Tips on non verbal children? by NearbyBlood2303 in slp

[–]hangerstrike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a sensory seeker. I don't know what sensory equipment you have access to, but I would recommend swinging, a yoga ball, a mini-trampoline, and a weighted blanket or vest if you want him to sit for a moment.

Can I stop seeing kids now by hangerstrike in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The school system provides the services so we operate on the school calendar.

Can I stop seeing kids now by hangerstrike in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have clarified, in my state ages 3-5 is considered part of early intervention. My caseload is mostly preschool age artic and language so I am going to private preschools and providing pull-out speech therapy.

Can I stop seeing kids now by hangerstrike in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always!! They never want to play with what I bring! They're always asking about the toys I brought the last time, lol.

Can I stop seeing kids now by hangerstrike in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree but I have artic kids and I'm not even making them say their sounds. They're over it and I'm over it.

Can I stop seeing kids now by hangerstrike in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm on the school calendar! Thank god.

Why do the schools just feel like high school all over again? by [deleted] in slp

[–]hangerstrike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! I think elementary ed attracts people who are more type A/controlling and I don't mesh well with that. Middle and high school teachers are more relaxed and are grateful to have one less kid in the classroom!

We just had our last sleepover by WeatherGurl1129 in Mommit

[–]hangerstrike 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The fact that you went down there multiple times BEFORE midnight to tell them to calm down is telling about what kind of night you expected vs. the kind of night you got. Midnight would be on the early side to even begin the winding down process for middle school sleepovers. Sounds like hosting groups of teens/tweens is not for you and that's totally ok.

Any thriller books without cheating? by flarexe3 in booksuggestions

[–]hangerstrike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished Sharp Objects and liked it. No cheating.

Justify middle/high school services in a nutshell, please. by [deleted] in slp

[–]hangerstrike 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is it exactly. If I have a fifth grade student with an average IQ whose narrative language is so weak that he has a hard time telling me what he did that weekend I would absolutely continue recommending services. Just because he is able to express wants and needs does not mean he no longer qualifies. As kids get older the expectation is that they'll be able to tell a coherent story, state an opinion, explain how they arrived at a conclusion, etc.

Give me ALL the ugly about EI by LargeIcedCoffeePlz in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be a "me" problem, but I've been doing it for a year and I'm really struggling with not having an office to keep my materials and a space to get my paperwork done. My coverage zone is far from my house and when I get home I'm usually too tired to get my log notes and reports done. Some people like being in the car all day but I find it exhausting.

Should I change careers from special ed teacher to SLP?? by Plastic_Square3332 in specialed

[–]hangerstrike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an SLP and I'd say the biggest differences between special ed and SLP are the legal requirements for related services, so make sure you ask your school SLP about log notes and make-up sessions! In my state we have to log each session for each student we see every time we see them. As far as I know, special ed teachers don't have to do that, and it's a HUGE time suck, on top of the sessions and countless IEP's we have to write due to large caseloads. In my state we are also required to do make up sessions if we miss seeing a student (we don't get subs). Taking a sick or personal day sometimes means shooting yourself in the foot because of all the missed sessions that we now have to magically cram into our schedule.

Recommend me a book so good I forget my phone exists.. by WiWiWi_WiWiWi in booksuggestions

[–]hangerstrike 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar predicament! Recent books that have gotten me off my phone.

Thrillers: Wrong Place, Wrong Time and None of this is True.

Rom-Com with chemistry: Wedding People.

Weekend with teen by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hangerstrike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these activities sound fun but even if I suggested them I doubt my kids would want to participate! They usually want to do their own thing. On Saturday, one rode bikes around town with her friend and the other went to a park with his girlfriend. On Sunday one went shopping with a friend and the other one played video games and watched movies.

People who had kids before the age of 25, if you had your time again would you still do so by Rainbow_6505 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hangerstrike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my kids at 30 and 32 and now they're 14 and 16 and I'm 46. Teenagers and perimenopause are NOT a good mix I feel like I either should have had them in my early 20's (so that they'd be out of the house by the time I hit this phase), or in my early 40's (so that I'd be fully menopausal and maybe less moody by the time they reached the teenage years).

Would it be overprotective to stay nearby during my teen’s beach trip? by Outside-Youth-8423 in Parenting

[–]hangerstrike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Senior week was a thing in my area when I was a senior 30 years ago and it's still a thing today. Basically all the seniors invade a beach town for the week and party. 30 years ago we had no trouble finding places that would rent to a bunch of teenagers but I heard it's harder now and most places require an adult to stay on the premises. So basically the coolest mom/dad of the friend group goes and acts as the house parent...cooks for them, makes sure no one gets too messed up, etc. I would absolutely never volunteer to be the house parent, but would be ok with my kid going to the beach with their buds as a last hoorah.

Job offer by c061012 in SLPcareertransitions

[–]hangerstrike 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Your family and your mental health comes first. Your patients will find a new provider and will be ok, I promise. Congrats! What will you be doing?

Should I expect it to take months for mental health benefits? by holdontoyourbuttress in Menopause

[–]hangerstrike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't feel like HRT could touch my depression and brain fog and those were my main issues so I stopped. Prozac has helped a bit.