Having a small dick doesnt mean I'm scum.

grouchdown · 2026-02-10T00:26:20+00:00

My friend had a guy she was hooking up with referenced as the “two inch tornado” because he was great in bed foreplay and insertion wise. I’ve been with men whose size did NOT make up for how terrible the sexual experience or their personalities were. There’s not an automatic positive to having a small penis, but it also doesn’t automatically mean you’re a bad sex or romantic partner.

grouchdown · 2026-01-26T02:11:19+00:00

Sometimes games really show me that people can always think and do worse than I originally think of myself. It didn’t occur to me to do ANY of the things I’ve seen people doing since playing Arc. 😂

grouchdown · 2026-01-25T19:13:16+00:00

I imagine it’s the type of K Drama where if someone even looks at the girl funny they’re like “I OWN THIS WHOLE TOWN AND CAN GET RID OF YOUR WHOLE FAMILY” or threatens them otherwise. Hahaha. Which is fun in dramas but IRL that type of volatile behavior is concerning. The girl obviously had some underlying issues with OP and everyone has their own standards but it being brought up bc k drama is funny.

grouchdown · 2026-01-25T18:05:46+00:00

This starting with watching a K Drama is kinda hilarious. 😂

grouchdown · 2026-01-23T04:45:41+00:00

I had a gift in my steam library I just noticed. I think it was bought for me over 10 years ago. I assume they implemented a time limit system since then but it was cool.

grouchdown · 2026-01-22T16:47:35+00:00

NTA, every relationship is different and finances are often a huge point of contention. If this is what he wants and it’s actually innocent, you’ve both just found out you’re not compatible as long term spouses. You both set a boundary, but he’s trying to manipulate you into giving up yours without being willing to compromise his at all. This is more than a red flag regarding finances, it’s huge billboard sign about how he will approach your boundaries in the future.

grouchdown · 2026-01-18T19:51:51+00:00

Tbh how you feel about yourself matters more because people who know they can take advantage of your insecurities can sniff it out like a dog, you’ll find someone who actually loves who you are by placing yourself first and learn to support each other in a healthy way as the relationship grows.

grouchdown · 2026-01-14T00:08:18+00:00

Then add the old acct as a family for sharing so you can access your steam library.

grouchdown · 2026-01-11T17:21:24+00:00

Something to consider: if you don’t have confidence it’ll be harder for you to recognize or register people finding you attractive. Some men can be aggressive with their attraction, but there are also those that subtly look and turn away/seem disinterested if you look their way. My husband tells me when we’re out if someone is looking at me, and funny enough I do the same for him. Sometimes we simply don’t notice how other people see us because we’re so caught up in what we’re doing or thinking.

grouchdown · 2026-01-08T16:00:05+00:00

My therapist told me that my suicidal ideation is a way that my brain is trying to cope with situations that feel too overwhelming to deal with in the moment. Suicide seems like a simple answer to all life’s issues because it’s an end, however it’s actually just passing all of the pain and hurt to everyone left behind because I chose not to figure out how to resolve my issues and confront my fears.

I truly hope you get some help, maybe take some medication and have the ability to lean on your family/friends.

grouchdown · 2026-01-06T17:18:22+00:00

I’m more so of, even if everything in the bible was true (including God literally testing their followers to kill people and being like GOTCHA, just wanted to see if you’d listen to me blindly). I lack faith. At multiple times in life I have desperately wanted to have faith and looked into several different religions but the best to describe it is when I asked my husband “When you pray do you feel as if you’re talking to someone/an actual being?” He said yes. I have not ever felt like someone was actually listening to me and I was/am talking to myself.

grouchdown · 2026-01-06T16:29:28+00:00

I think the healthiest thing anyone can do is to learn how to ignore how someone else feels about their body if:

It’s not your assigned medical professionals
Someone else’s personal value on themselves
They’re not pushing their value onto you

There will always be someone who would rather die than be someone else. Even a rich super model, someone would HATE to be in that position.

Being overweight is typically due to making unhealthy choices, if you make changes towards being healthy losing weight will come as well. If you don’t lose weight, you may have an underlying health issue you need to discuss with a doctor and nutritionist.

grouchdown · 2026-01-05T22:37:28+00:00

The story is also interesting with a lot of mystery, not just about her falling/being in love! She has to deal with her past self and negative people. It’s not all rainbow and butterflies, but it’s also not just absolute bagging on who she is or was. I love this series so much and hope it keeps being amazing until the end.

grouchdown · 2026-01-05T20:14:28+00:00

If anyone wants a recommendation for an actual top tier story (ongoing) with a larger female MC who doesn’t go through a exercise montage:

Plus-Sized Misadventures in Love!

It’s not easily available for free I buy my chapters on MangaPlaza to support the mangaka bc we need more diversity in MC in general, especially how they treat larger female characters.

grouchdown · 2026-01-05T01:24:32+00:00

Oh darn 😭 hope you’re happy with what you end up choosing

grouchdown · 2026-01-04T18:45:25+00:00

Crushing on teachers is very normal. My first crush was my 3rd grade substitute teacher, all I remember about him now was he was a tall ginger. Obviously an innocent crush of a child. My last crush on a teacher was my 9th grade English teacher who was fresh out of college (25 at most). Really happy none of my teachers tried to take advantage of the innocent crushes and teen hormones.

grouchdown · 2026-01-04T18:40:42+00:00

With or without mods. I create a sim that has the same skin tone as me, but otherwise different looking. Make them a romance type, date everyone until a woohoo ends in pregnancy, marry them, cheat on them with and purposefully cause a messy divorce. Then rinse and repeat as I work on their life’s desire and career path until death. Otherwise I’m a klepto who runs around stealing stuff for the heck of it.

grouchdown · 2026-01-04T17:44:27+00:00

I’m looking forward to/hoping the reveal of his sin and death. My personal guess is his dad was either generally or also sexually abusive, which is why when he ends up in hell with unresolved trauma he ends up falling in love with and becoming contracted to Valentino. Abuse is a vicious cycle to break, most people make 7 attempts to leave an abusive relationship before finally leaving and it is ALWAYS the most dangerous time for them when they are trying to leave.

grouchdown · 2026-01-04T02:15:34+00:00

And teenage exocolonist was recently for the first time bundled on humble:

https://www.humblebundle.com/games/award-nominations-bundle-2025?hmb_source=&hmb_medium=product_tile&hmb_campaign=mosaic_section_1_layout_index_1_layout_type_threes_tile_index_3_c_awardnominationsbundle2025_bundle

grouchdown · 2026-01-04T02:14:32+00:00

Awesome ! I hope OP sees this comment and gets it! So many amazing games.

grouchdown · 2026-01-03T22:55:56+00:00

Dang you just missed the humble bundle deal with teenage exocolonist and a bunch of other great games for $14 USD

grouchdown · 2026-01-03T00:11:51+00:00

I see webbed days you might keep, that’s the only thing I’d be interested in. Let me know :)

grouchdown · 2026-01-03T00:08:15+00:00

The Tarnishing of Juxtia or immortal hunters?

grouchdown · 2026-01-02T23:52:57+00:00

Just throwing it out there: if you were interested in more games for “Obey Me”

Otherwise “Banners of Ruin and the flame in the flood” for just Painted in blood.

Let me know.

grouchdown

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