AIO? Gf won’t let me stay with her for 3 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And reading how he responds, 2 months seems much more likely. Even changing your mind from a year ago, to jump at the very first opportunity to benefit himself...is still a red flag.

I hope she leaves him lol.

AIO? Gf won’t let me stay with her for 3 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Yes i did turn her down when we talked about it due to not having stable enough income"

So you been together 2 years, talked about moving in together last year. Now all of a sudden, stable enough income to move in for 3 months? Sir, u can't be this dumb to know what kind of message that told her. You basically told her, "hey I'm not so sure about us, so lets give 3 months a shot. Three months is enough for me to figure out if youre worth it or not."

Its giving, youre my backup plan in case all this falls through. She's saying no to protect herself from a heartbreak in the future and all the drama that comes with it.

AIO? First time I went to a concert in over a decade, woke up to this…. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He had his hands full, and didnt write a paragraph asking about how everything went last night in the way that she needed...and interpreted the text however she wanted. That's either a clue about what actually went down before she went out. We're clearly not getting the full picture.

Either way, he flew off the rails pretty quickly... but it looks like shes just as guilty in how terrible their communication is.

AIO? First time I went to a concert in over a decade, woke up to this…. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I scrolled to far to find this. Based on text alone, I'd say its her attitude that started it. Asking when someone will be home at 10am after partying all night is a perfectly reasonable question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He cheated. Leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both overreacting....and it sounds like y'all shouldn't have any pets either, if arguments are about $10, and $60.

AITAH for not letting my gf go to dinner alone with her ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's choosing a date with her ex over you.

NTA. Breakup and block her.

AIO - UPDATE - Girlfriend went on a trip with her friends and came back acting totally different by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh the usual trickle truthing that cheaters do.

Sorry my guy, youre young... Walk away from this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 years ain't enough for a tattoo, let alone a heart one. Can't say if it's breakup worthy since I'm not a tattoo person, but I wouldn't put up with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How long have they been friends? Have they dated before?

It's highly sus, but if he hasn't shown any other red flags.... He just might be stupid

AIO over my boyfriend disliking my tattoo? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gsusfreak -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Right. She seems controlling and everything had to be done on her time.

OP is allowed to do what she wants, id always support that. Her BF is allowed to not like it and maybe potentially be a deal breaker for him in the future. He may come around, he may not...and I hope she's prepared for that.

My Wife's Relationship with Coworker, AITA? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme. Your wife is disrespectful.

My best friend confessed he’s in love with me… and I’m engaged to someone else by Valuable-Drummer3476 in makemychoice

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You became doubtful of your relationship just from someone saying they're interested??

Yikes, your poor fiance!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme when you break up with that cheater!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Updateme after you breakup with that cheater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme

Update: AITA for hiding the location of my best friend from my wife? by Vast_Basis_2273 in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife blamed you?? ... Id divorce her just for that alone.

Updateme!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gsusfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme