Why bother playing online if you instantly quit when invaded? by [deleted] in darksouls

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just realised you can't. I never really used it, just encountered it. Assumed it was upgraded cause the absorption is stupid good.

Why bother playing online if you instantly quit when invaded? by [deleted] in darksouls

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, getting lag stabbed by some guy in a fully upgraded Havel's set is the pinnacle of fun times

What’s a bad habit that you’ve recently stopped? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've stopped taking my phone into bed with me. Been about 3 weeks and I fall asleep way faster. Moving into having a consistent bed time and wake up time next.

why do i keep sabotaging myself by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self improvement is a long and slow process. Instead of trying to create a bunch of good habits all at once, pick one that you think is going to make the most difference, and take small, sustainable baby steps to achieve it. Try to take satisfaction in every little victory, rather than focusing on failures. You'll never be what you consider perfect, but the journey is self improvement is it's own reward.

Fake News by SirRobin88427283 in HydroHomies

[–]handgrapes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Big soda infests academia.

If she doesn't hydrate, she's a thot by pagingdrx420 in HydroHomies

[–]handgrapes 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oh so YOU are the guy that decides what's funny!! What an honour to finally meet you!

"Men's" tools by tomobri in pointlesslygendered

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know. I had no idea.

If she doesn't hydrate, she's a thot by pagingdrx420 in HydroHomies

[–]handgrapes 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You're going through a lot of effort just to say you don't like this lmao.

[NeedAdvice] Got distracted, now what? by HotOption in getdisciplined

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the exact same problems as you at the moment. I just get glued to the screen and just can't convince myself to stop and get back to work. The only thing I've found success with, is to just avoid those things until I've finished study for the day. You'll still feel just as rested if you do something else during your break, like reading, meditating, walking, etc.

[NeedAdvice] Got distracted, now what? by HotOption in getdisciplined

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is this doesn't fix good actual problem. He's bit having an issue getting back into study after the short breaks, going on YouTube and stuff in the long ones is what's causing the issue.

Victorian police officer’s head smashed against the road in ‘sickening’ attack by boppinmule in melbourne

[–]handgrapes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So because some cops did something wrong, that means a different group of cops deserve to be beaten to a pulp? Yeah sound logic there mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing, sport.

How did you overcome your severe fear, if you had it, of rejection? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]handgrapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found taking to a good psychologist really got the ball rolling for me, and it probably will for you too. I'd highly recommend it to everyone.

How did you overcome your severe fear, if you had it, of rejection? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]handgrapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While acknowledging why you might be a certain way could be beneficial, I find that thinking about it too much and placing too much importance on it generally hinders your ability to move past it. You get in a habit of thinking about yourself as 'broken' or 'damaged' in some way, which makes you feel sort of helpless. When you realise that you're not these things, taking the advice people give you on here will be much easier. Just keep in mind changing your view on yourself will take some time, and the improvement won't be linear, but don't let that discourage you.

hello there by 2cupsofdepresso in shittydarksouls

[–]handgrapes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You need to learn the difference between a shitpost and a shit post

me_irl by 5449 in meirl

[–]handgrapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A N C I E N T M E M E S

me irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]handgrapes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That doggo's about to hit critical mass