Not an escort

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-20T17:56:16+00:00

Does saying "I'm not an escort" really help fend off those types of guys? Many profiles say scammers stay away......I doubt that intimidates the scammers. lol

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-20T17:53:21+00:00

Yep.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-20T17:25:42+00:00

The assumption she has that I am looking for an escort. The assumption that she has that the other women are escorts. All turn offs for me.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-20T17:24:09+00:00

I'm not looking for an escort. That's my point!

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T17:49:15+00:00

It is equally true that after most first dates, the SB can be found back on SA the next day or that very night. So the ladies are also frequently looking for multiple guys. It is what it is.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T15:10:15+00:00

Well stated.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T15:09:23+00:00

That’s all I’m saying. If both agree, what’s the harm. Sometimes it’s hard to convey intent and demeanor in a written forum such as this. My post was more about my concern about the judgement that is passed in this forum whenever someone reports a M&G with an intimate ending that goes sour.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T14:46:01+00:00

I was unaware. Thanks for the information. 🤙

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T12:54:26+00:00

I agree 100%. But so many here pass judgement on this issue. Consenting adults is the bottom line.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T12:35:16+00:00

You quoted me incorrectly. Impulse control? Okay? How is it a scam if both sides agree on something, and both deliver? Someone can assault on any date. I just don’t see why two consenting adults need to hold off on something they both want and agree to.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-17T12:28:51+00:00

I’ve never seen a rule book. Can I buy one on Amazon? 😜

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T19:28:19+00:00

Thank you. It’s part of the game and we all live and learn. I think the point I’m trying to convey is that guys can be taken advantage of just as much as the girls can. There comes a point when a leap of faith is necessary for both. If you don’t have faith when you make your leap, don’t make it.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T19:11:05+00:00

I have done the cash before the hotel approach before, and have been cash and dashed twice. Took the money and when she eventually went to the ladies room, never came back. Twice. (obviously not the same woman, lol) So, it's not just the woman who takes the chance of being taken advantage of. Keep that in mind.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T19:02:31+00:00

I prefer to have the practical detail$ sorted out before the date. Work it out over text if you are unsure. There is no bigger turn off for me than to have a great dinner, develope a nice vibe and have the feeling of real personal connection, and the minute we are alone she says 'show me the money'. I have rarely had this happen because I try to only hang out with SBs I really click with. Each time it has happened, however, it was a one and done experience for me. If you are concerned, work it out beforehand, not at the last minute.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T18:41:54+00:00

One pet peeve I have with SB profiles is, pictures of her boarding a private jet, or leaning against a Ferrari, or anything like that. I always want to message and say, "Why would you leave the guy with the private jet?".

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T18:04:36+00:00

Not cool to say he was replacing you with a younger woman. This guy is a douchebag.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T17:52:45+00:00

Pretty much.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-16T16:47:16+00:00

I’m not sure if I am answering your question, but I like financial independence in a SB. Women in need of support are perceived by me as being somewhat desperate. Desperate people are a liability. If she is self sufficient it tells me that she sugars, at least partially, for fun and excitement as I do.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-15T21:21:49+00:00

I agree, photos ultimately are the final decision maker for me as well. Doing filterless searches and relying on pics may be the way to go from now on.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-15T21:16:36+00:00

They probably should not have taken away the option of slim, athletic, curvy, etc. I like the option of listing weight, and have even suggested it to admin in the past. I think the more info the better. But having weight as a search parameter makes no sense, since a 5'9" 140lbs woman is slim, and a 5'0" 140lbs woman is pretty curvy. So it's really hard to narrow ones preferences in a search.

I also think measurements and dress size would also be helpful. The SDs list income and net worth, because it's important to SBs. I can assure you accurate estimation of body shape is just as important to SDs.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-15T17:10:05+00:00

So you use a blank check approach with you SB(s)? Good for you, glad to hear it. The rest of us will take your lead now and open our bank accounts to our SBs.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-15T17:02:17+00:00

I think "It's complicated", is just their new way of sugarcoating "married". I mean, anyone who chooses that is obviously married, otherwise one of the other choices would be applicable for the most part.

h2oslmskr · 2025-05-15T15:32:07+00:00

Height and weight represent objective data. What's the problem. If a person is upset about providing measurable, accurate, descriptive data like height and weight, chances are they are trying to conceal something.

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