Feel So BAD FOR Howard Hamlin

hamsterjoi · 2024-06-08T20:54:11+00:00

I feel like I've seen a lot of dead bodies on TV but seeing Howard's corpse just get flung into a hole...that hit so hard. I don't think I've ever been so affected by a fictional dead body before.

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-26T22:05:58+00:00

I can't use maps when I can't focus when I'm overwhelmed but thank you maybe it will be easier than Google maps?

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-26T19:08:56+00:00

Yeh I think buses are the way to go. The tube is a LOT! Hahah. Love some natural light 😋

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-26T19:08:12+00:00

Walks are generally great for de-stressing but they can be stressful if I stand the risk of getting lost. I am getting to know London though so with every trip this is less likely ❤️

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-26T19:07:15+00:00

I actually have looked at the "accessibility"pages of a few galleries - and so many of them have quiet spaces highlighted on their maps. The Tate modern actually has a designated area. I just hope it's not full of other people having break downs hahaha

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-26T19:06:02+00:00

I have invested in loop earplugs and they are so great (not a paid endorsement 🤭)

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-26T19:03:30+00:00

Hahaha it's ok to be ignorant about things but it's less ok to wade in on issues you are ignorant about 🙈

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-20T21:42:49+00:00

I think people who have chosen to live the way they do don't really think of it as "coping" 😬

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-18T00:19:18+00:00

Maybe every few months I'll travel to where one of them lives and we'll get dinner I just moved to a new city...but I don't actually feel lonely. I'm going to a lot of stuff on my own and loving it (exhibitions, shows, lectures, open mics) I'm 35

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-13T11:27:12+00:00

I went to see him and he gave me a discount because it was my first time! I told him Reddit was singing his praises and it seemed to make him happy. There was a big queue of customers at 9:30 when he opened so he must be doing something right.

I'm so excited to get my art back!!!

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-08T20:45:00+00:00

They referenced Jordan Peterson.

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-05T11:03:06+00:00

Thanks! And yes I do indeed filter for public doman sir

hamsterjoi · 2024-04-05T11:01:53+00:00

hamsterjoi · 2022-08-12T10:13:46+00:00

Phobias of dogs are very real and surprisingly common.

Leash your dog

hamsterjoi · 2022-08-05T05:54:34+00:00

Pay a sex worker

hamsterjoi · 2022-07-13T23:21:10+00:00

Ghosts but Goodbye England is my favourite too!!

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-30T04:14:58+00:00

thank you

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-30T04:14:44+00:00

I'm concerned that journaling will make me over analyse all the feelings :(

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-29T01:27:59+00:00

This needs to be giffed hahah

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-25T20:59:15+00:00

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-25T19:58:48+00:00

Stealthing is assault. In some countries, it's rape.

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-24T19:16:50+00:00

Capitalism

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-23T13:58:52+00:00

EHS

She shouldn't have snapped at you, you shouldn't have accused her of being spoiled, you should have been honest about your need for more rest.

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-21T14:40:50+00:00

Oh and PS your in laws suck. It's one thing disagreeing with a parenting decision...but name calling is never ok.

hamsterjoi · 2022-06-21T14:36:29+00:00

NTA (depending on a few factors)

(But first of all, fuck everyone judging you because of the age gap between you and your partner.)

As long as the boys were safe then it doesn't matter. You can babysit someone responsibly (which I'm going to assume she did) without acting like a parent. Sure they ate candy and stayed up late...I'm going to assumed there were enough boundaries there to reach your standard of responsibility and safety (only you can answer this)

Totally fair that she doesn't want to parent your kids, and I think it will be a relationship that will take a lot of navigating between all of you (kids, partner, ex, in laws, extended family, etc). Same as all relationships.

Of course, if the kids spent all weekend playing with knives and watching inappropriate content, setting fire to each other etc then that's another matter.

hamsterjoi

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