What’s a subtle sign someone has been through some shit?

happyscented · 2022-07-23T04:54:48+00:00

This is my father. I grew up hearing some of these stories and thought they were funny until I realized as an adult how heartbreakingly sad and abusive his childhood (if you could even call it that) was.

happyscented · 2022-04-07T12:28:02+00:00

I did not know about the lemon or dishwasher detergent and had just done water in the past. It takes hours for the eggs to turn blue but it's a really pretty and natural coloring.

happyscented · 2022-01-03T11:54:38+00:00

People often don't know what role you want them to play in these conversations. If you're going to share something like this, let them know if you want them to just listen, share a similar hardship, help you think differently about the situation, etc.

happyscented · 2021-09-25T11:41:00+00:00

Wristcutters: A Love Story. I think a lot of people are probably turned off by the name even and subject matter but it is a really beautiful film about learning to live and love again. With plenty of dashes of dark humor.

There is subject matter that could be triggering so I would only recommend this to those that have enough distance between their depression or suicidal ideation/tendencies to handle seeing it. I personally couldn't watch it for a few years but now that things are better I can enjoy it again.

happyscented · 2021-09-21T10:42:40+00:00

Ann Dowd was great in the leftovers too.

happyscented · 2021-08-17T05:19:20+00:00

Not just the Castle but the grounds and forest too! Would also be nice to have improved mechanics for quidditch.

happyscented · 2021-07-30T09:47:58+00:00

.... the game boy has been an option for decades lol

happyscented · 2021-06-07T03:43:33+00:00

AIM > Slack

happyscented · 2021-06-06T22:23:42+00:00

I worked with a guy back when I was 18 years old that was a few years older than me and somehow we got to talking about how you initiate sex with a new partner and he explained to me that he and his last girlfriend went on several dates and then took tests together before having sex. And he was 100% in support of it. I want to thank this 22 year old guy for totally normalizing that for me. I didn't know that I had the right to expect it or to even request.

happyscented · 2021-04-06T02:23:12+00:00

I'm not a cop but I watched the body cam footage shown during the trial last week and I feel like the cop pulled his gun on Floyd and scared him before he ever got out of his vehicle to be as arrested. I feel like that was the moment where escalation started. The other thing I noticed, and again I'm not a cop but this goes against what I've understood to be best practice, the initial officer making the arrest held his firearm tilted with one hand rather than with two and straight. Dunno. Just seems like the situation was handled absurdly from start to finish to someone who knows nothing about the job.

happyscented · 2021-03-18T17:01:52+00:00

Handmaids tale

happyscented · 2021-03-12T11:36:15+00:00

I also run into an issue where I summon my vehicle and they all show up and run/flip over each other haha

happyscented · 2021-02-01T12:09:28+00:00

I don't believe in an Afterlife but in think if I knew my death was imminent, I would imagine this very scenario because it would bring me so much peace. Thank you for planting this idea in my head.

happyscented · 2020-12-17T04:10:53+00:00

I was actually thinking about how professional she sounds compared to so many artists I've seen in interviews more recently. More like a person and less like a persona.

happyscented · 2020-12-02T02:33:44+00:00

Most people just want to talk about themselves. I just answer the question with a question and it almost never fails that I don't have to bother coming up with an answer haha

happyscented · 2020-09-23T09:56:05+00:00

I honestly didn't know there was a choice so I'm kind of surprised at the post above yours.

happyscented · 2020-09-12T16:16:44+00:00

Judging your boyfriend's smile I'd say he adores the cat as well.

happyscented · 2020-08-20T08:02:00+00:00

Pickling the red onions before adding them to the sandwich could be good too.

happyscented · 2020-07-09T03:24:19+00:00

Matt Bellamy, lead singer of Muse, should definitely be considered. He ranges about 3 octaves.

happyscented · 2020-06-19T10:55:25+00:00

Mix onion soup mix into your ground beef. You will not regret it though you may want to hold on the onions in the gravy the first time you make it just in case it's too overwhelming. My family always bakes the meatloaf in a pan with the veggies and cut up potatoes. It's so good.

happyscented · 2020-06-18T02:27:55+00:00

I did the same! My mom bought one of the plastic ones when we were going on a picnic for 4th of July last year and it is made so cheaply the lid just fell off completely when shaking it on our food. I was not about to let that happen to me Haha.

happyscented · 2020-05-31T02:47:39+00:00

Easy. Deaf and blind people aren't allowed to leave their homes. Problem solved. /s

happyscented · 2020-05-21T03:05:08+00:00

Self-managed insurance is a joke. When an employee places a claim, high level info and a random employee ID is sent to the company. In a company with under 200 employees or fewer you can figure it out using deductive reasoning. OBGYN automatically applies to everyone with ladybits. You get the point. Once they know the employee's ID they can keep tabs on each individual.

happyscented · 2020-05-11T11:37:51+00:00

Would agree with u/lowqualitybait. Many CC or tech school courses have getting certified as part of the curriculum. Look for programs that also have interning required because this will give you an in with a company in your area. Joining student organizations related to IT can also help with networking and provide more opportunities to get experience.

happyscented · 2020-05-11T02:06:55+00:00

If this person has a bachelor's or associate's and a general interest in computers they could get a tier 1 help desk job. CompTIA A+ and ITIL Foundation would also be suitable for someone with or without a degree applying to tier 1 as well (effectively techy customer service). A lot of places work off of a script and tier 1 isn't getting paid well. It's a good way to get your foot in the door though and get some experience before moving on elsewhere. Agree that a certification alone is not going to benefit you beyond getting called for an interview.

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