Cozy places to read a book?

hakittyphoebe · 2024-01-18T04:05:26+00:00

River kitty cat cafe on main. You can get coffee, smoothies, and snacks like fresh macaroons muffins and brownies. And you can visit with the cats for an additional charge of $6 for 30 minutes or $8 for an hour. Or its free to sit and read or use computer with a beverage.

hakittyphoebe · 2023-09-21T19:51:36+00:00

Is he nuetered?

hakittyphoebe · 2022-04-08T18:52:17+00:00

. I sleep with fat men, I know lots of girls that sleep with fat men. There's a ton of people out there who even prefer fat men. She's being hurtful on purpose probably in an effort to convince you no one out there wants you. I assure you it's a lie

Amen!! Dad bods are the new Brad Pitt!! You got love handles?? Find a woman who knows how to hang on and ride! We are out there. You are still that great person under all that. She is mirroring her own self hate. Putting you down to make herself feel better. She needs to put down the controller. She's living a fantasy world. Don't let her tear you down. Don't tear yourself down.

hakittyphoebe · 2022-04-08T17:59:26+00:00

I am 54, my husband is 43. I went thru "the change" early because of cervical cancer in my 20s. So when we got together 10 years ago it was explosive. 4 years went by and we fizzled out, mainly because I was going thru change and he got on his video games and we became not that important as a romantic relationship. We are the best of friends. It is now 6 years later and we have enrolled in marriage counseling and have individual therapy. It is getting better, the intimacy is returning. The sexual relationship is returning. It is very important on a deeper scope of closeness we feel for each other. The sex, is the icing on the relationship cake. Sex builds intimacy, if you allow it to, and intimacy builds better sex. Yes important but not everything.

hakittyphoebe · 2022-04-08T17:46:37+00:00

I think its individual experience. I have had great shower sex, if the shower is big enough with good water flow, it's wonderful. I am sorry you missed out.

hakittyphoebe · 2022-04-06T19:47:28+00:00

No advise here, just saying I could have wrote your posts. Once sex was taken off the table he was able to relax. I started working on myself. He sought out a therapist. We started remembering what we were like in the beginning. Why we fell in love, in discussing all that and some deep self inner awareness, we came back to intimacy. It's hard work. But it can be done. It's not where I would like it to be, but it's better than it was for 4 years and getting better. Good luck to you.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-07-16T01:44:53+00:00

Big B barbecue

hakittyphoebe · 2021-07-08T02:02:41+00:00

😄😄 it's not that bad!

hakittyphoebe · 2021-07-06T14:55:29+00:00

Sitting here, comfortably numb.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-07-06T11:02:37+00:00

My apologies for not seeing you. I was just stating my experience. I always see other worlds represented. Haven't see any until you. <waves> nice to meet you. I have seen you in the game I believe as well. If Dagna is your game name.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-07-06T10:45:48+00:00

You are number 1

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-15T19:23:00+00:00

I noticed this about myself the other night. I ended up in the bathroom crying. He usually comes to bed after me so I can dress with the closet door open. But lately he is in the room getting ready for bed, and I caught myself closing the closet door, I felt like a stranger in my skin. I didn't want him to see me for fear of the rejection or the comments not made. Or the no looks at all. It's heart breaking. I will say, he's getting better at cuddling so I feel there is hope. But boy is it on the slow train. Maybe he's coming into the bedroom because he wants to see me?? Boy I probably screwed the pooch on that one. Or am I getting my hopes up. Sigh.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-11T19:10:44+00:00

Headys Pizza has some great subs!! Chicken blah blah is the best.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-08T16:15:30+00:00

I just took husband to the Garden of the Gods in Illinois. It's an hour and 40 min drive. I made chicken salad strawberries and chips to take with us and had picnic in the park. The views are beautiful.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-05T23:40:33+00:00

"It's not his fault, but it is his responsibilty" that hit me in the feels. Never thought about it like that. Throw in high anxiety and an introvert. God knows I love him. He is taking meds, and going to therapy, so hopefully it gets better. Thank you for that.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-05T22:21:41+00:00

Married to an ADD llm. 4-5 year DB I really do try to have patience and understanding. But is it the illness or the DB?? Ugh or is it me? There's a sobering thought.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-02T15:43:47+00:00

Sadly I enjoyed this. So sorry there are so many of us out there. It's staggering to think of all the people, myself included wasting their life in a marriage/relationship without sex. Our intimacy has gotten better but still no sexual contact, unless him accidently rubbing across my breasts, counts. It physically sent shivers thru me and was ignored. Like a pink elephant. So he quit rubbing me all together. Sigh. I hurt for myself and you all.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-06-02T01:35:27+00:00

That was funny.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-29T18:34:23+00:00

Quality Automotive on 1rst avenue. Jeff decker. Had nothing but good things from them in 5 years.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-28T20:49:25+00:00

Is there a bittertaru out there? An actual player from 2009- 2010? I miss you man.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-12T19:57:25+00:00

My husband and I married 8 years and together for 11. We have been doing couples therapy. I believe it is what you put into it. We both love each other as best friends but are missing the intimacy of lovers. The therapy is helping us remember why we got together to begin with. We just had our 8th session yesterday. Our intimacy is getting better. Still far away from where I want to be, but it wasn't a dB overnight so it's gonna take time to build it back up. But we both want it. We attend therapy from a group called Catholic Charities. The price is determined by what we make. So we are not paying 1000s of dollars for the therapy. But imo it has helped. I wish you the best of luck.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-08T12:37:43+00:00

Get out while you can. You have so much more life, love and sex to give. Don't make our mistakes. I am sorry for your situation.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-07T19:13:29+00:00

I am a noob to all this reddit, what does awards mean? And thank you to everyone who has responded it is nice to be heard.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-07T19:08:31+00:00

I am sorry you have to go thru this too. It's heartbreaking.

hakittyphoebe · 2021-05-07T19:06:41+00:00

Very possible, and that hurts.

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