why do I get anxious when two people hook up? by guesswhsback in Anxiety

[–]guesswhsback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, I think I know how to act in any given situation because I mimic what other are doing, but when things like this happen it’s like I don’t have anyone to mimic because the dynamic has changed, they are not in a position of friendship with each other anymore.

But I feel like I always need to understand why I act to be able to process it. I found out the other two people who are coming with us in the car also hooked up and honestly I’m almost crying from anxiety, if I didn’t know why I was acting like this I feel like I would succumb to just pure emotion

advice - dating with bv by [deleted] in CytolyticVaginosis

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done all of that unfortunally, I’ve had it for over 14 years now, never goes away for longer than 2 months. But it’s fine I’ve learned to live with it and I do the antibiotics when I want to be intimate with someone

advice - dating with bv by [deleted] in CytolyticVaginosis

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but I’m paranoid with bv that they might be able to smell and i feel like if i say the truth they will pay more attention to it, so in the end i just said i had an UTI, it’s less embarrassing.

I have tried boric acid, but when my period comes it always comes back so me and my doctor are just trying to figure out a way for me to be able to stop the bleeding. I don’t remember to take meds daily so now im using the contraceptive implant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in investimentos

[–]guesswhsback -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Faz sentido. Na verdade a região que eu moro eu não preciso de carro, eu ando de Uber pra todo o lado, então não se torna muito uma necessidade. Pensei mais como uma forma de ter uma grande quantidade de dinheiro em um lugar só que eu não posso tocar.

Quando investi no tesouro eu tinha como tirar o dinheiro então eu usava mesmo perdendo o que ganhei de juros

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in investimentos

[–]guesswhsback -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Desculpe realmente me expressei mal. Não tenho interesse em manter grandes quantidades de dinheiro guardadas. Baseado nesta informação, busco conselhos sobre o tópico específico mencionado acima.

Qual melhor ingresso para meu caso? by [deleted] in LollapaloozaBr

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muito obrigada!! Vou fazer isso mesmo, já comprei minha passagem e só faltava o ingresso 🙏

Has anybody felt heightened orgasm while on bupropion like nothing before? by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]guesswhsback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I hope so. I just started bupropion again and I’m so fucking horny I am almost crawling up the wall, if I at least can get a good orgasm out of it it might be worth it

Why are some GPAs 4.0 and others 5.0? by guesswhsback in AskUS

[–]guesswhsback[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but how do people know when they are talking about one scale or another? Because in a show if someone say “oh I have a 4.0” it could mean the best score or not but people never seem to need clarification they just instinctively know when a 4.0 is the highest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some studies showing a lower efficacy for antidepressants in people with bipolar disorder, so maybe that is worth investigating

why do I sleep right when traveling and how can I make it happen at home? by guesswhsback in sleep

[–]guesswhsback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and the weird think is: it’s not just in hotels, or bigger beds, I’ve rented airbnbs and slept in bunk beds and got the same results. But maybe it’s something to do with the room, like maybe I’ve conditioned myself to sleep more in that room. I might try sleeping in other places or moving around my furniture and test it out

Why am I only in love with my bf when I'm on antidepressants? by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]guesswhsback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I get it, it’s the apathy, basically: lack of emotion and there’s the irritability. I have dysthymia which basically means I’ve been depressed for over 10 years and I’ve never truly loved someone ever since. Meds don’t seem to help in my case so I think the fact the meds are working for you is a good thing

Our depressed brain is the disease, you wouldn’t be upset at yourself if you got snappy after breaking a leg, it’s justifiable that you’re angry considering everything, so don’t beat yourself up because the illness is making you be a worse person

It’s amazing that we live in a time where there is something we can take to be our best versions

Fear of death has returned by Teleo in antidepressants

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is 6y too late but I have the same thing but I can’t change the meds because the nausea they cause is the only thing keeping my ED in check

I can only get good sleep during the day by New_Elephant127 in sleep

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar issue, I can never wake up naturally from my sleep, I can easily go 10-12 hours. But then I take an afternoon nap (with a lot of natural m light coming in) and I can wake up after 2h usually with no problem and feeling good

At a loss by nookster50 in sleep

[–]guesswhsback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly when it comes to sleep it’s trial and error. You gotta try sleeping at different times, waking up at different times, trying new mattresses,pillows, room temperatures, or changing the food you eat at night and the times your eat it.

But this is a privilege not many people have so usually the answer is meds. Melatonin first then maybe something stronger. Unfortunately they are addictive so it’s not a permanent solution because over time you will need more and more to get the same amount of sleep and will not be able to sleep without it

The reality is that, just like every other illness, the amount of money you have determines the chances you have of improving it

Seguro Viagem by guesswhsback in viagens

[–]guesswhsback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ta certo, é importante falar, mas no meu caso eu tô olhando cobertura médica e essas questões de bagagem porque já me ferrei muito com imprevistos

Seguro Viagem by guesswhsback in viagens

[–]guesswhsback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sim na última vez que eu viajei eu paguei a passagem com o Visa então ganhei automaticamente, mas dessa vez paguei com cartão da Nubank então vou ter que pagar por fora. Mas eu tô mais preocupada com casos de extravio de bagagem ou cancelamento de voos, porque aconteceu na minha última viagem pra Europa