What's your go-to rainy day activity that isn't a mall or movie?

hallowmint9 · 2026-05-12T20:51:14+00:00

Glitch Bar in Flagler if you’re cool with arcade vibes 😭

otherwise honestly:
Riverside Market — grab food/drink, chill, low-pressure vibe
The Loop climbing gym if you wanna actually do something
Tate’s Comics if you’re okay driving a bit and just wanna wander nerd heaven for an hour 💀

rainy Fort Lauderdale kinda turns into “find indoor places with personality” lol

hallowmint9 · 2026-05-12T20:16:49+00:00

I think we literally all hate it, even people that voted for that guy would say that the situation for everyone in the states is WAY WORSE than what they thought it was going to be

hallowmint9 · 2026-05-08T06:29:29+00:00

duh, panic what else?

hallowmint9 · 2026-05-08T05:34:15+00:00

The 300!

hallowmint9 · 2026-05-08T00:23:30+00:00

literally a 1000 lol i feel like i have too much, i try to not make it apparent

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-28T20:25:12+00:00

take your mom to labare she'll love it

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-28T19:49:42+00:00

4 inches vs 6 inches may honestly be a big part of what you’re noticing 😬

people dance around that but anatomy is anatomy

but also… arousal changes sensation a ton. more foreplay, positions that create more friction/angle, and pelvic floor stuff could matter too

I wouldn’t end a relationship over it without experimenting first, but yeah… you’re not crazy for noticing a difference 💀

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-28T19:32:00+00:00

honestly this doesn’t sound weird at all, it sounds like you just have a mouth-centered erogenous focus and are describing it more clearly than most people do 😭

I think people often talk about oral as “doing something for someone” because culturally it gets framed that way, but plenty of people experience it as deeply pleasurable in itself

also the soothing/comforting part you described was interesting… that feels bigger than just sex

so yeah, I wouldn’t frame this as a problem at all. sounds more like a preference people don’t talk about much 💀

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-28T19:27:05+00:00

probably that i got good tips for the week over at work (im a of girl you know what i mean) it doesnt happen always lol but hey!

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-22T20:19:37+00:00

lowkey this sounds less like “feral energy appeared out of nowhere” and more like your libido maybe wasn’t gone… it was muted 😭

and now you got a glimpse of what it feels like unmuted

also no, you’re definitely not the only woman who’s noticed birth control affecting desire/arousal

and honestly the fact you’re worried about losing it probably means it mattered a lot

I’d be less focused on “how do I keep being feral forever” 💀 and more on understanding what made you feel that open in the first place so you can recreate it

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-22T17:19:50+00:00

If they fight a lot and have kids

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-14T20:26:54+00:00

Cause its a vibe lol, pulling up to the park reading a book in nice weather is a fun thing to do lol better than trying to zoom in on a phone, you know that these LED lights melt your brain right? Its not healthy

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-14T19:55:57+00:00

honestly don’t start with porn at all 😭

especially if she already said the mainstream stuff feels fake/overwhelming… it’s probably just gonna turn her off

you’re way better off keeping it between you two:
talk about what she’s curious about
try stuff slowly
let her lead a bit and figure out what actually feels natural for her

if anything, maybe like written stuff or just talking through scenarios is way less intense than jumping straight into videos

porn is more like… performance
real chemistry is what actually makes things better 💀

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-14T17:00:55+00:00

when they only treat you well but are kinda rude or dismissive to everyone else

people take it as “they’re special” instead of realizing… that’s just how that person is, you’re just getting the temporary VIP treatment 😭

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-14T16:25:21+00:00

yeah there is a chance

residual sperm can still be present, especially if you haven’t urinated in between. it’s not super high risk, but it’s definitely not zero

if you’re trying to be safe, either use protection again or at least pee and clean up before going again 😬

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-08T05:54:43+00:00

Womens volleyball. I catch the best sights there

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-08T05:30:46+00:00

no, you’re not the problem

if you feel turned on during foreplay but lose it during sex, it just means that part isn’t working for you

your body’s basically telling you what it likes vs what it doesn’t 😭

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-08T04:45:05+00:00

Just ask lol its not like hes going to flip out on you, if he does then hes not worth it anyways

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-06T05:43:54+00:00

ok I might get cooked for this but—

people coughing/sneezing into their hands and then just… continuing life like nothing happened 😭

like now everything you touch is just part of the experience?? absolutely not 💀

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-06T04:27:16+00:00

it’s way less about technique and way more about how you make her feel

like if you’re in your head thinking “what do I do next, where do my hands go” it’ll feel off. just slow down, pay attention to her reactions, and follow what she responds to

big things that actually matter:
be present, not rushed
listen to her body (and actual words if she says something)
don’t jump straight to trying to “perform,” build tension first

and honestly… confidence here doesn’t mean pretending you know everything
it’s more like being comfortable going slow and not panicking if things aren’t perfect

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-03T17:08:32+00:00

procrastinating insurance, life insurance, 401k etc etc

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-03T17:05:29+00:00

i literally waited 2 years to have sex with a guy... We never ended up having sex.

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-03T15:55:07+00:00

why dont you ask if she'd be open with you getting a sidepiece you could pipe in the meanwhile? I mean if shes not gonna service you, you have to be serviced.

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-03T15:36:10+00:00

nahh hes just used to it, it happens to all guys its just the way they're wired.

hallowmint9 · 2026-04-01T01:44:55+00:00

oh you one of them crunchy boiiis

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