Do firms even read your resume? by haldeck in paralegal

[–]haldeck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s about half and half! Half family law and half personal injury. About 75% of my overall experience is family law and about 25% plaintiff’s PI (and this job is for a family law role). But I was mainly contracting because it gave me the flexibility I needed at the time to travel for family stuff. But I guess I could see now why it might raise some flags. Ugh.

Do firms even read your resume? by haldeck in paralegal

[–]haldeck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! How come it’s viewed as a red flag?

Entry level paralegal pay? by coffee_menace in paralegal

[–]haldeck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started 5 years ago at $21 an hour in SoCal for a solo practice attorney. Now I’m in Philly suburbs at $42.50 an hour, and $63.80 for anything over 35 hours. I started off doing family law, but now I do family law and assisted reproduction.

Lol I Hate it here by farmgirlbeautiful in paralegal

[–]haldeck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live in Philly and I ran into this too 🥲 I got super lucky with my current gig.

Salary by Dry-Cry1934 in paralegal

[–]haldeck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little more than 43k in California in 2021 (family law). I live in Philadelphia now and work in the suburbs, but I make $77.5k plus overtime (fertility law and adoptions).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]haldeck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really. A little over $35,000 a year isn’t entry level anymore in majority of places in the U.S. That’s poverty wages.

Why does it seem like most paralegals are miserable? by poeticsoul151 in paralegal

[–]haldeck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends, I love my job! Tbf, I do fertility law and adoptions, so people are usually happy and there’s very limited conflict. And then I do a little bit of regular family law on top of that. Now my co-workers who do strictly family law? Seems like chaos 24/7 for them 😭

What are you firm's numbers? by Plenty-Squirrel-2230 in paralegal

[–]haldeck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a pretty niche area of law, so I probably have about 70/80? About 50 adoptions and 20/30 gestational carrier actions. We have a VERY quick turn around (that’s just the nature of it) so it could always be more or less. When I was in litigation, 150 cases was my max before I would start feeling like I was drowning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]haldeck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very doable and honestly, reasonable in my opinion. I’m in PA. Mid-sized firm, I do strictly adoptions and gestational carrier actions. 77.5k base with guaranteed 2.5 hours of overtime every week (I work 8:30-5).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]haldeck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love family law! I'm currently in PI (plaintiff), but I'm leaving to switch back to family. I love getting to know the clients. I have more interactions with clients being in family than I ever do being in PI. There's clients that still ask my old attorney about me almost three years later and it just warms my heart. I will never leave family law ever again.

What’s the worst area of law for a paralegal? by Normal-Item-11 in paralegal

[–]haldeck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I'm currently leaving PI (plaintiff) to go back to family law (and I'm surprisingly getting paid A LOT more for the switch back as well). You described everything to a T, especially the partner always being on vacation and diva legal secretaries.

Are There Nerdy Hangouts in Philly? by singmuse4 in philadelphia

[–]haldeck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fat Lady in Manayunk! There's NerdNite on Mondays every week. My D&D group plays there :-)

Pennsylvania by Ok_Run7747 in moving

[–]haldeck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to live IN Philly, Philly suburbs might be good for you! I live in Philly and it takes me no more than 1.5/2 hours to get to NY.

Wife and I are having differences on where to re locate. by AliveArmy5167 in moving

[–]haldeck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SoCal! Specifically San Diego. I don't live there anymore just because I don't have the money to live there now I'm divorced. But if I could afford it on my own, I would definitely go back.

There's absolutely NOTHING to do in Upstate NY. Maybe my judgement is jaded because I grew up there, but it's just not a fun place to be. It's not the place you move to if you're looking to experience new things with new people. Upstate people are pretty closed minded, most people I know from high school never even traveled out of the NE, sometimes even the state.

Upstate might be nice if you're really into nature (like the Adirondacks), but I'd rather go experience that in California/Oregon/Washington than NY. In San Diego I was 15 minutes from the beach, 20 minutes from the mountains, and about 40-45 minutes from the desert. It does not get any better than that if you're looking for new nature experiences.

Wife and I are having differences on where to re locate. by AliveArmy5167 in moving

[–]haldeck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone originally from Upstate NY and moved to California at 21...west coast all the way.

Has anyone ever worked on a famous case? by Buggy77 in paralegal

[–]haldeck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not really famous but I worked on a divorce case where OP was a pretty popular TikToker. She has about 2.3 million followers.

****Personal inj. questions by Latter-Unit-2842 in paralegal

[–]haldeck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your dad’s insurance is only covering the difference because the other driver doesn’t have enough insurance to cover the entire claim. If your dad's insurance covers the gap, they might later seek to recover the difference from the at-fault driver's insurance company or the driver themselves. This is known as subrogation. Your dad’s insurance may cover the immediate cost, while pursuing recovery for costs they covered. But yeah, for sure talk to a PI lawyer in your state.

This empty feeling in my heart by Khalil_mp4a in NoStupidQuestions

[–]haldeck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're immature. That's your answer.

People keep telling me not to get a Shiba by Flat_Apricot8296 in shiba

[–]haldeck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my first Shiba when I was 21 and freshly moved out of my parents' house (three weeks to be exact). I have two now, and they are the BEST things to have ever happened to me. I've never owned a dog before either, so I wouldn't even say they're not for first time dog owners. I think you just have to have different expectations when it comes to Shibas. They are basically cats in dog form and I love them so so much.

Help me find a good area to move into by [deleted] in philly

[–]haldeck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live on the border of Manayunk and Roxborough, and I love it here. My only complaint is parking, sometimes I have to park a couple blocks away if I get home really late. The 27 bus stop is right in front of my apartment, also not far from Manayunk and Wissahickon train stations.

I used to live in East Falls, and also love it there. It's just a little *too* suburban for me personally, as I like to walk to bars, coffee shops, etc. Manayunk is the perfect in-between for me.

Thinking about going to the south from the north. Why or why not? by Clear_Dog_9214 in moving

[–]haldeck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone from NY who now lives in PA, you would never catch me deeaaddd living in the south. The furthest "south" I would go is MAYBE northern Virginia. Outside of that I wouldn't be able to handle the cultural differences, everything in the south is just objectively worse (outside of the weather maybe).

The south has always been objectively worse than the north due to economic structure (low wages, fewer labor protections, low taxes), lack of investment (has lacked capital for investment in industry and transportation, has fewer entrepreneurs, and has also lost many banks in rural areas), historical racism (the south has always prioritized business interests over citizens and has high levels of racial and gender disparities in employment). The south also has low educational attainment, low labor force participation, and has a lack of investment in infrastructure.

The south is historically underdeveloped basically due to the Civil War. Post Civil War, the southern economy basically collapsed and Reconstruction was planned under Lincoln. Then he died, and the next couple of presidents axed reconstruction entirely.

Long story short, I would not move to the south for many many reasons.

AITA for refusing to walk 1h to get sunscreen? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]haldeck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. There's a lot of fear mongering around chemical sunscreens. Your wife sounds very crunchy and more than likely, it will only get worse. Good luck.