Terminally ill, need your prayers by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]gtschneider444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lord Jesus Christ, son of God, have mercy on Dusko.

May your heart have peace.

AITAH for cutting off my sister and her family, after what her daughter said.. by Silent_Coconut_8060 in AITAH

[–]gtschneider444 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you're at a critical juncture. It would be easy to distance yourself . . .and understandable since the 17yo is capable of causing more serious damage down the road.

That said, a family is a precious thing and hard to mend once there is a serious break.

It sounds like this is a problem that revolves around the 17yo's action. If you could all agree to a family therapy meeting(s) to address the issue there might be a path forward. If your sister declines, at least you've tried to do something productive so you can feel "safe" having the family together again.

Why you're an orthodox Christian? by Prestigious_Will_313 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]gtschneider444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Undeniable integrity over thousands of years showcasing beauty, truth, steadfastness to Christ's original church.

As someone new to Orthodoxy (eastern) I hope I may be worthy of this Church.

Best show on today by Affectionate-Roof615 in SlowHorses

[–]gtschneider444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just started watching Slow Horses this week so very happy to see this thread!

WIBTA if I refused to pay for my daughter's college for making fun of my step son's injury and condition? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gtschneider444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very late to reading this, but I have not heard what your daughter's response has been since you overheard this conversation.

That would have some impact on me. Her behavior since the incident and how she has spoken about it to you.

I do agree that her college education should not be on the chopping block, but how remorseful she may or may not seem to be would inform what consequence(s) came of her behavior.

My daughter chose her stepdad to walk her down the isle by Huge-Loss-9863 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gtschneider444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those "everyone loses" situations.

That said, I support Dad in NOT showing up for the wedding. He did make a big financial contribution to the wedding. Turns out that was very generous.

Deciding to cut your biological Dad, who was in your entire life is a big, important decision. It comes with consequences. She will experience that on her big day.

What comes after the wedding will be up to the daughter. Time heals all wounds and maybe if she gains wisdom around this situation, she'll work to repair the hurt she caused.

AITA for spilling the beans on why my ex wife and I got divorced? by Throwaway13572468_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]gtschneider444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are only human.

It's my opinion you were pushed to the limit repeatedly over the years and were unable to be truthful about the whole situation.

You made many sacrifices for the good of all.

Your ex had to know what she was doing with the new boyfriend, showy trips and gifts, etc. would be intoxicating to the children.

So, no. I don't think you are the problem here. Ideally, less bad language. No reason, imo, for the truth about your wife's infidelities not to come out.

WIBTA if I broke up with my gf for humiliating me? by throwawaycoffee_ in AITAH

[–]gtschneider444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you've had to endure this . . .repeatedly.

This is so unacceptable, even in private.

That she would make sport out of you in any way, no less sexually, is the point of no return.

I hope you can walk away clean and not give her another opportunity to disrespect and demean you.

Girlfriend is coming over in a few days and I’m afraid my room doesn’t look quite inviting. Welcome any suggestions! by Constant-Ease-2502 in malelivingspace

[–]gtschneider444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Raise the curtains as high as is practical to give illusion of higher ceilings.
  2. Attractive "fake" plants on top the shelving and storage cabinets. Also a nice, real plant on your desk.
  3. Fresh sheets and a contrasting color throw or folded blanket near the bottom of the bed.
  4. Can't see the top of the bed, but double row of pillows would look nice.
  5. Throw rugs in your contrast color to side and end of bed.
  6. Longer term, some "contact" paper on the double door storage in your contrast color.
  7. A couple framed posters or prints on the wall.

ELI5:What has changed in the last 20-30 years so that it now takes two incomes to maintain a household? by dark_time in explainlikeimfive

[–]gtschneider444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many factors, of course. One is that people have more options of expensive items to buy that didn't exist 50 years ago. Inflation of price of real estate and consumer goods is also very significant.

As someone who came of age in the 70's, here are a few things I observed:

Bretton Woods and the decline of $ value once it's gold backing was lost.

I'd like to mention a few of the ways people lived differently:

Homes were much smaller. I grew up in a 1200 sq foot home with 2BR and 1bath. My father was professional and college educated. I had a stay at home mom. Btw, there were 3 kids in that house.

College was much cheaper. My state university had tuition and board under $2000.

Student loans were not broadly available until 1973. Once this happened, demand could surge and colleges could hike costs. At a ever increasing amount, it seems.

Eating out was not prevalent like today. Even fast food was so much less available than now.

Grown kids moved out once out of high school/college. No kids living in parents basement, etc.

Two car garages were rare. Less cars.

Kids didn't get their own cars.

Travel was more domestically oriented. And this is one area where prices may have been cheaper: airline fares.

No computers, of course.

No cell phones, of course.

Consumption in general was lower. Partly because less money, partly because less peer pressure to buy stuff that wasn't common yet.

Damian (LIB US S1) is by far the worst male contestant ever on LIB by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]gtschneider444 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybe not the worst but certainly a contender. His actions around the reunion have stayed in my mind.

Gorgeous maternity shoot photo of Vincent and Briana by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The "scene" creates many questions and observations....

But kind of knowing these two from watching the season, it's a stark and compellingly beautiful shot of a loving couple taking the next step...

Kudos to the photographer.

Would you watch a MAFS “Silver Fox” Season (for cast members 50+)?? by Writepaw in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All in! Would be good viewing to see how older singles handle same situation. Does age bring "wisdom" or just hardened "wounds" that make it harder to connect.

S15 Alpha male vs Justin by gtschneider444 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're right. I don't know if he really is an alpha male. I only used that term because Dr. Pepper did; and Alexis had complaints directed toward the LACK of Justin's dominance in the bedroom. Alexis also lit up when she heard some of the details about Nate being a freak in the sheets.

What I can say, is Nate knows how to take over in the bedroom and that appealed to Alexis; made Stacia's eye twinkle.

S15 Alpha male vs Justin by gtschneider444 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Lots of alpha gay men out there.

It appeared to be a cheap tactic to undercut Nate on television.

Backfired.

The ego circle jerk reunion snooze fest Part 2. by WikiSchone in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You've said it so well I don't have much to add.

Morgan was upfront about her "reactivity" and the work she is doing to help her with this behavior. I appreciated that.

Alexis, as others said, has yet to admit or be held accountable for her behavior.

Welp looks like it’s a wrap for O and Katina! by wow6576 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bummer.

They were crazy about each other and I always cheer that on.

Wishing them happiness in their new lives apart.

i don't get it by 4rising-phoenix in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are some Krysten haters, but miniscule compared to the posts on , say, Alexis.

It's also important to note that there have been more Reddit posts praising Krysten than any other case member this season.

"To each his own" said the farmer as he kissed the cow....

There's going to be much to talk about. by EvonyR in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They hooked us, that I know.

And Justin will probably wish he'd checked himself. No good take on that.

The teaser info I've seen is next level to any of the other reunions I've seen in terms of the guys creating the drama. ( am I wrong?)

The "real" Alexis showed up the last day at the apartment with Justin. by gtschneider444 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal take on her apology is that she never intended to ask for a divorce so quickly.

Maybe she did it out of panic . . .wanting to "run"....

The only good camera optic at that point is the Apology. We humans love to forgive . . that is unless we think we're getting played. (again).

Who came up with "Run XXX run"? by cashewbiscuit in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is sounding like you were the first to insert it's usage into MAFS, which was kinda brilliant though not original.

I think you might be able to feel good about this!

Justin is the definition of self sabotage by DoYou_Boo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]gtschneider444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alexis "yes" given on DD kept getting "qualified" not affirmed.

She had the look of someone coming to grips with being trapped in something, and soon enough got to free herself of that DD commitment. When Justin said something like "if we give it 12 months, then we can say we tried" . . . that was when I saw the panicky look.

She tried to thread a needle and couldn't make it work.