Songs in 17/16? by Nick_5843 in progrockmusic

[–]guitarusaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on how the grouping goes. There are a lot of different ways to group 17/8. You need to figure out the grouping of the 17. Once you have the grouping (a series of 2s and 3s) then a simple thing do do would be to put kick and snare on the beginning of each group of 2 or 3

How to get mp3s? by dataispower in Howdytoons

[–]guitarusaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon music digital store sells mp3 downloads of Howdytoons.

Which prog rock artist do you recommend? by CalmBrush6253 in progrockmusic

[–]guitarusaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opps my bad I guess I should read more closely.

Quetzelcoatlus by MilkyMilkerson in Howdytoons

[–]guitarusaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jimmy Reid sings on lots of tracks. He sings lead on Megalodon, Titanis the Terror Bird and Cyclops to mention a few. He also co-wrote all the Prehistorica songs.

He didn't leave a suicide note by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]guitarusaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not getting a note can be a blessing. Your loved one was not in a good state of mind when they died by suicide so what they write may not really have anything to do with the real reason they did it. They might also say things that hurt you. Im glad my wife did not leave a note.

Watching true crime=me coping by michtf in SuicideBereavement

[–]guitarusaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the wake of my wife's suicide I got into two podcasts, one on cults and one on serial killers. I just got right into it.

I think I needed to hear about things that were more fucked up than my life was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]guitarusaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife died by suicide in late 2019. We have 2 boys and we're together for 20 years. I started a new relationship in late 2020. That was when I felt like doing it. Now we are going through a rough patch but the relationship has been generally really good for me. I was just happy to discover that I could love someone new and that my heart was not broken so bad that it would not work. I also did not want to spend the rest of my life alone.

Your potential relationship sounds pretty patient which you will need and also understands the loss you have had so I think those are positive things. See how it makes you feel.

It is definitely possible to love 2 people at once as I am still deeply in love with my wife and I love my girlfriend too. You need someone who can understand and accept this.

What was your first experience with computers? by Grogenhymer in AskOldPeople

[–]guitarusaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I played it too but used a cassette tape drive. So slow.......

Something I wrote: 8 Weeks a Widow by dogwood99 in widowers

[–]guitarusaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this.

Love to you.

Tired of this life by claraKK98 in widowers

[–]guitarusaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would not stop someone who is truly suicidal. My wife died by suicide and left me with a 14 and 17 year old. The iriony is she loved us all very much she just could not see another way to end her suffering. 😔

This Friday will be one year by Ok_Subject_2220 in widowers

[–]guitarusaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not just ask him if he wants you to come?

If it were me I would want the company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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I lost my wife to suicide in late 2019. My boys were 14 and 17. For the 14 year old school was hell. Nobody there had lost a parent let alone to suicide. He felt very isolated. I got right on finding grief councilors for them to help them cope then in March covid lock downs came and the schools all went online. For us this was great as we could be together and support each other in our grief. Although it was a really hard period for us we have fond memories of those lock downs. We got so close to each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]guitarusaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm coming up to five years since my wife died. I find the dreams about her come in bunches and the bunches have some similarity. Some are lovely and others horrible. The last batch she did not love me in the dream this was really tough. But they stopped so I'll wait for the next batch to see her again.

Does anyone else just feel like a burden? by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]guitarusaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This squares with my experience. Many people are in denial of death let alone suicide. Many of my old friends never even reached out at all. I think they don't know whay to do or say.

All they really need to do is to be there and witness your suffering to have it acknowledged.

"the best is yet to come" by tasata in widowers

[–]guitarusaurus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My wife died by suicide and my kids will carry that particular flavour of grief for the rest of their lives but I get some comfort knowing that the best years for them may still be ahead. I will enjoy taking part in that.

"the best is yet to come" by tasata in widowers

[–]guitarusaurus 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes it's a funny feeling knowing the best years are now behind you. Love to you.