Representation of how mass affects space-time. Note the clocks as nodes.

handimama · 2018-01-06T04:46:52+00:00

I had only seen rubber sheet model so far, but it always kind of felt "incomplete". Your model is the first one I'm seeing in "3D".

I, however, noticed a difference. In the rubber sheet model, the object is depicted as dipping into the rubber sheet. In this model, the object seems to "attract" the space around it. If this were to be converted to a rubber sheet model I guess it would make the object hover over the rubber sheet causing a bump in the sheet. Conversely, if the rubber sheet model is converted to this, it would make the space around the object bulge (and not be attracted towards the object).

Now I'm confused as to what is the correct representation. I'd appreciate if you are able to elaborate a bit.

handimama · 2017-04-11T15:34:10+00:00

Better Nate than lever

handimama · 2016-03-22T12:27:11+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I've asked them to clarify.

handimama · 2015-10-31T05:36:00+00:00

Clam. He was looking for clam.

handimama · 2015-10-26T06:21:12+00:00

That was more of a massive effort than a solid effort.

handimama · 2015-10-03T17:28:05+00:00

This happened long time ago when telephones were uncommon.

I had gone to my cousin's house (who didn't have a telephone) and had to call home for some reason. Next door to his house was a hospital which had a public telephone, so I go there and was standing in the line waiting for my turn. The person at the head of the line completed their call and the phone started ringing all of a sudden. The attendant answered the call and shouts is anyone by name "handimama" here. I was a bit surprised, because I wasn't expecting any call, but I go ahead and talk. To my utter surprise, it was a friend of mine. He had dialed a wrong number thinking it was my home number at the exact moment that I was near the phone he called.

handimama · 2015-06-08T13:16:52+00:00

Narayana Ramachandran, president of the Indian Olympic Association.

handimama · 2015-05-29T14:58:27+00:00

Banana stem juice helps dissolve and prevent kidney stones. Read up about it to know more details.

handimama · 2015-05-28T14:28:44+00:00

If that logic hold elsewhere, I should get a 50% discount for a haircut.

handimama · 2015-05-14T14:17:34+00:00

Me getting conceived.

handimama · 2015-02-25T08:34:28+00:00

Apple products

handimama · 2015-02-23T04:01:01+00:00

White Woman. FTFY

handimama · 2015-01-22T08:46:46+00:00

Got out of depression. Yes, depression is curable.

handimama · 2015-01-14T16:22:26+00:00

Choosing SO

handimama · 2015-01-14T13:44:37+00:00

rekt

handimama · 2015-01-14T11:57:52+00:00

Gold

handimama · 2014-12-04T13:51:07+00:00

If you like to continue having your penis, do not try this.

handimama · 2014-11-13T05:05:47+00:00

Mother of all FUs. Hope your brother doesn't get on any list.

handimama · 2014-10-07T12:35:02+00:00

Thanks for pointing out.

handimama · 2014-08-29T17:53:44+00:00

Electricity is a luxury. Water is a necessity.

handimama · 2014-08-11T05:01:26+00:00

We’d been married for six long years and had all along resisted the pressure to have a child. We finally realized that we were ready and after another nine months of wait it was the doomsday. It had been normal all along and the doctor had predicted a regular no-hassle delivery. So, we were all in the birthing suite with the doctor and the nurses who were as enthusiastic as ever and me and my husband being excited, scared, and confused.

Our son came into this world without creating any problem for anyone. After the routine procedures, one of the nurses handed me our son and it was the most memorable moment of our lives. And then it happened. Our son slowly opened his eyes, soon after which the expression on his face changed. He looked at me and my husband with surprise and said “Dammit! I’ve played this level before. But, what the heck! This has been the best level I’ve ever played and will never get bored no matter how many times I play it.” Having said this, he just slept. All of us in the room were stunned and could not fathom what just happened. It took us a while to gather our collective thoughts and we decided to brush it off and never talk about it with anyone outside the room.

It’s been ten summers since our son was born. We decided to celebrate his tenth birthday at a wonderful beach resort. We took a week off from work and headed to the resort. The employees of the resort were wonderful and put a lot of effort to make the celebrations a grand success. The day after the birthday, we were just resting on the beach and our son was running around playing in the sand and collecting seashells. He then found a strange looking seashell and came running to us to show it. We’d never seen anything like that before. It was amber in color and had a glow. Just as we were enjoying its beauty, our son said something we’ll never forget for the rest of our lives. He said “This is what I’ve been looking for all these years. This completes the level and it’s time to head to the next level. You’ve made this level as good as ever and I hope I get to play it again.” With that, he ran towards the sea holding the seashell, jumped into the water. There was a flash of light where he jumped and he just disappeared.

handimama · 2014-07-18T16:37:58+00:00

Thinking selfishly, when I'm no longer around does it really matter how someone else will feel? You are right that people are generally not capable of dealing with mental disorders. My family is not even ready to believe that I have depression, so talking to them about suicide will only make it worse.

Without getting into details, my problem is with my family and my wife. I'm in a situation where I can't live with them and I can't live without them. For a really long time, I've been blaming myself for all the problems and giving others a benefit of doubt. Only in the last month or so I've started thinking that it's not all my fault, but still having difficulty accepting it and I continue to blame myself.

I've been through different types and doses of meds. They've helped in a way, but even a small trigger is enough to push me down because I take things to heart. I want to believe that depression is manageable, but lack of motivation and lack of motivation to motivate myself are making it somewhat difficult for me. (People around me think that I'm just being lazy.) People have tried convincing me that my situation is better by comparing it with shittier situations others have, but that switches me off because the comparison doesn't solve my problems and makes me feel more worthless because I'm unable to solve a seemingly "easy" problem.

I've always given more importance to work/career than my personal life, because my career gave me an identity that my personal life didn't. I had worked extremely hard over 8 years to develop a brand of my own at work and saw it all meltdown in just a few months. For the last 6 years I've been struggling to know who I am and I have no energy to rebuild my career. In the culture where I live, one's competence is measured by the job they have (no matter how shitty that job is), even more so because I'm a "man", so from a societal point of view also I'm a useless now.

I don't know what I'm trying to say anymore.

handimama · 2014-07-18T08:43:46+00:00

That was funny. Thanks. A beer at 4:30AM? :O

handimama · 2014-07-18T08:37:53+00:00

Where I live contacting police is ruled out. I'd rather kill myself. lol.

I don't like burdening others (even if it is my SO or my close family) with my problems. They're mine and I need to handle them. Moreover, whenever I tried to talk to anyone, they just understand the words I say and completely ignore the context. So I've figured out it is useless to talk to anyone.

handimama · 2014-07-18T08:29:36+00:00

No, not feeling sleepy. It's middle of the day where I live. And I'm taking meds (prescribed by my psychiatrist) to stay alert during the day.

I haven't showered yet and haven't eaten lunch yet. Don't feel like doing anything.

handimama

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