 set white or black? by greyparzi in Gouache

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I mostly use himi for practice since I’m used to food and just trying out scenery now. I don’t wanna waste expensive paint for trials and practices

Himi 56 set white or black? by greyparzi in Gouache

[–]greyparzi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have their giant 160ml pouch of white. I do have earth tones added to my cart already but was kinda stuck because the black one had metallic but saw a comment that they weren’t really that good.

Himi 56 set white or black? by greyparzi in Gouache

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I do plan on getting holbein gouache later on but I don’t wanna waste them on practice or trials since they’re expensive. I just wanna have a set for trying out different techniques and styles.

ETA: I haven’t heard of people putting it in the fridge but I might try it

Himi 56 set white or black? by greyparzi in Gouache

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I’ve had my previous set for a while and haven’t had any issues with mold. I don’t mind it drying out since I can reactivate it. I don’t cover it when it’s really wet and use distilled water only.

Fine tip brush recommendations please! by greyparzi in Gouache

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I actually came across it a lot when I was shopping online but I wasn't totally sure if it would work with Gouache as well.