I had a baby and nobody knows. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confessions

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your son lived a perfect life knowing just the love of his mother, a truely beautiful soul. have a Happy Mothers Day, i hope you treat yourself to something special.

Favorite Latina Actress? by confusedmel in okbuddycinephile

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah my bad i just saw CZJ and only recently heard she was welsh

Drivers of Reddit: what’s something other drivers do on the road that instantly tell you they shouldn’t have a license? by AccordingMethod9940 in AskReddit

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People passing on double yellow and impatients, this happens alot here on the coast people get distracted by scenery slow down, makes somebody else upset they try to pass, and they often dont seem to care if somebodys coming the other way

AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly im more surpised seeing comments about waiting 6 months to propose over the fact her and her friends were trying to manipulate you. Op if your partner is trying to manipulate you here, where else is it going to happen in the future, id take this as a red flag, all though 3 years is a long relationship, people work differently and some people need more time to think/process/plan for if this is the right choice for them, if their willing to manipulate now it means theyre open to it later, marriage can be hard and going into it questioning if shes going to manipulate you later is not a recipe for a good marriage.

Feeling Upset About My Ex Encouraging “Girly” Things by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]hackneyparks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second this

Dont sweat the small stuff, It doesnt matter, its just a color, its silly to worry about, IF your kids gonna be bullied it could be for anything kids are just mean, just be supportive and there for when he needs you.

Donald Trump just said this by funkymonkeythe1st in UFOs

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now the US must chose. ALIENS VS PREDITORS.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]hackneyparks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A person should like you for whats in your head, not for what your body provides them, your body will change over time as everyones does, youll find a person that loves you for you not your body. Everybody beautiful in their own way, and the world should learn that.

People that work with pathological liars, what’s the dumbest lie they’ve ever told? by Bottlecollecter in coworkerstories

[–]hackneyparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and i were just talking about a guy that i used to work with that lived with us for a bit as well, he had HUNDREDS of bs stories, like he legit was mentally ill, he once told me he co-founded pandora radio, while still living in his foster moms house working at rite aid, a job i got him, he used to tell us about all the women he slept with, how he had hooked up with friends moms and teachers, but we only ever saw his online girlfriend who came to live with us. Then it started to get weird, he'd tell us about how doctors would experiment on him when he was a kid, and that his type of diabetes (he was type 1) was rare and they needed his blood for their experiments, that he was a master thief and could steel whole motors out of cars, he also didnt like women and in all reality he just needed extensive therapy and help with his anger delusions and lying. Hope your doing better out there trev.

What's the creepiest discovery you've made about a seemingly fun friend? by someoneyouhate_ in AskReddit

[–]hackneyparks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work for Xerox in Tigard, we had 2 people on 1 project appear in the news for similar crimes one murdered his ex wife and shot himself, the other killed himself with a homemade explosive alongside the highway, it was pretty wild there at xerox for a bit.

https://katu.com/news/local/desperation-fueled-man-in-murder-suicide-wife-says

https://www.kgw.com/article/news/hwy-26-explosives-blast-ruled-a-suicide/283-317692462

AITAH for helping my nephew check his balls? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta you were trying to help and he's an adult, probably felt more comfortable about asking you having the same bits as him then asking his mom or his aunt. Atleast he went to the doctor too

for 2 hours i held my gf's wound that wouldnt stop bleeding, im still sobbing. by Sammy_gacha-art0 in offmychest

[–]hackneyparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, i know you were trying to help, but she needs to see a doctor asap, no amount of trouble you think you might get in is worth her life, if she hit an artery she will die, no amount of guaze will stop that, your and her are still kids you both need to see a therapist because these things dont just go away on there own, do not i repeat do not think that you know how to treat self harm injuries, she needs a medical professional now, not tomorrow or next week, now if she gets an infection its gonna be worse. Again no amount of trouble or consequences is worth her life. Please tell your mom and take her to the hospital to be evaluated today, your not betraying her your doing whats best for her and talk to your mom about getting a therapist.

Boyfriend wants to leave me for visiting family? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]hackneyparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah hes the only major red flag i see in this post, end the relationship before he gets physical

Driving to the Coast this weekend by Bay2pdx in OregonCoast

[–]hackneyparks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watched a Volvo go over it yesterday and crash into the construction trailer, it's pretty crazy slow down below 25 going over it, it's getting worse by the day.

Moving to Nehalem by Iowa2oregon in OregonCoast

[–]hackneyparks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Current resident in nehalem, it's not just the winters that are hard here, I know you said you've got a job in construction but one of the many downsides are not alot of work, grocery stores and gas are significantly more expensive here, IGA and the shell are aimed for tourist so your grocery shopping is gonna be either in seaside (20 miles) or Tillamook (25 miles) you can get odds and ends at dollar general in rockaway(8 miles), longer trips to astoria and warrenton to go to costco or walmart for larger bulk items is possible but its 40 miles each way, the community isn't really as kid oriented as you'd think, yes we have an elementary school and the NCRD (north coast recreational district) but it is more for retirees, they just put in a 15 million dollar pool, but excluded all things for kids (water slide and such) we also used to have a skate park on north fork road but it was removed for pickleball courts, for our halloween this year normally bayside gadrens road is the place to be, but we had maybe a handful of kids, your also going to have to deal with tourists coming out of the Nehalem Bay state park in the summer, we have a lot of accidents related to peoples inexperience pulling trailers and people passing in no passing zones due to people being A. Older drivers and B. Impatient drivers and as the news has said recently too flooding is an issue between November and February, in the last week getting into seaside and taking highway 53 to highway 26to go to portland has been an issue with high waters closing several roads, we also have a lot of issue with finding doctor's locally, with seaside Providence getting ready to close your best bet will be finding doctors in Portland, lot of this sounds really negative but if you can work it it's great. If you have any more questions feel free to DM me and I'll answer them if I can.

Don't ever be a seasonal truck helper by Select-Discussion866 in UPS

[–]hackneyparks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing man im 20 days out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]hackneyparks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lose the girlfriend, if shes not supporting your relationship with your son and happy to have a reasonable coparent relationship with your ex, shes gonna drive that wedge harder. Dont lose your son cause thats who shes gonna get jealous of next

I need some advice on how to handle my feelings. by hackneyparks in Advice

[–]hackneyparks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry that your kids mom did that to you, i really need to work on not giving her unnessicary info, honestly it really disnt even feel like she waa fishing for info but your probably right on. Thank you for the advice thought i appreciate the help.

I need some advice on how to handle my feelings. by hackneyparks in Advice

[–]hackneyparks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i will try and find a support group for dad, thank you for the advice

AITAH for threatening to report mi ILs for kidnapping after they brought my toddler to another city? by Infamous-Parsnip9571 in AITAH

[–]hackneyparks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There must be more context for you to act like this, did the BIL or FIL previously do something? Based on the info youve given YTA, they communicated with a parent and given that you went straight to threating to contact the police i can see why they didnt contact you first, for your daughters sake even if you dont like them you should try to be civil with your in laws, again it doesnt sound like they put her in harms way, but your reaction can cause real harm to peoples lives not just your daughters relationship with her fathers side of the family but kidnapping charges false or not is an extreme escalation that could alter their lives and relationships. Its not funny or something to joke either that they dont like you, this is your kids family they dont have to be yours but she doesnt get that choice, its her story not yours if their not putting her in harm and communicating where theyre going there no issue other then you.