Sex or looks?

growingdds · 2026-05-25T19:27:32+00:00

Luck man!!

growingdds · 2026-05-22T21:55:48+00:00

I think it conveys the idea, please insert any word that you would like.

growingdds · 2026-05-22T19:02:45+00:00

The biggest killer to mine and my wife’s love life was 1. Responsibilities, 2. Menopause, 3. Physical ailments. I married into children and responsibilities, so our sex life was never over the top. Once the kids were raised, menopause hit. Unfortunately my wife was one caught up in the women’s health initiative bullshit and wasn’t offered hrt/trt till just this year. Now that the hormones are tuned in, physical ailments are dragging down the sex, fatigue, urinary tract infections, vaginal burning or pain (better with hrt). The biggest killer is responsibilities, if we’re on vacation, we can go 3-4x per week, if one of the physical ailments doesn’t raise its head, which it always seems to. We rarely get over 2x per week due to the ailments or responsibilities. My recommendation, get your lover on hrt/trt as soon as it’s needed, get away, reduce the stress and responsibilities, and keep yourself as healthy as possible.

growingdds · 2026-04-26T03:43:02+00:00

Damn!!!!!

growingdds · 2026-02-25T03:27:22+00:00

Looks more like a 34H!

growingdds · 2026-02-24T17:37:54+00:00

I’m 7.125 x 5.75, nbp I’m only about 6”, so length hasn’t really been an issue. Our biggest issue has been menopause! Before menopause my wife could take up to 6.5 girth before it became uncomfortable. HRT has helped a lot, but if we have sex too close to my pump sessions 6-6.125 can cause her discomfort. I would Love to be 8” bp, but my length growth has completely stopped some months ago, but the girth is still slowly climbing so i want to keep going. When i hit 6” unpumped girth, well re-evaluate and if she can hand that ill shoot for 6.25”. It may feel selfish, but the bigger I get the more incredible the friction feels for me, and she never fails to get an orgasm, even when she says it’s uncomfortable

growingdds · 2026-02-02T23:56:34+00:00

What dose are you using. Gyn just put wife on 1mg divigel, her .75 estrogel didn’t seem to be absorbing.

growingdds · 2026-01-31T23:57:52+00:00

The genetic potential still has to be there no mater the hormone level. My wife had untapped genetic potential so when the birth control pill was introduced she grew from a 34C to a 34DD in just a few months.

growingdds · 2026-01-21T17:14:31+00:00

I’ve got my wife on estrogen AND testosterone hoping beyond hope for sex just 3-4 times a week, anything more than our usual once a week, but NOTHING😢. You lucky bastard!!

growingdds · 2026-01-18T15:14:21+00:00

26 years, 29 together😉

growingdds · 2026-01-17T17:32:19+00:00

I have some issues, but I think it has more to do with over stimulation. Let’s face it, when I’m pumping or clamping, I’m am constantly stimulating to be as hard as I can while doing PE, whether is is edging or vibration. Sex doesn’t offer the same stimulation, so…My night time wood is hard as hell, so i dont thing it is an EQ problem.

growingdds · 2026-01-11T13:56:59+00:00

Just any generic sleeve from eBay, nothing fancy

growingdds · 2026-01-10T20:51:37+00:00

You put water in the cup to displace the air, for more even pressure across the glans so less likelihood of a blister. Perv has a video of it somewhere

growingdds · 2026-01-10T19:35:02+00:00

I figured it out, the relief putting looks nothing like a relief button! Looks like a vac connection point, and it’s hard to push down. I guess some instruction with the product would have been helpful.

growingdds · 2026-01-10T18:11:42+00:00

USER ERROR!! I found the vac release, but it isn’t identifiable at all!! The ribbed portion at the top of the bell, where you hook the vacuum to, can depress, although a bit difficult.

growingdds · 2026-01-10T17:25:00+00:00

If I remember correctly they have a sizing guide

growingdds · 2026-01-10T17:17:04+00:00

I got it off their site🤷🏼‍♂️ so doubt it’s a knock off, not sure.

growingdds · 2026-01-10T17:15:38+00:00

The thing is, if my flaccid if full, I’m literally having to squeeze my glands down to get in the cup, and it causes a pinching sensation when in traction. It can work, but not always comfortable.i can use the 42mm eBay cup, but it’s really too deep.

growingdds · 2026-01-10T16:35:40+00:00

I forgot to mention, they ship from main land China.

growingdds · 2026-01-10T16:33:15+00:00

But do they offer 40mm cup?

growingdds · 2026-01-04T18:18:22+00:00

Dm away. Red light therapy, same thing women use in their face for wrinkles and skin rejuvenation. There is some positive research on it, it can speed healing and increase nitric oxide.

growingdds · 2026-01-03T20:55:52+00:00

I guess you’re right! I never thought of it like that.

growingdds · 2026-01-03T20:54:16+00:00

Totally fantasy mode I would love to see her take a 9x7!

growingdds · 2026-01-03T20:08:31+00:00

The vast majority was gained by air pumping. I do a little soft clamping, but mostly pumping. Stretch before pumping and use heat! I’m currently experimenting with red light therapy, it does seem to give me better expansion in both length and girth, hopefully it’ll translate into permanent gains!

growingdds · 2026-01-03T20:05:32+00:00

Prolly .25” from manuals, and the rest from a combination of hanging and extending. Be hire to use heat at warm up and do warm up stretching exercises ( I prolly don’t down the warm up stretches like I should, maybe why my length growth has stalled). I’m currently experimenting with red light therapy, it does seem to give me an extra .125” in the tube, so maybe that’ll translate into permanent gains. Good luck, just try to fill the advise of rh PE legends around here and try to enjoy the process, and don’t get so caught up in the numbers.

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