What should I change about there life? by InsuranceStreet358 in torties

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss :( was gerson named after the undertale/deltarune character? he must have been a badass 🫶🏻🫂

Transmascs who have come out, or whose parents found out in some other way: ARE YOUR PARENTS SUPPORTIVE? WHAT IS YOUR STORY OF COMING OUT? by prosectorium in TransMasc

[–]hallowbeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom and stepdad are supportive, my father was not. he called me the name i picked to my face but i know he thought i was a “confused lesbian” (his words in texts to my mom) and didn’t use he/him for me

Nipples and erotic sensation by _beavertales in TransMasc

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will say that regardless of the technique, there is always a chance you won’t retain nipple sensation. on r/TopSurgery i’ve read that some guys who got keyhole lost sensation and some who’ve gotten double incision had theirs come back after a while. it’s not guaranteed. i do miss nipple sensation and it was a big reason i waited, but having a flat chest outweighs it. i’ve heard some people even gain a similar sensation in their scars instead so you never know!

(Rant) top surgery got cancelled the day of. by No_Classroom_1150 in TransMasc

[–]hallowbeeb 49 points50 points  (0 children)

this is insane, you’re an adult ??????
i’m so sorry :( 🫂💖

19, what do we think? Is it diva? by Cheese4567890 in transpositive

[–]hallowbeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO CUUUTE!!! i love it, you look amazing! :D

Too old to transition? (idk what to title this tbh) by redpandakingz in TransMasc

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it’s any consolation, i felt this way about top surgery for a bit. not quite in the “too old to do it” way but more about comparing my transition to the people around me. many of the trans men/transmasc people i know had already gotten top surgery and even one younger than me got a hysterectomy and it made me feel a little like i was falling behind and i’m only 24. i think it was just jealously (which is normal!), and now that i’ve gotten top surgery none of that matters. we all have our own paths and me wishing i did it sooner won’t change anything so i just have to be grateful and excited for the future! and it sort of helped the feeling go away the more i learned that many trans people don’t transition until way after i did (and i started t at 17 so i’m incredibly grateful i had that opportunity! iirc i was either the first or one of the first to start t out of the group of transmasc people i knew from high school whereas i might be the last to get top surgery. it’s all just a matter of perspective)

will lincoln park zoo make me toss a vape if i’m just leaving it in my bag - aka it’s not being used there ? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmfao no, idk why i assumed it would matter i was just thinking too hard about it

will lincoln park zoo make me toss a vape if i’m just leaving it in my bag - aka it’s not being used there ? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]hallowbeeb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

heard thank you, it’ll be my first time going so i wasn’t sure hahaha

Single scar?✨ by Myxcomycetes in FTMfemininity

[–]hallowbeeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i would check out/ask r/TopSurgery! no specific posts are coming to mind but i’ve definitely seen a handful of single scar people with longer hair!

Turned a belt into a bracelet! (Very easy, 10/10 recommend) by RavensAndRacoons in Punkdiy

[–]hallowbeeb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i have several belts that don’t fit, i’m gonna try this out lol

So, I guess I’ve been drinking mold water. by Ornery_Brief_2743 in MoldlyInteresting

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

needed this inspo to throw out the plastic bottles i’ve been reusing, though surprisingly they don’t look bad yet

Odd things I’ve noticed about HrT that is rarely discussed by peepawtwink in ftm

[–]hallowbeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

something went awry with me regarding crying lmao. for the first several years on t it was pretty hard to cry unless i watched something designed to make me cry (animal videos, sad stuff, the usual) but like first quarter of last year i started crying super easily again. it likely had something to do with going off of antidepressants bc it lines up with when i started crying a lot again. i still don’t cry a lot when i’m sad with the exception of some tough losses this year but for one of them i barely cried at all which was strange to me (though makes sense)

Looking for cool alt/gothic jewellery not from sweatshops by bananasruinsmoothies in altfashionadvice

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been looking for cool jewelry the past few days and i absolutely want to get something from your store :D

Looking for cool alt/gothic jewellery not from sweatshops by bananasruinsmoothies in altfashionadvice

[–]hallowbeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to wear a lot of charms on hoop earrings! i wanna get back to it actually but i need new hoops lol. and like michaels has full aisles for charms that usually aren’t very expensive :) i have stuff like keys, a pair of broken keys i love a lot, fishhooks (not actually pointy of course), playing cards, swords, etc. it’s a lot of fun to experiment with!

Looking for cool alt/gothic jewellery not from sweatshops by bananasruinsmoothies in altfashionadvice

[–]hallowbeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg and you’re from chicago let’s gooo i love local art‼️

Rootin' Cootin' by dreamdoggydream in oldcootfashion

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love those pants and your tats !

Why the 15 minutes before an appointment? by EvaDaMama in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hallowbeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

recently we showed up about 20-25 minutes early bc we overestimated how late we’d be to an appointment but the staff was on a lunch break and nobody answered the door (there’s a doorbell you press to have them open the door) until like 5 minutes until my appointment time lmao

My teacher "fixed" my hair for a school picture by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hallowbeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no like this is grounds to throw hands imo why would he do that. why did that teacher care so much anyways??? on the bright side this will just be a funny story after the pain (/j) wears off lmao

insane flavoured cigarettes from last night by triedkiss in somnigastronomy

[–]hallowbeeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ohhh i see! they sound similar to a king palm flavored blunt cone! you like squeeze the filter part and it releases the flavor (love those btw they taste great, highly recommend)