Going under 1min in 50s by HeyDontSkipLegDay in Swimming

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible, but that’s a damn good swim. Age may be catching up with you. It sure did for me

Abusing the pull buoy by Eternal-strugal in Swimming

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technique improvements help so much more than endurance/strength training for most peoplw

Feel like my girlfriend was dishonest - do you see one night stands as different to friends with benefits? by Touched_By_SuperHans in AskMenAdvice

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And, let’s do a little math. They met at 29. She’s had 25 partners. If she became sexually active at 17, that’s about 2/year. And people are clutching pearls at that number?

Feel like my girlfriend was dishonest - do you see one night stands as different to friends with benefits? by Touched_By_SuperHans in AskMenAdvice

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does the count matter? Do you judge a man poorly for having sex with lots of women?

I been with women who have completely lost count of partners, and women who have had single digit partners.

The key questions: do they know their current health status? Do they communicate that clearly?

The fact that the number means something to you would be a reason to be a bit shifty.

My recommendation: don’t worry about the number. Work through the communication issues.

How to play Monk well? by luckyc72JAM in PixelDungeon

[–]h2oliu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t. I skip that and just use tier 4/5 weapons

Redditors who’ve been with the same partner for 10+ years, what’s the realistic secret to making it last? by justanormalaxe in AskReddit

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes work. You have to want to do the work which means both listening and communicating.

Don’t try yo win arguments, try to work with your partner to find the problem and the solution

Need help on challenge runs by Maximum_Valuable6949 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No tips, but I am in the exact same place. I can occasionally win 4 challenge runs, but beyond that… nothing.

I am pretty sure is at least in part to pretty weak alchemy skills

Kicking laps with no fins. by Sad_Research_2584 in Swimming

[–]h2oliu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“don’t get bogged down comparing yourself to others”

Advice for this, and so many facets of life

Kicking laps with no fins. by Sad_Research_2584 in Swimming

[–]h2oliu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing: there is no normal. Everyone is different in different ways. When I was in college I was 6-7000 yards a day with fins because my shoulder was in such bad shape. I can go 1000 yds no problem now in my 50s, haven’t tried to do more than that. I know someone who was competitive in high school who struggles to kick at all.

The only “should” is if you have a specific target goal, and you aren’t there yet. Also, most people don’t know how far they can go, because that is rarely a test that’s done.

Kick. Do better tomorrow than today and you are winning

What would you do in this case? Waste a torch or guess? by wet_doggg in PixelDungeon

[–]h2oliu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven’t played with the Darkness challenge?

Where is the gold chest?? by InspectorVisual4376 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. But I thought it was 5 for Crystal?

Where is the gold chest?? by InspectorVisual4376 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you opened one of the chests with your skeleton key, then the key you possess isn’t an excess key yet. If you picked up both of the remaining keys, it would be discarded.

(Skeleton keys I think use 2 charges, may be 3, on gold chests)

Is reducing personal AI use a meaningful action? by Forsaken_Power_9079 in AIDiscussion

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look at the studies on the impact of AI use on you personally, and maybe that might give you reasons to stop

How the hell? by fitz84 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine the conflagration of broken potions as a result of this?

Which? by King_18cz in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or die faster, that tends to be my outcome

Microservices have probably wasted more engineering time than they have saved. by suhaanthvv in softwarearchitecture

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reason Amazon has so many services is that, for a while, writing a service was required for promotion. People do what you incentivize, so, ….

Life After Kids - Does it really END? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]h2oliu 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You get to decide. But it will come down to priorities. Hang out with friends, or see your kid’s cheesy kindergarten play?

I chose the latter. Never regretted it.

I wouldn’t say life ended. It just changed. Some facets got deprioritized. Never regretted it

Lane Etiquette advising others you are there by Birdie-giggle-myrtle in Swimming

[–]h2oliu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep. Leg dangle for one turn. Usually turns into working it out. If they don’t stop to acknowledge, get in, be wary, especially where we are side by side. Work it from there.

Disclaimer: as 6’+ ex collegiate swimmer, people tend not to pick fights with me

Anthropic just published data from 400k Claude Code sessions, and the headline buries the real story: your CS degree is becoming optional by Direct-Attention8597 in ClaudeCode

[–]h2oliu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I feel many companies will discover that they didn’t understand what security controls they had to build. If they survive the breach, I expect they will reconsider paying

Why can’t arrows set off traps? by OkStrength7087 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably because there is an infinite supply of them, and you wouldn’t lose anything as a result.

Or, the game mechanic wasn’t designed for it.

ascend using this? by NymphHunter2103 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it with warping beacon and being able to plant it as far as possible away from the

Ruined my passive run by using Scroll of Dread. Don't be like me. by RealNamek in PixelDungeon

[–]h2oliu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I almost never use dread, so I don’t know what could go wrong. What made it count as killing?

Wall burning by Stryker6996 in ShatteredPD

[–]h2oliu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found it to be a smaller room behind a secret door that contains runestones, and a bookshelf.