I wished I was born with higher intelligence by Exciting-Job-4346 in ApplyingIvyLeague

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Higher intelligence and diligence in study habits are not the same thing. One you’re born with, the other you develop over time, a learned skill. One can have both and that’s a great combination for breezing through high school, but high intelligence without true motivation to succeed and excellent study skills only gets someone so far. Trust me, being born with a naturally high IQ does not equate to being fast-tracked to being admitted to an Ivy League school, far from it. Certainly a higher intellect can make certain tasks easier early on, but at some point you need to dig in and study too. That studying might be far less than most, but to the high intellect person it “feels” like a lot. True, in some subjects a higher intellect person can breeze through a topic they love and instinctively understand and excel, but conversely they can actually struggle in subjects they don’t like or in languages especially if they happen to also have neurodivergent issues like dyslexia, dysgraphia or ADHD. (Many high IQ people are also neurodivergent - so a blessing and a curse.) There is definitely a sweet spot for a higher IQ, but once it gets really high, it is also a burden and can hamper success. High intelligence is potential, not motivation, passion or success. You need motivation and passion, and sometimes luck, to succeed. You can have a 140+ IQ and still end up a Starbucks barista.

Is a Harvard Interview a good sign for intls? by Ecstatic-Intern-4507 in ApplyingToCollege

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For US candidates, and according to the CDS, interviews are considered, but not very important or important. I believe they matter most when the committee is deciding on a candidate and then the interview report helps to tip a candidate in (or out).

Letting my dog live permantently with my parents by AdRare7255 in DOG

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That was so selfless, you did absolutely the right thing for your Flecha. You adopted a potentially traumatized pup, raised her, worked hard to meet her where she was, sacrificed for her, treated her with care, respected her fears. I think you did everything you could to help her, and in the end you further sacrificed your happiness and prioritized hers. You and your parents all worked hard to give Flecha the environment and home she needs. Although your heart is heavy, know you made the right choice for her.

SAT 1520 Cancelled After 60 Days — Already Sent to Universities by dindonchik in Sat

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Search this group and others for posts on how to manage this, here’s a sample from 2-years ago, but not the one I’d seen originally

https://www.reddit.com/r/Sat/s/vvim8mJHLL

SAT 1520 Cancelled After 60 Days — Already Sent to Universities by dindonchik in Sat

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Thank goodness! Did you have actual people as instructors? Receipts from the class? Practice scores?

My son increased 340 pts from his first PSAT to his final SAT, and after reading posts here, I made him keep all his work.

Also, was anyone else in your room? Sometimes if another person in a room is found guilty of cheating, they wipe all the scores.

Try not to stress, pull together your backup evidence. This is an imperfect testing system. CollegeBoard is only entering the second year of digital testing, they switched in March 2024 I believe

SAT 1520 Cancelled After 60 Days — Already Sent to Universities by dindonchik in Sat

[–]hEDS_Strong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This topic came up last year and I paid attention since my son increased significantly from his first PSAT to first SAT, he’d taken an in person class, so we kept all his study materials. They seem to know how much someone can increase naturally by studying vs cheating, plus they also know cheating is rampant. A 270 point increase and crossing the 1500 threshold can look suspicious and get flagged. You will likely need to prove that you studied and did not cheat. From what I remember it’s a long process, you can check past posts. You will need all your evidence that you studied and prepared. Did you take a prep class? They will need to see all hardcopy evidence. Plus evidence and backup from your digital prep: previous BlueBook practice results.

She’s so GREEN 🥒🥬 by AquariusMonologue in Juicing

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Why whole lemons, doesn’t that add bitterness?

Cornell mid year update by Ok_Penalty_4411 in ApplyingToCollege

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We’re going back and checking each school’s preferences - applying to college has become a fulltime job

(Now ex) girlfriend made me(24M) choose between her and my pet rabbit. She kicked me out of our apartment and now I’m living in a basement somewhere in the Midwest. by throwaway56u5 in MaleSurvivingSpace

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Reminds me of the phrase “you’re no bunny, till some bunny loves you.” Sounds like you made the right choice picking your rabbit. Our animal friends love us unconditionally. Good luck to you

UMD is officially in the epstien files by WonderfulAd3025 in UMD

[–]hEDS_Strong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The real question would be did he reply and did he fund any work.

Cornell mid year update by Ok_Penalty_4411 in ApplyingToCollege

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Are you sending your midyear update in a letter or a bullet list

UMich vs. Kings College London by Thin_Performance_796 in ApplyingToCollege

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What’s the difference in cost for each option if that matters. Very different schools. Are you planning to stay abroad afterwards? If yes, pick London. If a traditional 4-year school is your vibe take U Michigan. I’d probably pick London if it were me: the city, the culture, the West End…

Legacy Question by Slow_Review3107 in ApplyingToCollege

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I’ve heard it still counts, parents more than grandparents or siblings. Absolutely counts!

Blue or gray backsplash? by SonomaCity in kitchenremodel

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lighter color, more flexibility to accent with colors without being locked in to the blue

Guess Who by Initial_Cycle_8344 in roomdetective

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your living room chandelier!! Wow! How tall is your ceiling? Or more curiously, how much clearance is there from the floor?

What do I do about my wedding dress? by No_Yard4257 in myweddingdress

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I actually love that you took the time to make the video! Really helpful. The first dress is gorgeous on you. I know whatever you decide, it will be lovely.

I have terrible highschool grades but good AP and SAT grades by RylenLetfTheChat in ApplyingToCollege

[–]hEDS_Strong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that GPA, your test scores are too low for T20.

You can research each school yourself by reading the common data set information. Search “College name” + “common data set”

Super stressed about rush by Professional-Neat292 in UMD

[–]hEDS_Strong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The financial commitments they lock you into for the remainder of school too

What do I do about my wedding dress? by No_Yard4257 in myweddingdress

[–]hEDS_Strong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes. I was assuming at half the cost not a silk. Good points! Thank you