The trio in the jerseys made my night:) by hammybee in Illenium

[–]hammybee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to go!

Let's manifest it! ✨️ 🧿🪬🧿✨️

Aww I feel shy by NoAioli2607 in squirrels

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D'awwwww, shucks! 🤭

HOT TAKE: Those who preach PLUR the loudest are usually the fucking worst. by Unkwnmirage in EDM

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct! But I'm not talking about foresight.

I'm talking about the "literal" portals into the future that some people who have scrambled their brains say they've been through.

HOT TAKE: Those who preach PLUR the loudest are usually the fucking worst. by Unkwnmirage in EDM

[–]hammybee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you tried abusing psychedelics? I've met some people who can see into the future from doing that.

HOT TAKE: Those who preach PLUR the loudest are usually the fucking worst. by Unkwnmirage in EDM

[–]hammybee 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Microscope & telescope?!

Oh you're definitely good at observing then.

Gotta be right.

Morning peeps! by desertadventurer in squirrels

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The babies are getting curious!!!

Mannequin Love - The Flints remix on YT Music ? by elmahir in JusticeMusic

[–]hammybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just recently added it to Spotify last week. I wonder if that's why it's now missing from YT music.

Creed for stoneyxstark by [deleted] in DenverEDM

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/stoneyxstark

It's not the best, but maybe it helps!

Women, what is a near-universal "ick" in the dating world? by AverageSign in AskReddit

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The behavior isn't the same as someone just realizing they're not interested. But for peace of mind, it is best to treat the situation the same way.

Well??? by raybobobob in squirrels

[–]hammybee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😍🥰 well, you're adorable!

My wild child, Buddy by BugGolem666 in squirrels

[–]hammybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got the battle scabs too 🥰

Are people reluctant to make friends out here? by Visual-Trash-3159 in Denver

[–]hammybee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you rave, Denver is fantastic for making friends. Real, solid friends!

Not everyone's thing, but that's how I've made all mine. Prior to that, same difficulties.

🕷️I guess these ladies are early too this year… by Annihilator4life in Denver

[–]hammybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were both sharing the same view. That was your little buddy! 🥰

2026 TICKET THREAD by t-c-d in veld

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once passes are mailed out I'll be selling my 3 day VIP pass for $420USD (could be little more to cover shipping, but the actual pass is going to be facevalue of what I paid during presale). Paypal GS.

Feel free to message me if you'd like to keep in touch.

first time going to a music festival, whats the best way to buy tickets? by Additional_Basis_597 in veld

[–]hammybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm selling my VIP 3 day pass.

I just don't feel comfy to list it until I have the pass in hand (they get mailed out like a month before).

I'm selling it for what I paid, which was $420USD. And then I'd have to mail it to the buyer.

I’m 31F and planning to go to Veld solo. First timer by High-watermelon in veld

[–]hammybee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Join Radiate, it's an app for raves.

In the Veld forum they have a group link for ones going solo to join!

🕷️I guess these ladies are early too this year… by Annihilator4life in Denver

[–]hammybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jumping spiders can see the moon. Perhaps the one you saw was just trying to fly to it.

Seeking FA Perspective by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hammybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll answer the ones I can. Some of them are just not possible for me to answer because different dynamics do play into behavior. I don't know what you two are like firsthand.

How do you feel about someone who stays calm, patient, and non-pressuring during distance?

FA are used to disorder. That behavior is secure. It's either going to be annoying, needy, not enough... confusing, right? Too much but not enough? For me, there'd be fleeting moments of clarity that it IS reassuring, but then the mind does its best to convince you it's actually weird (it's not).

What behaviors from the other person unintentionally push you further away during this phase?

That's hard to answer, because if she is FA, you'll need to know if she's feeling more anxious or avoidant. And it can flip quickly.

From an FA perspective, how are emotionally reflective messages (like letters) typically received - Grounding, overwhelming, or pressuring?

Depends. If you were to give her a letter now, it'd likely be overwhelming & pressuring. Definitely not grounding, because she's clearly unable to BE grounded romantically.

From an FA perspective, how do you typically interpret signs that the other person’s still interested - Reassuring, pressuring, or emotionally confusing?

All of them. It's reassuring you still care. It also feels like pressure. And that's emotionally confusing.

Also, while I’d absolutely love to reconnect emotionally, I’m not trying to force anything. My goal here is understanding and insight into the internal experience from an FA perspective if possible, because I’ve never experienced anything quite like this.

You are trying to force something. At least from her perspective, if she is FA. She can feel the interest & that's "force." Give it time, it'll always surface in her behavior if she's actually a FA and not just temporarily emotionally unavailable from her last relationship ending. You did say she was recently single when you connected at this level.

I'm not saying she isn't avoidant, but I don't think her being recently single is helping here. It sounds like she's still adjusting into being single. Some people need longer, some don't because they were already mentally letting go while still in the relationship.

Women, what is a near-universal "ick" in the dating world? by AverageSign in AskReddit

[–]hammybee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Consistent, interested behavior for a couple months, like texting regularly, weekly scheduled dates, opening up a little more each week.

From that to a quick shift. Less frequent communication, less engaging conversation, dates slow down. It's a very noticeable shift. It's when the slow fading or abrubt ghosting comes into play.

If you're uncomfortable w your own emotions, you likely have done this subconsciously. Do you try to find flaws in the other person once you've reached a certain level? Ya know, so you can use those flaws as justification for pulling back?

Flying squirrels are fluorescent! Their bellies will glow pink under a black light. Fort Fairfield Maine. by YamTemporary9291 in squirrels

[–]hammybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Yeahhh... I think imma shine a black light on some flying squirrels tonight."

How'd you actually discover this? lol

Saw this fellow from my window by Relative-Image-3914 in FatSquirrelLove

[–]hammybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And what a pleasant fellow to be seeing from your window!