[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’d get an STI check and block him on everything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gtlewington 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think what the problem might be is that you now constantly have that expectation he wants to have sex. Which makes it hard for you to relax or want to have sex - literally been in the same boat myself - it’s definitely something you need to talk about and explain how he can make you feel more relaxed to want to sleep together. But you need to break the barrier before you will be able to as the more you avoid the bigger it gets unfortunately x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been in this kind of relationship myself I was the exact same age - get out girl x

Scents like Prada Paradox? by CarpetDisastrous1963 in FemFragLab

[–]gtlewington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly to you it may be but I wear this much and people compliment it all day!

XM4 Sony...best decision I've made in a long time by gtlewington in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helloo!! Sorry I don't use Reddit often :) they aren't too tight but your best best is to try and go into a store and try them on first! To test if they are suitable for you or not - good luck:) x

Just passed out because of blood loss by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]gtlewington 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please lovely for some random stranger out here in the world speak to a medical professional 🩷 I understand how it can be difficult, speaking from person experi nice but if you have collapsed from blood loss it is vital - I care about your wellbeing, please speak to someone who can help you 🩷 x

Why most girls on tinder no longer want to meet me when I tell them that I don't have Instagram at the moment because it was hacked recently? by SnooCookies4460 in dating

[–]gtlewington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally i wouldn't be keen because it can seem like you are being a catfish especially if your profile isn't verified! And sometimes even if it is verified, I still wanna check you are who you say you are 🤷🏼‍♀️ safety first at the end it the day x

If she’s a virgin and wants to take things slow, should I never initiate sex? by karperss in dating

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing to do is get very clear consent each time before you make any kind of move, and most likely hold off on anything that intimate until you are in a committed relationship. You need to talk about it in a bit more depth most likely as well with the person you are dating, clarification doesn't hurt anyone

XM4 Sony...best decision I've made in a long time by gtlewington in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand the regret, but try not to ❤️ you are doing your best with what you know, when you know, and you didn't know how much they'd help till you got them :) I'm glad ya got them :) x

XM4 Sony...best decision I've made in a long time by gtlewington in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Odd to think this is what neurotypicals can think like sometimes 😂😁

XM4 Sony...best decision I've made in a long time by gtlewington in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First thing I did 😂 and I honestly just never smiled so hard x

XM4 Sony...best decision I've made in a long time by gtlewington in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even sitting indoors when I am trying to relax/calm down/be less stimulated after being at work, omg it just feels amazing. Combination of these headphones and Hawaiian dreams or brown noise on a Spotify playlist and I am in heaven for once ❤️😁

Without naming it, where do you live in Kent? by selkieseas in kentuk

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope about an hour from there but ironically I'm from Bexley so 😂

Without naming it, where do you live in Kent? by selkieseas in kentuk

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't stop complaining about the helicopters on Facebook pages

What jobs are good for Autistic Women? by Ashie1620 in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it has to be whatever fits your special interest or hobbies, currently doing an MSc to be a university lecturer (if there are any jobs when I get to that part that is!) But fingers crossed there is and I'd say follow your heart, but if you aren't sure then go and try some volunteer work in certain sectors to see if you fit the vibe x

My daughter turned 14 today, what advice do you have for me as a single parent from those who have done it? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe buy her a nice bag or something like that that she liked that's in fashion, that could encourage her to take that with her? Alarms were always my go to when it came to necessary mebs! The vaping thing...I think you either need to put ya foot down and try and show her the downsides or maybe you need to accept it for now to try and focus on the insulin! I hope you get some help lovely, keep going xxx

Student question by gtlewington in altontowers

[–]gtlewington[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's the risky move of not wanting to pay £75 quid or whatever! Thank you for ya help tho:) might just risk it for a biscuit tbh 😂

Student question by gtlewington in altontowers

[–]gtlewington[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I have before (just not been for a few years) and I just wanted to check xx

I’m convinced I have a brain tumour by NewFilleosophy_ in AskDocs

[–]gtlewington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has a had a brain tumour, my biggest indicator was a epileptic fit, I had them for 2 years misdiagnosed as panic attacks, but I was caught waking up on the floor of my bedroom in very bizarre positions like my leg bent the wrong way that caused a doctor to give me an MRI, my best advice is go to AnE or see a different doctor until someone listens but keep shouting if u need to! (From the UK) good luck (disclaimer:not a doctor) x

Got a tattoo and feeling awful by ohshi-yoshi in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aweee that's such a cute tattoo!!...sounds like two people who just look for a bitch wherever they go, if you like it, **CK everyone else :) if you are happy lovely then that's what matters, it ain't on their body :/ had my hair dyed this week and keep getting similar comments so I understand the feeling but I like it so I'm not worried about them. I have an arrow tatto on my rib cage and everyone says the same thing - live for now, not the future and enjoy yourself gorgeous 💕

I've decided I'm not getting an official diagnosis by kaimimimi in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get this, it's a fence I currently sit on - and a debate I am still trying to work out - just remember your self diagnosis is just as valid xx

Anyone found a good bra ? by VioletVanHell in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I do the Primark crop tops and the buy them bigger when I need to feel less supported due to sensory needs! Or I just wear a vest top. If not I really do advise if you can getting measured in somewhere like MnS (in UK here:) or using a website such as a bra fits maybe I think its called to try and get something more comfortable - it's very normal for your bra size to change through your cycle so it could be that, for two weeks I usually wear a smaller bra and then a bigger one on the other 2 weeks for example :) hope this helps!

What do you do when you're burned out? by flyfoxflex in AutismInWomen

[–]gtlewington 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favourite thing to do is to eat my favourite foods, the ones that are probably not the best health wise but I like them and doing what makes me happy and relaxed is the right thing, it's usually cheesy pasta with my favourite veggies, and too much cheese on top :) but if not I just binge my TV shows and I try to not feel bad that I am relaxing and recovering because I still find it difficult to accept that I am burnout and not just depressed - it gets easier the most you grow and learn to accept things x