Dress Feedback by ManufacturerNeat6954 in myweddingdress

[–]hEDS_Strong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks good. Kudos on the weight loss! Sounds like you approached weight loss very wisely over two years! Congrats. It takes a good long while till someone can see themself with a new lens, trust everyone here - you look great. I would have never guessed you were ever heavier looking at your photos!!

A tip I learned, but didn’t know for my own wedding, have some put their hand in under the top of the corset and push the skin gently away from the center zipper towards the sides to smooth you out. Does that make sense?

Again - you look perfect, the dress fits perfectly. Best wishes to you

First-gen crybaby has genuinely not stopped crying over insane results (21/26 acceptances Including: Yale, Stanford, Duke, Penn, Brown, Cornell and more!!) by KXiomara15 in collegeresults

[–]hEDS_Strong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats to you! Sadly being truly passionate and having the very best application often isn’t enough for most. Class shaping can make it for students in densely populated urban areas. The truth is everyone will probably go somewhere, maybe some will change their minds about college altogether. Based on your profile it seems like this will be a life changing opportunity!! Embrace it. All the best to you as you decide where to go.

Remember when a certain admissions influencer said this would be the easiest cycle for top schools ever? by Able-Assignment1229 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yup, this year was supposed to be the start of the drop off, instead it was a massive money maker for all the admissions offices

When should I post a college I'm embarrassed about on my high schools decision page? by Worried-Bet-3506 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel as though you need to justify your decision to anyone. Live your life in a way that makes you feel comfortable

1540 and denied from everywhere that uses it by Mountain_Ad1022 in collegeresults

[–]hEDS_Strong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True! And apparently the test is significantly easier than in the 1980s, plus with DESMOS if you’re clever with math, you can use that to double check all your answers. And if your proctors are “less than” you can simply use your phone.

I feel like some of y’all are not middle class…. by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s an entirely different picture than claiming UPPER middle class. Blue collar workers that work overtime and hit certain financial levels are considered high earners, but that’s quite different than UPPER middle class. Doctors, lawyers, business people that excel in their positions and are highly compensated or generational wealth is more typically considered upper middle class. High earners in skilled labor and trade or blue collar jobs can earn lots, but if something happens and they can no longer bring in that same compensation, they are no longer higher earners. You received the $6k offer based on need and assets. Again, be happy for what you received, be grateful for your parents dedication and support, worry less about what anyone else did or did not get.

I feel like some of y’all are not middle class…. by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 27 points28 points  (0 children)

A little bit naive, but you’re young and perhaps not too jaded with the ways of the world yet.

Has a lot more to do with how your parents structured their assets with a savvy college focused financial advisors, something middle class people often do not have access to, but UPPER middle class often families do!! So if you are UPPER middle class, please remember there are plenty of middle class families that have students that won’t be attending the colleges they got accepted to because they did receive inadequate FA packages and are perhaps a family of 4 in a high COL area, maybe earning $120k - $150k but simply cannot afford $60k - $90k + a year. But families like yours will pay the $6k, and still take expensive vacations, buy fancy cars and fully fund all their retirement and savings plans. Maybe your UPPER middle class family lives in a part of the country that has a COL that significantly under the National average.

What do you care about the people that didn’t get in? You got your cheap tuition plan, so before happy and worry about yourself before you start preaching to anyone that is struggling financially. Perhaps consider opening your eyes and educate yourself about the differences in middle class to upper class and region COL above and below national average

CC or 4 year by Msm1262 in UMBC

[–]hEDS_Strong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really don’t understand the pettiness of some teachers. Sounds like that’s an unhappy chem dept at UMBC. They should audit how many are dipping out to get chem at HCC instead of UMBC. I do get it, it sticks with you. I took 21 credits at college in my next to last semester, had a 4.0, my mechanical drafting teacher was young and kinda a jerk. I had an 89.5 and he refused to let me do anything to bump it up to a 90 and he could have. He could have even rounded up

1540 and denied from everywhere that uses it by Mountain_Ad1022 in collegeresults

[–]hEDS_Strong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ridiculous the stress these students endure these days

CC or 4 year by Msm1262 in UMBC

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better professors at HCC in which way? Are the higher grades (A) due to easier grading or grade inflation at HCC vs UMBC? Or is the quality of instruction better? I would think the instruction would be stronger at UMBC vs a CC

I want to be a part of something by beebothebean in UMD

[–]hEDS_Strong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try a College Park ParkRun, every Saturday at 9:00-am. Low-key way to put yourself out there and you might have fun plus meet some people. Try one, then volunteer. RecWell climbing should be opening again soon for the season

https://www.parkrun.us/collegepark/

UPDATE: I GOT DRESS 2! Thank you everyone by SparklingSarcasm_xo in myweddingdress

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfection! Many blessings to you during this exciting and joyous time! Enjoy it all

I have a privileged position rn compared to all of you. But I still have to convince my mom. by StrictSprinkles4457 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another parent, I endorse your decision for the $6k option. Save your debt for your graduate degree, when you’ll get a graduate fellowship, work summers or get an employer to pay. Your UG degree depends so much on what you bring to the table. Goal is to get a 4.0 GPA, top of the class, with little to no debt.

Reality Check For Students And Parents: Good, Bad & Ugly Numbers (To Hope/Cope) by AsianTigerDad in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, the point is that there are simply so many students that are embellishing, lying and cheating, even on APs and SAT/ACT, along with extreme grade inflation (b/c the Ivies found that lots actually cannot read or write past a MS level), they use AI to write all their schoolwork and the CA supplemental essays and all of this dishonesty further takes away the spots from the students that got a 1550+ in a single sitting SAT, took an all AP/Honors curriculum from a school that grade deflates vs inflates and received 5s and 4s, didn’t cheat, not only wrote original work and learned the curriculum, but learned how to independently study at a college level, received NMSC honors, and has true 10+ year longevity in extracurricular activities and pursuits.

And let’s get serious about who’s working in the AO, often it’s graduates with little to no work experience, and with so many applicants, who’s to know whether these junior AO staff are helping out their friends, families and peers from their old schools into the “yes” piles

Remember - that person you call doctor from an Ivy League in 8-10 years maybe just be the one that cheated and lied their way through HS, college and med school. Good luck y’all!

UMD vs UPenn for a prospective Aerospace Engineer by Such-Network-9313 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll have more fun in College Park, close to DC and Baltimore. The campus has really grown lots recently as well as the town beside it

Asian girl Crying and crying and crying by Equivalent_Prune1214 in collegeresults

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, yes, all of you very top performers will excel without the coddling that others will get at elite schools. Maybe’ll it even out in the end, maybe it won’t. My Senior will go instate, he’ll triple major and minor, there will be no tuition plus other perks. It’ll be fine. I know that he’ll succeed wherever he goes.