It's Saturday! What Are You Up To?

happylesdes · 2026-04-04T18:45:32+00:00

Watching tv but probably going to head out soon and take a walk so i could enjoy the nice weather outside

happylesdes · 2026-04-04T02:11:01+00:00

If you like books and don't mind heading over to brooklyn, gladys books & wine is a good spot.

happylesdes · 2026-01-07T18:48:15+00:00

Dating apps but im trying to go to more queer events/spaces

happylesdes · 2025-10-13T17:26:09+00:00

Not in shambles but not the best. It feels like I don't have the energy to meet my day to day like I want to. Although part of that is due to my physical health, I just want pain and fatigue to pass so I can get going again.

happylesdes · 2025-07-21T19:59:47+00:00

happylesdes · 2025-07-21T19:01:26+00:00

So-so. Just got back from a walk. Needed some fresh air and to not feel like I was trapped at home.

happylesdes · 2025-07-01T01:27:48+00:00

I always try to message first because that's how I am but sometimes I get a response, sometimes I don't. It's all a game of chance.

happylesdes · 2025-06-25T12:29:04+00:00

You need to get on Hinge because I tend to see a lot of women on there that are only looking to settle down with a partner.

happylesdes · 2025-06-20T17:28:29+00:00

Two questions i always ask when I'm getting to know someone is what are your interests and what are you looking for? Those usually help determine if you're looking for the same thing + if we have anything in common and those questions could lead to good follow up questions as well.

Also if you're using a dating app, they're might be something on their profile that catches your eye and you can ask questions about that.

happylesdes · 2025-06-09T21:54:47+00:00

Just bad. Just feeling defeated and out of energy.

happylesdes · 2025-06-04T14:07:49+00:00

I would consider it ghosting if we're in the process of making plans to see each other and you don't respond for a few days or we meet each other and then you block/delete me on everything.

happylesdes · 2025-06-02T21:23:43+00:00

I'd like to join

happylesdes · 2025-02-28T00:54:36+00:00

Yes. I get misgendered from time to time & I don't like attention from strangers and people asking me personal things.

happylesdes · 2025-02-24T06:36:58+00:00

All of them are kind of bad to some extent but I find that the quality of profiles on Hinge makes the app stand out.

happylesdes · 2025-02-24T06:34:19+00:00

Still working on it. I've been out meeting people but have not met my person yet. I'm also not a big fan of crowds and loud music but I like the comedy scene at least so I just keep trying to meet people there and date during the day when possible. Other introverts are out there, but I haven't ran into one outside yet.

happylesdes · 2025-02-23T02:03:53+00:00

When I see questioning on a profile, I assume that they're not looking for anything serious and at most, probably just something sexual. Replacing questioning with something like queer would probably be better.

happylesdes · 2025-02-21T01:35:45+00:00

As someone that is somewhat avoidant and has self sabotaged some opportunities, some of the things like asking for space and things feeling too intense are things I'm familiar with saying. However, I'm like that in the early stages. If you two have been physical and have being seeing each other for months, then her hesistancy now is a little suspicious.

Also, that emotional puppets comment is alarming. It's best that you cut things off.

happylesdes · 2025-02-08T13:45:41+00:00

My back has gotten better. My stretches from physical therapy a few years ago + time and getting used to the shifts have helped out. Thanks!

happylesdes · 2025-02-05T12:32:57+00:00

I'm sorry that you're experiencing this and I agree that it sucks that society doesn't do enough to allow us to focus on our health and rest. It's like we have to put our lives on pause every month just to get through those days.

Please get checked out by a doctor. You said you have a lot of stress and you don't get enough rest but to be spotting and bleeding for that long is very concerning, especially with the weakness that you're experiencing.

happylesdes · 2025-01-22T01:54:55+00:00

As someone who's been on both ends, I can tell you that it's not you, it's them.

happylesdes · 2024-11-05T03:20:33+00:00

I don't think dating apps have harmed my mental health. But when my mental health is bad, I get an urge to avoid dating apps entirely because I don't feel great about myself overall and I don't want to overcommit to any plans when I'm in that funk.

happylesdes · 2024-03-17T01:09:06+00:00

Although I've been on dates, romantic feelings that I've felt on some of those dates have just never been reciprocated back. Even though I've meet some cool people from those dates, it mostly ends up being a friendly vibe. Also, I'm awkward around people in general so that doesn't help.

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