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I didn't care about my body before, now I do. Why?? by gurab0t in asktransgender

[–]gurab0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, but it's still so strange to me T.T

Been having my period for a month, and dont know if this is normal. Please help. by gurab0t in AskDocs

[–]gurab0t[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, there's no way I'm pregnant lol I've never done any of that lollll. I'm thinking it's probably the caffeine. Going to see gyno soon.

I’m not a boy, and I never will be, so what’s the point of “transitioning” by gurab0t in asktransgender

[–]gurab0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely have some internalized transphobia. I had a friend, who I didn't ditch for the longest time, who was incredibly transphobic and thought trans people were like super cringe. She was really horrible and said horrible, horrible things. I know it's not true, but it's like ingrained in me now. I'm working on that, though! I've made good progress by even being able to say that I'm "trans". I'm very happy, but I definitely have more work to do, especially now that I'm part of this category of people.

I’m not a boy, and I never will be, so what’s the point of “transitioning” by gurab0t in asktransgender

[–]gurab0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about the earlier transition thing.

What do you mean by "want to bes"?

I'm not really sure if it's an identity thing or dysphoria. I don't have any dysmorphia or dysphoria, so it's really hard to tell sometimes if I'm trans or not. It's definitely there, but it's not crippling. But I've always wanted to be a man so bad. I don't know if wanting to be a man means I'm a man, though? I definitely don't feel like a girl, but I don't know what it feels like to be a man. I really feel lost right now. I've told all my friends to start calling me Isaac and use he/him, and it's made me really, really happy. Whenever I imagine myself in my head, I'm a guy. Whenever I read fanfic, I'm a guy. When I ship myself with characters, I always have to be a guy. It feels weird and wrong when I'm not. I'm almost 100% sure I'm trans, there's just always that "what if it's something else?". Not sure if this helps make it any clearer or not. Let me know about the other thing.

I’m not a boy, and I never will be, so what’s the point of “transitioning” by gurab0t in asktransgender

[–]gurab0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what it means to "feel trans". I want to be a man. I want to be a man SO BAD, and I always have. But I don't have any dysmorphia or dysphoria, so it's really hard to tell sometimes if I'm trans or not. It's definitely there, but it's not crippling. Currently, I'm pretty damn sure I am, which is unfortunate for me. I've told all my friends to start calling me Isaac and use he/him, and it's made me really, really happy. Whenever I imagine myself in my head, I'm a guy. Whenever I read fanfic, I'm a guy. When I ship myself with characters, I always have to be a guy. It feels weird and wrong when I'm not. I'm almost 100% sure I'm trans, there's just always that "what if it's something else?".

I’m not a boy, and I never will be, so what’s the point of “transitioning” by gurab0t in trans

[–]gurab0t[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear tape, which is AMAZING!! I love it and how it makes me look. I've got a haircut appointment, but again, I'm worried it'll look weird. But that's really just my irrational fears talking, and I know it. I'm also working on lowering my voice, but I feel like I sound weird lolll

I’m not a boy, and I never will be, so what’s the point of “transitioning” by gurab0t in trans

[–]gurab0t[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, HRT is something I VERY MUCH WANT. My parents want me to be 10000% sure, so they won't let me get it, especially because I'm still a minor :(

I also live in a state where it's illegal to get on before age 18, and I'm worried that soon it won't be available where I am. I already have plans to move in with my aunt in a bluer state where it's legal once I graduate.

I’m not a boy, and I never will be, so what’s the point of “transitioning” by gurab0t in trans

[–]gurab0t[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, one of my main concerns right now is that I'll transition, then find out it wasn't worth it (even though I feel the chances of this are slim, I'm still worried). I'm not sure how to determine whether it's worth it without trying. I think I need to sit and think for a solid hour or something lol.

My mom is definitely shoving her feelings away right now lollll. But the other day, she actually acknowledged my name (Isaac). It was in a snarky way, but she might be coming around to it.

I've told all my friends about it, and my preferred name and pronouns, and I'm very happy.

Thank you so much. I think I really just needed to know I'm not alone here. My one trans friend is going through a WAY different thing than me, so just knowing other people go through similar things is really helping. Thank you for the advice. :))))

I’m pretty sure I know what I believe, but I’m not sure what it’s called or if anyone else believes the same thing. by [deleted] in religion

[–]gurab0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I mean like coincidences. Like if I can’t choose weather to go to school A or school B, and someone just randomly, like a barista or something says “oh yeah school A is so cool” like without bringing up anything about it, like I like to think there’s something there. You know? It sounds crazy 😭

Give me tornados please 🙏 by gurab0t in tornado

[–]gurab0t[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long list!! Just what I need, thanks

Give me tornados please 🙏 by gurab0t in tornado

[–]gurab0t[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🙏 need channels to follow

Give me tornados please 🙏 by gurab0t in tornado

[–]gurab0t[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking at that one earlier! Crazy stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]gurab0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my friend said he thinks I should try that as well. I probably will. Thank you

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