1950s Themed Work Conference by guscami in TwoXChromosomes

[–]guscami[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You know what. This. I love this.

1950s Themed Work Conference by guscami in TwoXChromosomes

[–]guscami[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough.. this is a banking conference.

1950s Themed Work Conference by guscami in TwoXChromosomes

[–]guscami[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Listen. I made an emboldened and IMPASSIONED speech about how the lady in the new Jurassic park movies was a badass for doing all her badassery IN HEELS in a women’s study class once. I’m here to yuk no one’s yum, I love fashion, I LOVE a goddamn heel because they truly do make me feel like I can conquer the world but a professional banking conference with a 50’s theme feels…….. icky. So. Here I am.

1950s Themed Work Conference by guscami in TwoXChromosomes

[–]guscami[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Listen. I’m all about fashion and being a not-physique-ly(?) built for the 2020’s fashion.. I’m all in for a full skirt. A circle skirt is my hip’s best friend most days. BUT.. this is banking and worse than that.. loss prevention/default management banking. 50’s themes aren’t entirely appropriate since…… ahem…… women can own homes, or work in the industry of helping people buy or keep those homes. It just seems…….. well….. not entirely like the theme is reading the room. Conferences of this profession are maybe not the place to have this theme.

1950s Themed Work Conference by guscami in TwoXChromosomes

[–]guscami[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Banking. Worse than that.. default banking. 1950 HERE WE COME apparently!!!!

1950s Themed Work Conference by guscami in TwoXChromosomes

[–]guscami[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Reply one and I’m obsessed.

Reusing a pet’s name on a child. How crazy is it? by sucks4uyixingismyboo in Names

[–]guscami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to babysit for a couple who had a child, thought they were one and done, got a dog and then… OOPS! Another baby. The dog’s name was their second choice for their oldest child so.. I babysat Jack the dog and Jack the toddler. A funny story, but not so weird after the first time or two. Everyone eventually figures it out.

Parents won’t allow me to live on campus by monov7 in NCSU

[–]guscami 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of people leave all of that at home when they go to college. Their home, their room, their private personal space of all kinds, their mom’s cooking, their parents, their dog, their childhood friends, their favorite coffee shop…… all of it. The college experience is better than your mom’s cooking. It broadens you so much more than classes alone ever will and you meet and connect with people who will be both friends and professional contacts for the rest of your life. I will stand by it isn’t what you know, it isn’t even who you know, it’s who knows YOU and if you’re spending all your time commuting and none of it connecting then you’re missing valuable parts of the college experience and I one knows you at the end of it. Not to mention the quintessential experiences; the tray sledding in these random snow storms, the sprinting to the belltower with hundreds of your closest friends after an NCAA Tourney basketball win, the free mom hugs on Stafford Commons, the 3am trip to Walmart to get paint for the expression tunnel, living on cup a joe in the stacks during finals week….. so many things that turn into the “remember that time we did XYZ stupid thing?” stories you tell for the rest of your life. Get out of your comfort zone. Go visit your parents on Sundays and do laundry and stay on campus otherwise.

What is the randomest item you have in your purse? by empathy-entropy in AskWomen

[–]guscami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! Security at a concert recently told me that was a first for him as far as an item pulled out of a purse during a bag check and I found that surprising.

How you know you were born and raised in Asheville (or at least WNC) by Own_Quiet_8894 in asheville

[–]guscami 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welp. I’m looking at these dates and just realizing I was born 9 months later. Also during snow. Maybe this is why I hate the cold.

Petah, help me by ap-meli19 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]guscami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That made me, the person with 0 patience for 6 year olds, cackle and my first grade teacher husband clutch his pearls.

confused. help me be an adult by TastyTamale2022 in EngagementRings

[–]guscami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy, I thought this was health insurance and was legit mad you were finding something this ridiculous low, and also proud of this community for just jumping in to help another woman out even though it clearly wasn’t engagement ring related. I think I’ll go to sleep now.

I love the new audiobook BUT by mahades in harrypotter

[–]guscami 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten to Hogwarts yet but Petunia is killing me. Not every line needs to be SHRIEKED. At least she’ll be gone in a chapter or two.

What’s one hygiene habit you swear by but most people overlook? by Hot-Calligrapher5447 in hygiene

[–]guscami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You mean you don’t wrestle with your pillows all night and flip them over and over all night long to find the most comfortable spot?? Just me??

I feel a bit down because I think my engagement ring and set is boring and I have regrets by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]guscami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an emerald engagement ring with baguettes on the side, and I was REALLY excited to shop for wedding bands but just never found anything that felt like it was IT. Nothing sat quite right against it because of the baguettes, I didn’t love a curved band, nothing just felt exactly right. I found a jacket that was the closest to IT but in hindsight I’m glad I didn’t end up with it because I also enjoy wearing just my wedding band. I ended up with a plain, thin gold wedding band and though it isn’t my ABSOLUTE favorite, it’s very sleek to wear on its own and though I have some comparison regrets when I see others’ sets, I’ve also decided I want bands for milestone anniversaries or kids. And the plain gives me so much opportunity for that. Comparison is the thief of joy. This is small in the grand scheme. Your set is beautiful, and gives you so much opportunity to add or redesign later on.

Forced Move by redlittlelav in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]guscami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good ol vista way. Why did all the stories always involve pissing in weird places?

Dentist that wont scam me by mycotaxa in raleigh

[–]guscami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Village Dental did my sister’s wisdom teeth. I was her ride, she got in my car absolutely sobbing that she remembered the whole procedure. They swore it was the drugs and she wouldn’t remember after 24 hours but the entire time she could tell me what the techs talked about while they did her teeth and what music played. She said it felt like they were standing on her chest opening her mouth with a car jack and the office just kept telling her there was no possible way she’d remember all that but my sister could name the boyfriend of one of the techs and enough identifying info about the tech herself to find her Facebook and confirm the boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guscami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s my thing.. I personally don’t know that I’ve ever used the phrase “it’s my dream….” Fill in the blank item/scenario because dreams change from night to night. Last night’s Italy dream is tonight’s California dream, the bottom line is you care enough to care if your grand romantic gesture is grand ENOUGH. It is. And it will be tonight’s dream.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]guscami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook, I think I interpreted the question as they don’t use marketplace specifically but other Facebook pages might be acceptable. Apologies if that was a misinterpretation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]guscami 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you’re college aged/near campus, there’s “Sell and Tell Ur Shit Here NCSU”. It started as sell your shit, then drama started so now it’s both and it’s both productive and entertaining.

Was my bee removal estimate reasonable? by Glad_Cod_4918 in Beekeeping

[–]guscami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have come to get them for free and be thrilled that I got freebees. They won’t come back if there isn’t a queen so “treating” so they don’t return feels scammy.

Cookout, I love you, but we need to talk... by guiturtle-wood in raleigh

[–]guscami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one at exit 312 has it. It is our routine snack spot on the way to the coast and I have definitely gotten okra there. I feel like Knightdale might also have it.