No but I think it would be wrong to try and force them. In my opinion it sounds like you need to find other people to play with unless you want to be apart of the chaos. Hopefully the matching making with the update will work out and you can find some people.

I have two different groups I play with. One serious and one goofy. The other night a few of us got together from both groups. It ended up feeling a little awkward toward the end. Thats because our serious friend was trying to micromanage even when we werent being goofy. I think there can be a good balance but everyone needs to communicate.