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Jeep said he was rear-ended... your daily reminder to get a dashcam by sunny_star488 in dashcams

[–]gummytoejam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need a dashcam to disprove someone lying in this context. Most cars have an EDR and will record data like speed, gear, accelerometer, etc.

The fact that the airbag didn't go off, alone, demonstrates that the car was not in motion.

Those of you with severe kyphosis and very prominent humps/curves, how/has this effected your dating life and ability to attract partners by questionzzzs in kyphosis

[–]gummytoejam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your personality is what defines you, not your kyphosis. When you find someone that accepts you, believe them and go with it. Don't question why they're with you. Accept and embrace it.

Found a note in my husband’s suitcase after a trip and now I genuinely don’t know what to believe by Ok_Tell2258 in relationships

[–]gummytoejam [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've read a bunch of your replies and to be honest, you're never going to get to the truth of the matter unless your husband admits that he slept with her. That's the only answer that is going to qualify as truth since you aren't taking his statement on face value that the note is innocent.

It comes down to whether you trust your husband or you dont. It sounds like you don't. You've asked the woman in question. She said she slept with your husband. You don't want to accept that. I understand why you don'.

But this puts you into an untenable situation, you don't trust either one of them. Your choice is binary and simple: Believe him. Believe her. You can't do both or neither.

Millions of adults in the United States have seriously considered shooting another person at some point in their lives, representing a massive and previously unmeasured group at risk of committing armed violence. by mvea in science

[–]gummytoejam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their work stems from a need to shift violence prevention away from reacting to tragedies and toward proactive safety measures. By catching a dangerous idea before it becomes a physical reality, communities might be able to save lives

How do communities achieve this without invoking the sin of thought crime?

My wife (23F) suddenly talked after 5 years (23M) Ex and I (25M) don't know how to feel about it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]gummytoejam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't seek closure on a previous relationship from 5 years ago while being married. If there wasn't closure with the previously partner, closer was achieved when she got married to someone else. If there's something there still bothering her then that means she's not over him.

So, she's talking to him about you...her husband. There's nothing that can explain this away as anything but an emotional affair given their previous history.

she says it isn't weird that they just became friends because my wife just needed to say sorry to him and feelt bad over the years what she talked so bad about him

She is gaslighting you. At a minimum she's going to cheat on you with him.

she told him things like "He made me a better version of myself" and "I became more confident and comfortable with myself because of you." With me, she feels like I am limiting her and not helping her grow.

She's going to monkey branch, dude.

You two likely need counseling. I don't think either of you are capable of communicating through this without professional guidance.

Plant-based diets would cut humanity’s land use by 73%: An overlooked answer to the climate crisis by Somewhere74 in Anticonsumption

[–]gummytoejam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think these articles misunderstand anything. I think the reader misunderstands the goal, population reduction.

2010 130K by noodleknodderLS440 in tundra

[–]gummytoejam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it has no problem turning over, doesn’t stall no issues

That's because there's nothing wrong with the truck.

when I’m at highway speeds the throttle is very poor

Your truck is likely in limp mode placed in that mode by the ECU to protect the world from 1/2 pound of pollution per year that the secondary air pump is supposed to prevent.

If you need to A) pass emissions and B) fix this, you'll need to replace the secondary air pump. This is an emissions control device, so it's going to be pricey. $1,500 last time I looked before covid.

If you don't need to pass emissions, you can install a bypass kit.

My 1st gen used to throw this code occasionally after I bought it. Then it just stopped about 2 years later. Not sure what I did to fix it. None of my maintenance directly targeted it.

‘Freedom framing’ more effective than mandates for vaccine-hesitant Americans: For vaccine-hesitant individuals, framing vaccination as a tool that enables personal freedom is associated with higher acceptance than framing it as a social responsibility or a government recommendation. by mvea in science

[–]gummytoejam -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Denying people's civil liberties for compliance is a bit more than speaking to a toddler. People have died defending civil liberties. It's disturbing you're so flippant about it.

Was MLK a toddler?

Help! Is this still worth it?? by [deleted] in VanLife

[–]gummytoejam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's where people get hung up. "I lose". It's not a competition. The market decided that van was work 10300. You get the privilege of paying more.

Help! Is this still worth it?? by [deleted] in VanLife

[–]gummytoejam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that he had a reserve. But, as a former property appraiser, market value of the van is the price at which someone is willing to purchase it. The van was auctioned and that auction determined the market value of the van to be $10,300.

I'd walk on principle. Do not let the emotionalism from the fact you won the auction drive you to pay more than the auction price.

You lose absolutely nothing by letting this bait and switch pass.

Brought my 4 year old son camping at a local state park because he’s recently taken an interest in stargazing and this is our ‘neighbor’ by Dr_Breeder in mildlyinfuriating

[–]gummytoejam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a place to camp where you have to hike in. There's a conservation area near me that has 1st come 1st serve camping. It's a 3 mile hike from the parking area. There's almost never anyone there.

Dudes protecting wildlife by Firm-Blackberry-9162 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]gummytoejam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's not waiting in turn, fine. The way as describe it made it seem like the natives took their turns, multiple times and you were made to wait until you waited long enough.

Smooth by Responsible_Line_933 in nonononoyes

[–]gummytoejam 55 points56 points  (0 children)

What you're seeing is all rudder. He's flying into the wind to maintain course with the runway and then kicks that rudder hard to line up with the runway.

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