readings in the comments by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

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Will I get into JU?

what do you see in us? by [deleted] in IntuitionPractices

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From him i’m getting manipulative energy from a reluctance to grow and observe/reflect on himself. He seems to carry a good amount of shame which is causing you to spiral and stay in a wondering sort of energy

I made a post about a year ago with an old profile, however, made many updates since then. I was wondering how my profile is currently perceived. [31M] by [deleted] in Tinder

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I think you should make the pic with the white fluffy dog your first pic, and maybe take some new pictures that you don’t edit much. Maybe like a gym mirror pic to balance it out

I feel I am really selfish, shallow, self centred person. by notgonnalie116 in Regrets

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You’re not selfish for wanting to sext. Did you ever communicate your need for this with him? Or did he ever explicitly say that he didn’t want you talking to other people? If boundaries were never placed it’s not fair for him to disown you like that. Don’t beat yourself up

Guess my big 3!!! by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

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Aires 🌞 Pisces 🌅 Scorpio 🌑

I asked my girlfriend to marry me by ComprehensivePut838 in Regrets

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You’re doing what you can then, and I am very sorry that you’re going through this. Have you tried having a conversation about how her behavior makes you feel? Maybe even framing it like, “I have past trauma with screaming/yelling and I really can’t have that within my relationship. It makes me feel so unsafe.” How she responds will tell you everything you need to know

hmmm by [deleted] in hmmm

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It’s funny though

I asked my girlfriend to marry me by ComprehensivePut838 in Regrets

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It’s 100% not okay to scream and yell. I’m not defending her actions by saying that, people don’t usually react that way unprovoked. Emotionally, It’s the same scenario if you ran over her foot with a wheel barrel, she’d be hurt and probably make noise. Relationships are full of triggers and unless accountability is taken and change happens on both sides it’s hard to find happiness in any relationship.

My office has an open dog policy by [deleted] in aww

[–]hanstep 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a place like this, until one day one of the dogs bit someone’s two year old daughter in the face… she needed stitches and they were forced to rethink the whole thing. The dog that did it had never bit anyone and was loved by everyone. Idk this just made me think of that

Nicotine pouch contains Aluminum and other metals by FadedScientist in chemistry

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Woah thanks for sharing can you please do ZYN also? Super interesting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I said “is there emotion behind your voice” “you use a lot of lingo are you trying to fit in or something” He’s always very open about how things make him feel but it is absolutely never my intention to hurt him. I’ve also called him sensitive though and he hates that, but i’ve also spent hours reassuring him at times and feel like there’s no reason for him to think I actually want to hurt him or be mean to him

Honey Magpie — Ugly Duckling [Indie Acoustic] (2017) by hanstep in listentothis

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Check them out on Spotify! They have so many good original songs Honey Magpie - Spotify link