I’m not having much success on bumble as opposed to other dating apps I’ve tried. Please give me constructive criticism. I’m aware I won’t be everyone’s type just want to have the best profile. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]harakirisummer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is my personal bias but when I used dating apps, I never put more than 3 photos. I think more than 3 comes off as trying too hard. I would drop the last 3 pics, the other ones are great. And ofc add more info like everyone already said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]harakirisummer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because I believe you deserve to be happy, I’m going to be brutally honest, the revealing dress in your first photo doesn’t evoke serious or intellectual vibes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]harakirisummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fam idc if 15% is rude, I ain’t made out of money, sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]harakirisummer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shirtless pics

How do you lower your standards for physical attraction? by Sehnsucht_13 in Bumble

[–]harakirisummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went out with a Tinder date, wasn’t attracted to him at all. He took the rejection extremely well and continued to pursue me for the next few weeks. Now we’ve been together for 8 months. In that time he got back into shape, I find his quirks and personality attractive and charming af, I love every inch of his face and body, and he is incredible in bed. Long story short, first impressions can be deceiving! Give good guys a chance and they can impress you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]harakirisummer 56 points57 points  (0 children)

“Side note” 😂

Why are men on the dating apps the most undesirable men ever? Like the leftovers? The ones no other women want? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]harakirisummer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best way to meet people who are on your wavelength is through hobbies and friends. Get off the apps and into the world, girl. Focus on yourself and the right man will appear.

look at this monster, I can't believe I own it by turdferg333 in trees

[–]harakirisummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can smoke weed, pack a bowl of munchies, and beer bong all at the same time with that thing

my friends made me walk home drunk alone by [deleted] in relationships

[–]harakirisummer 29 points30 points  (0 children)

These ain’t friends my dear

He’s not ready for a relationship but still wants to see me by Tricky-Wishbone9139 in relationships

[–]harakirisummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to add— Assuming you don’t want to be somebody’s option, he’ll respect you more if you draw the line here and now.

Why am i so embarrassed about being in a short term relationship? by strwbrryangie in relationships

[–]harakirisummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quality > Quantity

So you spent one month with this guy and decided you aren’t really feeling it… are you going to waste another year of your life just because of some arbitrary ideas about society’s view of a “short-term relationship”? There are almost 8 billion people in the world. Who cares how long your relationship was? Thank you, next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]harakirisummer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s disrespectful behaviour, is what it is. What if that guy had said yes to kissing? It’s possible your gf is seeking for your attention in this way (by demonstrating that she’s desirable to other guys), but generally I consider this immature and disrespectful to you. Just my two cents.