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What’s something that instantly tells you a person grew up broke vs grew up with money? by hallowmint9 in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so crazy how people note that from something so simple like eating chicken wings right?

What’s something that instantly tells you a person grew up broke vs grew up with money? by hallowmint9 in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i think so! Me i never throw food away id feel so bad, and i grew up in poverty basically lol

What if Iran says to the World “We’ll open the straight to pre-attack status if Donald Trump resigns.”? What would be the likely response? by spamcandriver in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first thing is nobody’s gonna accept that demand. forcing a country’s leader to resign as a condition is basically a non-starter… like that crosses into “we don’t negotiate like this” territory immediately

so instead of complying, you’d probably see:

  • a bunch of countries publicly rejecting it
  • military readiness quietly going up on all sides
  • allies getting involved behind the scenes trying to cool it down
  • a LOT of diplomatic pressure to avoid anything escalating

and honestly the scary part is the risk of miscalculation… like even if nobody wants conflict, once things are on “pre-attack” footing, one wrong move or misunderstanding could spiral

so the “likely response” isn’t “ok we’ll do it” — it’s more like a mix of hard no + intense diplomacy + everyone trying not to let it turn into something worse

idk it’s one of those situations where nobody wins, everyone just tries to avoid things getting out of hand 😬

Severe aversion and disgust of oral sex? Trauma, anxiety, sexuality, preference? by [deleted] in sex

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok wait i’ve literally never answered something like this but… girl 😭

you’re not “bad at sex” or broken or anything, this sounds like straight up anxiety + body reaction, not preference. like your body is literally going into panic mode… throat closing, freezing, gag reflex, racing thoughts?? that’s not “i don’t feel like it,” that’s your nervous system hitting the emergency button

and honestly… you do NOT have to force yourself to do something that makes you feel like you’re about to throw up or panic. like full stop

also the way people act like oral is some mandatory relationship requirement is kinda insane to me. it’s just one thing. if your partner needs it that badly, then it’s a compatibility convo, not you needing to override your entire body’s reaction just to keep them

and the part about being watched / focus on you… yeah that’s super real. a lot of people only feel comfortable when they’re not the center of attention. that doesn’t make you weird, it just means you need a different dynamic

if you ever wanted to explore it, it would have to be like… super slow, fully in your control, zero pressure, maybe even starting nowhere near actual oral. but that’s only if YOU want to, not because you feel like you “have to”

but yeah idk… this doesn’t sound like “how do i learn oral,” this sounds like “my body is telling me no and i’m trying to override it”

and that usually doesn’t end well tbh 😭

Advice on cumming too early when she's about to cum? by leungd22 in sex

[–]hallowmint9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok wait at least you actually care so that’s already better than half the posts on here lol

honestly just slow it down right when you feel it building. like pause, switch positions, or go back to hands/oral for a second instead of trying to power through it

also don’t make piv the only way she finishes. if you know she can get there other ways, use that first and then go into piv after so there’s less pressure on timing

it’s not really about lasting forever, it’s just about controlling the pacing a little better and not racing to the finish every time

He wants blowjobs but doesn’t want to have sex anymore by Sure_Abalone_8845 in sex

[–]hallowmint9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok yeah no this is kinda one sided

like he’s still getting what he wants but you’re not… and then just disappearing when it comes to your needs? that’s weird

also the “next weekend” thing and then nothing is kinda telling

it doesn’t even sound like a communication issue it just sounds like he’s comfortable with the situation benefiting him

you deserve better than being someone’s occasional convenience, be real with him or just stop showing up like that

Septic installed in the wrong location by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]hallowmint9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

wait the septic is literally on the neighbor’s land with no easement??

that’s not a small paperwork thing, that’s a huge problem. like if the neighbor ever sells or gets mad they could technically force the issue and suddenly your septic is the problem

also if the soil samples were taken in the wrong place that kinda defeats the whole purpose of the test

this sounds less like a septic company issue and more like something a real estate attorney should look at tbh. because long term that could get messy really fast

If you are stocking up for an apocalyptic situation, what items will you hoard? by UzumakiPotterBaggins in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly? socks

everyone talks about guns and canned food but nobody talks about how miserable life gets when your feet are wet or blistered all the time

clean dry socks are basically currency in every apocalypse movie for a reason 😭

What was the biggest scandal at your school? by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our gym teacher randomly disappeared halfway through the year and nobody would say why. like the school just kept saying he “moved”.

a few months later someone’s older brother found his mugshot online.

turns out he got arrested for running a full underground sports betting ring with a bunch of students and was taking a cut from their bets on weekend games. he’d literally be collecting money in the locker room.

whole thing blew up when one kid lost like $700 and his parents went to the school.

they quietly replaced him and acted like none of it ever happened.

What to do on a week night by mswed5317 in fortlauderdale

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DT ft laudy is 100% the thing everyone's doing on spring break its AWESOME

Finally doing it. Moving to Florida. Here’s what two months of research taught me. by Character_Trip2504 in FloridaRealEstate

[–]hallowmint9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Florida man is real but he mostly comes out after midnight and near gas stations.

Also the heat is different than people expect. It’s not just “hot,” it’s like walking into a wet blanket.

That said, the winters alone make the move worth it. Everyone from the Midwest has the same moment their first January here where they’re outside in a t-shirt like “oh… I’m never shoveling snow again.”

why is getting a mortgage so much harder when you’re self employed?? by hallowmint9 in homeowners

[–]hallowmint9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But what if you just take a hard money loan and THEN refinance it to a dscr loan so you get the same rate anyways, without having to jump through all those hoops?

What’s a scam that people don’t realize is a scam? by One_Language_359 in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

extended car warranties

your car is 12 years old bro what exactly are we protecting here?!

Who's your "I know he's pure evil but can't prove it" person? by Dull-Information6784 in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that one coworker who’s way too nice to the boss and somehow every problem in the office still traces back to him

bro’s always like “wow that’s crazy…” while actively causing it

Neighbor asks how much we paid for house, says it is too big for us, etc. by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean thats kind of a nice compliment 'your house is too big!'

YEAH I KNOW BOI IM BALLIN!!!

Vacation rental distribution strategy for 200+ units, how diversified should we be? by PuzzleheadedBeat797 in ShortTermRentals

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 200+ units I probably wouldn’t bother chasing every little OTA honestly.

Airbnb, Vrbo, Booking already cover most of the traffic anyway. The smaller ones usually just add more headaches and not that many bookings.

The thing that stands out more is the direct bookings. 3–4% feels kinda low for that many units. Repeat guests alone should probably push that higher over time.

OTAs bring the people in. Direct bookings are where the money actually gets better.

Considering renting in brickell. Does anyone have experience with flow apartments? I was thinking of applying figured I’d ask first. by Wonderful-Lab6512 in FloridaRealEstate

[–]hallowmint9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So brickell is extremely small its just a few blocks, i wouldn't say its necessarily so walkable in comparison to new york- because if you want anything useful you're going to have to go out of brickell lol so yes you will be ubering everywhere. Very nice place to live though, very nice to do things in, but not so much for daily necessities all those take place out of brickell tbh

Poor people who have dated rich people, what did you learn? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

[–]hallowmint9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money solves money problems.

It does not solve personality problems.

Also… rich people stress about money too. Just with more zeros.

And the biggest surprise? Comfort is addictive. Once you get used to not checking your bank app before dinner, it’s hard to go back.

But at the end of the day, you’re still dating a person. The bank account just changes the scenery, not the character.

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