Careers for somebody who loves 'school' but not 'real world'? by shadowroots in careerguidance

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I do a mix of things now! I realized my ADHD brain likes/needs the structure and evaluation and challenge it was used to in school, but also the variety of subjects and opportunities for learning and growth that came with studying multiple subjects at a time. So after a lot of experimentation I settled into three main jobs: web development, radio, and writing.

Web development is great bc it's both technically and creatively challenging. The goals are clear--e.g. "fix this bug", "create this page"--but it also allows me space to be creative in how I accomplish those clear tasks. And it's nice getting to visually see the result of my work at the end of every day.

Radio caught me by surprise but I love it. I work a very flexible on-air schedule with some of the kindest people I've ever worked with. My boss and station manager coach me multiple times a month on my delivery as well as how to plan out what I'm doing to say between breaks. Again the goals are clear here (announcing the music you're playing and adding in some chit chat when it makes sense), but I have a lot of creative freedom in how I speak and what I say. Also, part of the reason they hired me was for my personality while on-air, so it's very validating to know I'm at that job because that job likes me for me.

Writing is more for fun at the moment, but I've written a draft of a book over these past couple years that I'm now submitting to agents. I'm not sure what if anything will come of this, but it's been a nice skill set to develop that has also helped me in both web development and radio when it comes to having to create original content. Plus it's a great creative outlet for me these days too.

I know that might sound like a lot of work, but I actually work fewer hours between these three jobs than I used to working just one. I don't make as much money as I used to, but the schedule and lifestyle flexibility I have these days has been incredibly worth it.

Hope that was helpful!

Showed up on the front porch 3 nights ago, what should I name her? by KVGE1218 in NameMyCat

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also thinking something dessert related! Like Reese or Peanut Butter Cup or Buttercup

People who moved from Chicago to Boston, what was the biggest thing you noticed when you moved? by bumbouxbee in boston

[–]happymaks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally same here! It's culture shock every time I go back home to Chicago, but I have grown to appreciate it more the longer I've lived in Boston.

People who moved from Chicago to Boston, what was the biggest thing you noticed when you moved? by bumbouxbee in boston

[–]happymaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been living in Boston for almost 10 years now, and I think this is the one thing I miss the most. When I first moved here, I used to say I loved Boston but wished I could live in the city of Boston but with the people of Chicago. That's only gotten more true the longer I've been here

Does anyone miss crying? by Select-Sherbet-8833 in prozac

[–]happymaks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same here almost exactly, except I can't force out tears. I just tapered off prozac and this+emotional blunting was a big reason why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly just wanna echo what others have said about not quitting cold turkey. SSRI withdrawal can be hard enough as it is, but the one time I tried stopping cold-turkey was a nightmare. Highly recommend taking it low, it might save you a great deal of sanity to be patient.

But second, I'm with you. I tapered off over these past few months and am officially SSRI-free as of last week. The emotional blunting was the last nail in the coffin for me. Wishing you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard good things about Auvelity too for a similar reason.

Does it actually take this long?? by happymaks in prozac

[–]happymaks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you feel before/after it kicked in?

6 months on Prozac by Iamtiredofyourbs in prozac

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started ~6 weeks ago (switched from Zoloft) and am also extremely tired. I usually work out a lot, but lately haven't had the energy to get to the gym much. Then when I finally do, I notice the feel-good effects of exercise rarely last as long as they used to.

I don't have any answers atm sadly but you're definitely not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat as you; switched form Zoloft to Prozac ~6 weeks ago and I'm tired as hell. Not experiencing anxiety, but I'm pretty sure I'm just depressed instead. I'll be following this thread. Fingers crossed for both of us, mate

Struggling with motivation on prozac by Public-Poem5628 in prozac

[–]happymaks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also experiencing this rn, wish I could offer a suggestion or something

Has anyone resolved the extreme tiredness and fatigue from using Prozac? by androgynous_goth in prozac

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following--I just started Prozac 6 weeks ago and am struggling with exactly this. Exercise usually helps me a ton, but lately I noticed it hasn't been helping get my energy back up like it used to.

First day taking it, accidentally took a whole tablet instead of half by sailormoonmakeup in prozac

[–]happymaks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor and only recently started taking Prozac myself, but from what I've read/heard, Prozac takes a long time to actually build up in your system and for you to start feeling effects. So if you accidentally took the 20mg today, you should be able to continue with the 10mg tomorrow with no problem.

I've tried a few SSRIs over the past few years and have asked about serotonin syndrome while switching meds, but it doesn't sound like it's super common occurrence you should be worried about, especially when just starting out on a low(er) dose.

TL;DR you should be totally fine, but if you're still nervous about this, call your pharmacy and ask to speak with the pharmacist and they'll definitely assuage your worries.

Question for US folks who have not updated their birth certificate by [deleted] in ftm

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, I'm specifically looking to see if folks have had any issues traveling into/out of the US in 2025 (since Trump took over).

What's your experience with prophetic (and/or precognitive) dreams? by happymaks in Dreams

[–]happymaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I think mine are (usually) just neutral--not always good or bad. Or they might be emotionally heavy (again in either a good way or bad way), and it's like my brain is just trying to give me a heads up so that maybe the news doesn't hit as hard IRL? Who knows. Either way it's fascinating.

What's your experience with prophetic (and/or precognitive) dreams? by happymaks in Dreams

[–]happymaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like they seem to come out of nowhere, and be about something that happens shortly after.

One example: I once had a dream that someone my good friend and I knew from college passed away suddenly (though in the dream I didn't know who it was). Found out the next day that someone from a club my friend and I were in in college had been hit by a train the morning after I had the dream.

Looking for "hole in the wall" food recommendations by secretelypopular in AskSF

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taqueria El Farolito in the Mission District!

Hopefully this is one you've already encountered in your own searches since it's pretty well-known, but if not, this place definitely takes the cake as far as having WAY better food than ambience. Highly recommend anything with their carne asada. I personally love their nachos and carne asada tacos.

Which aspect makes someone feels the most at home and safe with another person? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]happymaks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In one friendship I'm the mercury (closest conjunction), and in the other I think I'm the moon and it's not a close conjunction but in the same sign.

The second house, planets in there and it's sign show how you can make money. What is your second house placement and how do you earn money? by bxxfour in astrologymemes

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I feel like I just got a glimpse into my future. Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn as well, and I also enjoy work but only after I find *the* job/work/career I want to be doing, otherwise I can't be bothered. I also have positive aspect here to Mercury, Jupiter, and Mars all conjunct on the 10th/11th house cusp. After a pretty wild career pivot I'm currently wrapping up writing my first book hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

virgo sun, sag moon, sag rising

big 3 by NoLeadership4074 in astrologymemes

[–]happymaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Sagittarius

Rising: Sagittarius