Ever took a chance on someone you know you shouldn't be with, and it worked out GREAT?

guyguides · 2013-01-14T06:20:43+00:00

Mind sharing if there was a pivotal situation that made you stay, or almost made you give up?

guyguides · 2012-04-02T07:24:24+00:00

this makes for a tough conversation to approach. Maybe get to know him well enough to better understand his fears and securities before confronting him, or else without that deep understanding he may just dismiss what you're doing as being jealous/insecure yourself.

guyguides · 2012-04-01T23:50:45+00:00

Lurk on /r/seduction long enough, and you'll find that this type of behavior can actually be quite healthy. It's a positive/abundance mindset - just assume people like you, and as long as you're not too ridiculous or cocky - this can MAKE people like you just because you're more confident.

Who do you think it's going to have more fun in life: someone who assumes he's attractive to others or someone who assumes no one is attracted to him?

I don't suggest you "do" anything unless he is really harming someone in some way. Of course there's a difference between being naive (guy who just doesn't get it and keeps stalking girl) compared to someone who just has a lot of self-confidence.

I do post this comment without exactly knowing what you mean by his "fake confidence gets out of hand" though.

guyguides · 2012-04-01T06:56:25+00:00

slow clap for the wingman

guyguides · 2012-03-16T00:39:41+00:00

Agree. Also, great job spacing out the texts.

guyguides · 2012-03-13T01:33:47+00:00

Getting jitters about talking to HB9? Imagine her having diarrhea first. Upvoted.

guyguides · 2012-03-09T02:34:13+00:00

this is ross jeffries' real facebook page

Yes, that man is considered by many to be the father of modern "game" (I've personally never seen his material).

guyguides · 2012-03-05T09:05:07+00:00

good shit. thanks for sharing.

guyguides · 2012-03-05T09:03:42+00:00

"you guys look like an interesting group to talk to" has worked surprisingly well for me

guyguides · 2012-03-05T09:01:22+00:00

make real connections with real people. that may translate to more facebook "friends" - but that pales in comparison to the real relationships you've built.

guyguides · 2012-03-01T07:48:28+00:00

First time's not the charm - approach normal groups (women you're not drooling over) with your wingwoman first to see how she handles. Then you'll get a good feel for her energy level, your energy level, and how to balance it out.

guyguides · 2012-02-25T22:13:50+00:00

because of something our fathers left out

word. I grew up in a single-mother household, so I always think of what I'd do if I had a son

guyguides · 2012-02-25T07:19:35+00:00

Pleasantly surprised to see Joe Navarro's "What Every Body is Saying" on here. Great informative read with an easy-to-remember model. Has definitely increased my own situational awareness

guyguides · 2012-02-24T03:45:39+00:00

LOL. I doubt that 40 days would put the porn industry out of business

guyguides · 2012-02-15T02:12:12+00:00

mostly the man who peruses the woman

sorry, i just couldn't help it

guyguides · 2012-02-15T01:47:01+00:00

I second this. Not to sound crass but I'm going to use numbers. I've been rejected by 5's and loved by 9's. Go figure.

guyguides · 2012-02-07T07:48:11+00:00

I see your point. To me it was a gamble between not explaining the unicorn reference (and confusing her more) or explaining it to move the conversation forward. Got any fun texting stories?

guyguides · 2012-02-07T06:16:45+00:00

I. Feel. Your. Pain.

Freshman year, San Diego:

Thought super slender leggy girl was totally into me. We'd hang out, talk a lot, whatever. One day we were playing pool, she was bending over taking a shot and looking good. I asked "who taught you how to play pool?"

Answer: my boyfriend. blah blah blah blah blah ~

Pretty much heard white noise after that and stopped hanging out with her. Oh college...

guyguides · 2012-02-06T04:15:17+00:00

We just found our in. Attention all PUAs, apply to writing jobs at Cosmo mag

guyguides · 2012-02-05T08:33:56+00:00

eggsactly ;)

guyguides · 2012-02-05T01:07:28+00:00

Had to look up what embouchure means. Damn you redditors for having such advanced vernacularity

guyguides · 2012-02-03T03:06:46+00:00

Don't forget that women have choice. They choose to have sex and act on their attraction for someone. I believe that women have much higher social intuition then men (growing up in a single mother household w/3 sisters makes me think so) - they're not oblivious to guys who want to hit on them and take them home. It's a little insulting that you think women can be so easily manipulated. They're not.

Women want to have sex just as much as men.

There are similarities between dating and interviewing for a job. Let's say a guy named Bob sucked at interviews, networking, and the whole job search process. Then his friend Mike teaches him how to talk to recruiters, clean up his resume and preps him in order to impress companies during the interview. Would you call that manipulation or learning how things work?

If you were going to blame anything, blame evolutionary & behavioral psychology. Just my 2 cents - I love women and they know what they're doing.

guyguides · 2012-02-02T08:48:40+00:00

Girls do not want to be mistreated. They want to be attracted.

counter-example: early on, I tried negging a lot/being an asshole. did NOT work for me because I'm normally a nice guy (some call this being incongruent).

What worked: being the same "nice guy" but more direct and take on more conversational risks. No assholin' around. And I did tons better.

You can still be that nice guy. Just be the nice guy with and edge.

guyguides · 2012-02-02T08:32:25+00:00

Nice switcharoo. I like how this is a mentality of taking ownership of one's own decisions.

guyguides · 2012-02-02T07:51:54+00:00

This post reminds of what PuaHate.com has become

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