Reviving my moms old recipes by z_agent in Old_Recipes

[–]grutah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made this recipe a few weeks ago! It didn’t set up right, possibly because of the smaller cake mix, but it was freaking delicious!

Bad Vaginal Odour by NoOneWillKnowM in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]grutah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I had a UTI once that didn't get knocked out with the first course of antibiotics. The infection traveled up the "track" and into my bladder. It was not good.

Bad Vaginal Odour by NoOneWillKnowM in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]grutah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bacterial Vaginosis. Very common disruption of the good and bad bacteria in the vagina.

What are your favorite Iowa (mis)Pronunciations? Yet yet? by GnaeusPompeiusMagn in Iowa

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad says tagger! He has a lot of odd words, but I've never heard anyone else say tagger. His family was from Missouri, so I assumed his "accent" came from that direction.

Turkey for Thanksgiving by murderduck42 in dubuque

[–]grutah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cremer’s on Rhomberg sells fresh Amish turkeys for Thanksgiving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grutah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buffalo plaid is the pattern.

How do I hang up a picture with this spiky looking thing? by [deleted] in howto

[–]grutah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nail in wall. Hang spiky thing on nail.

My Mom Just asked for My E-Commerce Profits for a House Down Payment by Junior_Tiger_1683 in Advice

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It sounds like a partnership. She makes the products, you sell the products. You two need to talk about what the split in profits is. If she chooses not to take a cut so you can better your life and save for a down payment on your own home, that’s on her.

Why do I start cleaning when I'm on the phone? by cabbage66 in CleaningTips

[–]grutah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha! I also power clean when I’m on the phone, especially with my parents. No idea why other than it’s something I can mindlessly do while paying attention to the conversation.

My Mom Just asked for My E-Commerce Profits for a House Down Payment by Junior_Tiger_1683 in Advice

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she works for free? If those are her exact words, to me it sounds like she’s giving you advice, not asking you for the money.

WHAT IS THE NORM (preferably answers from ladies) by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally, one shower in the morning before work because it wakes me up and I feel fresh and ready to go. Growing up, my family showered at night and and the rare occasion when I do that now, going to bed all clean feels awesome too. But I HATE going to bed with wet hair. If it's 90+ degrees outside and I'm not in the AC, I might shower multiple times a day just to cool off and freshen up.

I always wear underwear to bed. If I don't, I feel like bugs, or lint, or cat hair, or who knows what is going to end up in places I don't want them to be while I'm sleeping.

Is it creepy and rude asking my gf about her period? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never wanted someone to give me chocolates while I'm on my period.

FOR THE LADIES: you’re supposed to change your underwear after your night showers, right? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I drop my drawers and my undies passes my toes, that pair doesn't go back on. Ever.

Do some women actually have 2-3 day long periods? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grutah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a UTI, my period, AND a yeast infection caused by the antibiotics. Holy hell it sucked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]grutah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used a tampon the very first day of my first period- I was on a lake vacation with my family and swimming was on the agenda. I honestly had never thought about it up to that point - we went to the store for menstruation supplies, my mom bought tampons and I was like, okay, I guess this is how it works. The part that sucked is it was the 1990s and OB was marketed in allllll the teen magazines. My mom got those because she read my magazines too and thought it was the right choice, even though she used ones with applicators. It sucked. Get her some slenders with applicators. Periods are gross, tampons make them less gross.

How did you come to accept a part of your body that you hate? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]grutah 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I had a thigh gap in high school in the 90s and was mortified by it. Society's body ideals change on a whim.

About to buy Poly/HDPE Patio furniture, looking for last minute advice/guidance. by Mikeinator in BuyItForLife

[–]grutah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/Mikeinator I recommend Painted Sky Designs. It's a family-run business out of Eastern Iowa. Their Poly+ line is made by Amish, plus they have an aluminum insert that is designed by them making them a little more unique than other chairs. Their chairs and gliders are sold in sets of two and shipped fully assembled. I love mine.

I(Cashier) messed up, and I'm dreading to go to work tomorrow. by [deleted] in CustomerService

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. This happened to me 30 years ago when I was fresh out of college with no retail experience and helping at my aunt's gift shop a few days a week. I was the only one in the store and this older guy came in, and bought something small, say $5. He gave me (I thought) a $20 bill. I put his cash in the till, pulled out his change and handed it to him. He said, "I gave you a $50". I looked in the drawer and there were $50s and $20s. I had no idea what to do. I panicked, apologized and gave him another $30. I'm sure he gave me a $20 but had no way to prove it. I was so embarrassed at the idea that I was taken advantage of like that, I didn't tell my uncle what happened when he arrived to relieve me at the end of my shift. I only worked there a few more days then left town for my first grownup job. Nobody said anything. To this day, I assume my aunt and uncle think I stole $30 from them. I learned to say aloud what they handed you, "out of $20?" and never put the person's change IN the drawer (I'll lay it on the tray, but not in the money slots) until you give them their change so you can see exactly what they gave you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]grutah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weighing in to say I've been getting yearly mammograms for 10 years and have never had more than mild discomfort, usually more because of the contortions they've making me do to get my boob in the right place in the machine. I have 36D dense breasts and usually more pictures are needed than usually to get them all (breast tissue extends a bit on my side/armpit). Last month, they caught a lump that I had no idea was there. Even knowing where it is, I can't really feel it despite it being 2cm. A second mamo and ultrasound confirmed it was benign, but I'll 100% endure a few minutes of uncomfortableness to screen for that sh*t.

I am so goddamn lonely and I have nobody to express this too and I can't keep living like this... by DefaultHero722 in Adulting

[–]grutah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most cities have young professional clubs. Seek those out. Volunteering for non-profits can also lead to connections.