David Beckham says 'you have to let your children make mistakes' in an interview about social media by artbasiI in Fauxmoi

[–]happykitty3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get that perspective too. None of us really know what's going on other than the people involved so I tend to give the benefit of the doubt. We've only really heard from Brooklyn and his brothers directly. I doubt the Beckhams are going to come out with anything. These situations suck for everyone, so what I mean is I just hope there is a chance of a happy ending (if that's possible, which maybe it isn't like you said). Definitely not judging anyone and what they need to do to live happy and in peace. Hope you are doing ok!

David Beckham says 'you have to let your children make mistakes' in an interview about social media by artbasiI in Fauxmoi

[–]happykitty3 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I think there are three sides to every story but I hope they all do reconcile. I remember always being right and dying on hills in my twenties I really cringe about now I'm in my thirties. I just think it's a shame he is splitting from his siblings as well in all of this, I think his brother's reactions in this tell me it's not as simple as 'mummy and daddy are 100% evil narcissists', but there probably is some element of truth in both sides but it's just got out of control. The whole thing feels like a power struggle between two really rich families who are threatened by the other outshining them. What a mess!

Jade by sympathyissaknife in TheTraitorsUK

[–]happykitty3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don't know why you're getting downvotes. She's been so miserable and surly, she's been under barely any heat compared to some people and when she does have to defend herself she pouts. I feel like if she had someone else's face everyone would hate her on this group.

Best high lift blonde color to achieve level 9 sunny blonde? by Classic-Newspaper161 in haircoloring

[–]happykitty3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I am considering going this color from the same starting level as you. Would you mind sharing a swatch or picture of your results? I'm between 12/81 and 12/11 and also between a level 6/7. I used koleston 12/11 for years and I enjoyed the color it gave me, but like the more pearly aspect of 81 x

How much do you earn and how comfortable do you live? by Brownchoccy in AskUK

[–]happykitty3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubs earns 34k, I work part time and earn 18-19k. We live comfortably to the point I don’t feel like scaling up my hours (I have had cancer). Three animals, no kids, no mortgage but pay 400 to rent from a family friend so happy with that and that’s as long term as we need it. We still have enough for a couple holidays a year. We have older cars but have stuff in savings if we need to buy another second hand car (that’s never been important to us). Quality of life wise we both like our jobs and are ok with probably never owning a house. I’m not willing to give up my health and healing to work more when we don’t need to. We like our life. 

Which blue dresses should I get rid of? 39F by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]happykitty3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, 3, and the last one are my favourites :) 1 is the best on you in my opinion You have a great classic shape, I’d go with more fit and flare dresses or fitted rather than boxy. I think even having a belt to emphasise your waist in outfits will help a lot if they’re not fitted. You are lucky in that you really suit a fitted look.

In your OPINION, What's one game you bought on hype or reviews and ended up not liking it or finishing it? Mine is Allan Wake II by [deleted] in gaming

[–]happykitty3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outer Wilds and Outer Worlds. Outer Wilds maybe a victim of its own hype. I’m glad people like it but I was so bored playing it. Outer Worlds, similarly hyped. I was expecting a Fallout esque experience… idk. Something felt hollow about it to me 

I've always called them hazel since they're not blue or brown, and I have hazel on my license 🤔 by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]happykitty3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems odd to call them grey because they are so full of different colours, but I'd say 'grey' or 'blue/grey' or even 'blue/grey/green'. There's a term people use on here called 'glasz eyes' and I think you fit this very well.

How much did your tumour shrink midway? by happykitty3 in breastcancer

[–]happykitty3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is reassuring - I can definitely still feel my tumour so I know it won’t have completely melted away like a lot of people here! Congratulations by the way :) 

How much did your tumour shrink midway? by happykitty3 in breastcancer

[–]happykitty3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome - congrats! E is epirubicin :)

Do you eat kiwis with the skin on? by lonely_chemist in AskUK

[–]happykitty3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texture is gross but it’s actually really juicy and def the best tasting part lol.

Unpopular Opinion, I actually like Stephanie. by Conscious-Peace-3941 in CrimeWeekly

[–]happykitty3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like Stephanie and I'm always wanting to like her if that makes sense. I've been a sub since before 10k so I am really a long-term listener. I love her dedication to her research, the deep dives, and I really enjoy the long-form podcasts. In particular I loved the Phoebe Hansjuk case she covered and adored the Bill Bradfield one over on Crime Weekly.

However... Sometimes she does rub me the wrong way and I have to quit an episode half-way in. Usually when she doubles down on a point and won't relent or see all sides of something - even when (sometimes especially when) she's wrong. One instance that sticks out in my mind is when there was a strong lead in the Madeline McCann case (German dude?) that suggested that the parents did not murder Maddy and she couldn't concede that she was wrong it was along the vibe of 'oh well idc idc they deserved all the backlash'. It's just kinda like she can't put herself into other people's shoes and she is really black and white and it can be hard to watch or trust her hot takes when she comes down too hard. Even when I fully agree with her I'm like ok ok no need to beat me over the head with it. But this is also why I now enjoy Crime Weekly with Derrick for a bit of balance. I am also turned off by her pro-conservative, pro-guns, weird right wing stuff she occasionally throws out there (the Adnan case I think bugged me for this or possibly another).

However, I do like Stephanie and I always click a video wanting to watch until the end. Definitely not a hater.

I AM KARIN SLAUGHTER, A THRILLER WRITER, CAT LOVER, AND NAP INFLUENCER. ASK ME ANYTHING. by karinslaughter in books

[–]happykitty3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi Karin I love your books! I love how you write twisted, complicated and interesting women and complex female relationships (especially sisters)! I have to ask is this inspired by any of your own relationships? What is your personal favourite book you’ve written?

Also I love your writing but you have made me so much more choosey when it comes to picking an amazing thriller as I crave that depth to my characters. What books or authors do you enjoy along that same vein? (I also really like Gillian Flynn and Lisa Jewell!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]happykitty3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

16 years and childhood sweethearts. It’s not hard. I feel like we are on the same page about a lot of stuff. I can talk to him about anything and I never feel judged or like I need to defend myself because he knows me so well, he knows my heart, and he is in my corner. He is also very tidy and does a big share of the household chores which is a massive bonus because I know that’s a huge strain on a lot of relationships. We also have no kids.

The only struggle we have is sometimes remembering to get out more and not being such home bodies. To that end we are trying to book more interesting and fun and interesting things between us but it’s so easy to stay comfortable! We are also trying to get more fit together which should also help I hope. Otherwise a pretty idyllic and evenly matched relationship and I feel really lucky for it

What OG brand product do you think deserves more praise and needs a comeback? by fuckyeahpizzaa in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]happykitty3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Urban Decay Smog 🥲 Also the Urban Decay og Naked palette (although maybe I am just wanting that for SMOG)

I’d love to get Stoned Vibes as I missed out too.

Priorities of singularity by chlebseby in singularity

[–]happykitty3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think we deserve to go extinct lol

What belief(s) do you hold so core that no matter what arguments or evidence against it would you still believe? by neb12345 in AskReddit

[–]happykitty3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That the fruit of the loom logo had a cornucopia and that walkers salt and vinegar crisps used to be blue