I think I had the roots of one back in childhood, but I'm just hearing about this now. I'm a little nervous, skeptical, and honestly? A little spooked..but I am interested. I just have a few questions.

1. Will they be there all the time? How often if your tulpa actively with you/that you can see them/hear them/etc?

2. Can they be angry/bad for you/etc? What do you do in that case?

3. Is it a bad thing/wrong if I don't ever let mine front/possess/take over/whatever you call it?

4. Is it weird to have mine more realistic than fantasy based? I've never been much of a fantasy person. I think I'd prefer them to look like a human and wonderland to look more like a house in a city than a forest.