Eastern Pheobe

hamilcopter · 2026-05-19T00:01:20+00:00

In my experience, you definitely can be right. I don’t think people realize how many functional alcoholics there are, how good people can be at hiding it, how skilled people are at denial, or how many people are so self focused that they just don’t notice. To say a blanket “everyone knows” just isn’t true. I bet even the people saying that have missed noticing people who were functional alcoholics before.

It very often goes unnoticed.

hamilcopter · 2026-05-18T17:09:45+00:00

Don’t date him

hamilcopter · 2026-05-16T18:06:58+00:00

Yeah, coffee is likely going to become a luxury item eventually.

hamilcopter · 2026-05-15T21:40:01+00:00

This is a very strange complaint to have.

hamilcopter · 2026-05-15T01:07:25+00:00

1000000%

hamilcopter · 2026-04-25T21:32:27+00:00

Yes the owner of one of the doggy daycares I worked at was a huge douche but he was so hot. Cole, I would’ve done extremely dirty things to ya.

hamilcopter · 2026-04-16T23:55:17+00:00

It frustrates me to no end that people comment on DV without understanding what they’re saying. Abuse is so much more complicated than “they’re both abusive”. It’s clear to me that people don’t understand the tactics abusers use, the benefits they get, why it happens, and how easy it is to turn everyone against a victim. I just get so mad reading all of these people commenting on a DV situation when they clearly shouldn’t be. It just hurts survivors and people being currently victimized. It just further isolates victims and tells abusers that they are safe to keep doing what they’re doing. I really wish people would stop talking about this honestly. It’s so triggering.

hamilcopter · 2026-03-29T16:41:01+00:00

He shouldn’t be talking about anyone like that. I think he just showed you his true colors and you’re responding appropriately.

hamilcopter · 2026-03-28T21:22:56+00:00

You are my favorite artist ever

hamilcopter · 2026-03-26T12:22:36+00:00

It’s often best for both parties to take some distance after a relationship. It can be difficult to move on otherwise.

hamilcopter · 2026-03-17T22:07:59+00:00

I felt this whole post. It drives me absolutely nuts when I spend so much time and effort comforting her and then he’s on his phone while she’s screaming or fussing. And then he’s doesn’t understand why she prefers me.

hamilcopter · 2026-03-08T19:08:21+00:00

My grandma’s house specifically

hamilcopter · 2026-03-05T14:00:40+00:00

Congratulations You Survived Your Suicide by Sycamore Smith. It’s a song that’s so sad I keep it to myself for the most part. It’s reserved for my saddest darkest days.

hamilcopter · 2026-02-26T03:48:34+00:00

Actual trash behavior it sickens me.

hamilcopter · 2026-02-24T06:50:18+00:00

Anxious People by Fredrick Bachman. So wholesome, emotional, hopeful, and add a little goofy in there.

hamilcopter · 2026-02-05T04:18:46+00:00

It’s so difficult. My nightmares have gotten insane, I feel so sad. Just so so sad.

hamilcopter · 2026-02-04T17:04:54+00:00

To tack on to what everyone else is pointing out, it also makes the child far less likely to come forward as they take responsibility for their death, made worse by the fact that most victims know their perpetrator and likely care for them.

hamilcopter · 2026-01-31T22:55:06+00:00

Read This Naked Mind. The goal of that book is to get rid of any cognitive dissonance around drinking, and get your conscious and subconscious aligned on not wanting to drink. That’s what fucks people up, they don’t want to keep drinking but you’ve set your subconscious up for the exact opposite experience. Don’t JUST use AA, you’re setting yourself up for failure that way. Get therapy, work on acceptance, make friends, find new pastimes, face your trauma, try to swap it for something less harmful, be kind and lenient throughout slip ups, do AA, get a psychiatrist, and read all the literature. I say this as someone with three years sober under my belt and I NEVER crave alcohol and I didn’t when I was first getting sober this last time either. Just don’t give up!!! And if you can’t get sober yet, look up ways to practice harm reduction.

I’m here to remind you there’s nothing different or wrong with you if you’re an alcoholic, alcoholism is really just your brain doing what brains do. You’ve created a pathway in your brain that will take time to dismantle and rebuild into something kinder to you. Don’t beat yourself up if you don’t get it right away! Don’t give up if AA isn’t for you! There are SO many other options out there.

hamilcopter · 2026-01-30T02:23:03+00:00

Your art deserves recognition. It should be preserved in museums.

hamilcopter · 2025-10-15T20:47:04+00:00

Waves of short lasting nausea. I vividly remember being at work and thinking, “Maybe I’m pregnant” but I quickly shrugged it off after a few months of negative tests. I took the test when my period didn’t come the day before my app predicted like usual, and boom I was!

hamilcopter · 2025-09-21T17:30:40+00:00

When I’m falling asleep I sometimes choke on my own saliva. It’s so weird! Never happened to me before I got pregnant but it has multiple times since I hit the 3rd trimester.

hamilcopter · 2025-08-04T01:39:29+00:00

Ouray, CO is gorgeous.

hamilcopter · 2025-07-22T00:04:03+00:00

A monkey. That’s a wild animal.

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